No, I developed in interest in it during my puberty. Never had any trauma before I reached adulthood.
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ThatNoUVAtYourEyesXper 5
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Off the top of my head, yes. Either the need to punish the abusive parent projected onto the other person, or the need (or habit) of being punished by those who had sexual impulses towards the person
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CaramelpieXper 7
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Yes, some are psychopathic or people with mental issues but not all of them like that
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Luckycharms12Guru
+1 y
It can be for some. M'm just open to everything only live once try everything
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OnTheLevelYoda
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Honestly, I think most of the people into BDSM these days are into it because it's considered cool.
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Subarugirl
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that I can definitely agree with
This_Is_My_Opinion8Xper 7
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Not at all. I a kink like any other. I do it and I have no traumas.
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2ndTryatThisXper 6
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I know mine is.. it’s very indicative of what I experienced.
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Charliefretz329Guru
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I think it might be in my case...
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SalvatoreCordileoneXper 4
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Maybe
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EaterPeterGuru
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I think so.
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BeachLuvR97Xper 6
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Yes.
But, sometimes, I think that women just find it thrilling to have a man take complete control of them. And vice versa.
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StrikeJamXper 6
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No. I don't think it has this background... just some specific excitement
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HanmakevXper 4
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Yes I got bullied by girls a lot and it was always weirdly sexual
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Bklynbadboy12Guru
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No for me its about the control
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Bklynbadboy12
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Have you ever done it
Subarugirl
+1 y
Yes I’ve been into bdsm for a long time
Bklynbadboy12
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Good so you understand exactly what I mean
B4852Yoda
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Interesting question. I'd say that there is a lot of truth in that idea, but I don't think it's 100% across the board.
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Subarugirl
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I don't think it is either, but I wonder what percentage of people in the kink community it does apply to. I feel like it has to be higher than vanilla dynamics.
B4852
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Totally agree with that.
rebeliouseExplorer
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@subarugirl dont we all ask for a friend ;)
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Slim57Master
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You tell us
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Subarugirl
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Tell you what?
Slim57
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If bdsm is the result of some sort of trauma
Subarugirl
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I think it can be for some people and not at all for others.
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Slim57
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Gotcha, honestly don't know I've never had a partner that was into it, but from the answers here most of the time it seems like it is, but nothing wrong with it, not really my thing but I wouldn't mind trying it for a partner
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No, I developed in interest in it during my puberty. Never had any trauma before I reached adulthood.
Off the top of my head, yes.
Either the need to punish the abusive parent projected onto the other person, or the need (or habit) of being punished by those who had sexual impulses towards the person
Yes, some are psychopathic or people with mental issues but not all of them like that
It can be for some. M'm just open to everything only live once try everything
Honestly, I think most of the people into BDSM these days are into it because it's considered cool.
that I can definitely agree with
Not at all. I a kink like any other.
I do it and I have no traumas.
I know mine is.. it’s very indicative of what I experienced.
I think it might be in my case...
Maybe
I think so.
Yes.
But, sometimes, I think that women just find it thrilling to have a man take complete control of them. And vice versa.
No. I don't think it has this background... just some specific excitement
Yes I got bullied by girls a lot and it was always weirdly sexual
No for me its about the control
Have you ever done it
Yes I’ve been into bdsm for a long time
Good so you understand exactly what I mean
Interesting question. I'd say that there is a lot of truth in that idea, but I don't think it's 100% across the board.
I don't think it is either, but I wonder what percentage of people in the kink community it does apply to. I feel like it has to be higher than vanilla dynamics.
Totally agree with that.
@subarugirl
dont we all ask for a friend ;)
You tell us
Tell you what?
If bdsm is the result of some sort of trauma
I think it can be for some people and not at all for others.
Gotcha, honestly don't know I've never had a partner that was into it, but from the answers here most of the time it seems like it is, but nothing wrong with it, not really my thing but I wouldn't mind trying it for a partner
I don't think so.