Do you think that interest in BDSM is usually the result of some sort of trauma?

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Do you think that interest in BDSM is usually the result of some sort of trauma?
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  • no i dont i noticed that bdsm is a big part of white culture in terms of sexual practices but ya can literally do whatever as long as no one's harmed in the process

  • I feel that a woman should be respected a lot better in this case I mean I’ve never seen anything like it so I wouldn’t know but I still feel that woman shouldn’t be treated like animals neither should they be treating like a pet and it makes me upset at the thought that people actually enjoy seeing a woman trespassed upon like she’s a slave only created for the pleasure of monsters. Just my opinion dislike it, like it, do what you will, but I stand with what I type. Woman should be respected.

    • A lot of women really enjoy that though, including me. As long as both parties are consenting adults, I don't see an issue.

  • Absolutely not discovering I was a sub led to the best sex of my life

  • I don’t think it’s necessarily from trauma. I’m more of a follower than a leader so I guess giving the reigns and trust to my partner to have their way with me and use me would be pleasurable. But at the same time that they are going to look after me. I would love to be tied up and her have her way with me, especially incorporating my fetish.

  • Na. I like it because I love when a girl submits to me but I also love it when a girl claims me and dominates me. But Femdom is trash. Femdom is a bunch of degrading name calling and that isn't love at all. Telling dude they are worthless and shit and making them wear cages. Shit is weird.

  • Is this like ball crushin, whips and strangling bdsm or being tied up and eaten out bdsm?

  • I have had trauma and am not into BDSM.

  • What are your thoughts on people who don't lose their virginity until sometime in their 20s? Just asking because historically it seems to be the norm for people to lose their virginity in their teenage years

    • Would you please stop asking that question