Do you think these 2 scenarios are equivalent?

Scenario 1: A woman is giving her boyfriend orgasms during vaginal sex, but she can't orgasm without receiving oral sex. He refuses to give her oral. She dumps him because she's tired of the frustration of not getting release of sexual tension (orgasm).

Scenario 2: A man gets sexual release from orgasming during vaginal intercourse, yet he dumps his girlfriend for denying him the additional bonus of anal sex because it's too painful.

In one of these situations, a person is dumping their partner because they're tired of being constantly frustrated by not getting sexual release; in another, a person is dumping their partner because their partner won't submit to a painful activity that is ultimately just a bonus that isn't vital for sexual release.

Do you believe these 2 scenarios are equivalent? Please read all options before voting.
Do you think these 2 scenarios are equivalent?
The people in both scenarios are equally selfish for dumping their partners.
Vote A
Neither of them are selfish in their reasoning for dumping their partners. However, the person in Scenario 1 has a more reasonable reason.
Vote B
Neither of them are selfish in their reasoning for dumping their partners. Both reasons are equally reasonable.
Vote C
Only the person in Scenario #2 is selfish. The person in Scenario #1 is not selfish.
Vote D
Both are selfish, but the person in Scenario #2 is much more selfish than the person in Scenario #1.
Vote E
Both are selfish, but the person in Scenario #2 is more selfish than the person in Scenario #1.
Vote F
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Anyone saying the woman is selfish needs to imagine how they would feel if every time they had sex, they got "blue clit"/"blue balls" due to lack of orgasm. If every sexual encounter ended in sexual frustration, who would want to continue having sex? It's not selfish to want to orgasm If your partner is also having an orgasm
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  • If I become your boyfriend I will give you good Orgasm

  • Actually we stop in middle and again start

  • Sex is all about giving and receiving not demanding

    • Yeah but if a man's getting orgasms, it's reasonable for a woman to expect to orgasm too, instead of being left with blue-clit.

    • If having sex with this guy is just bringing the woman sexual frustration, then it's reasonable to not want to be with that guy anymore.

    • I love your 'blue-clit' terminology @mistixs -- I've never seen that before, did you invent it?

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  • Sexual compatibility is a must... They should mutually break off after healthy discussion... Both situations are different

  • Yes I do

  • Oral sex is somewhat mandatory action.
    Both can't ignore.
    When both are in bed its mutual understanding that both should satisfy at the end, if anyone breaks this then the purpose of sexual relationship is waste.

  • he is selfish

  • I enjoy making sure that the lady gets treated very very well and respect!

  • Could you send me vids and pics of you naked and masturbating please?

  • Agh it's hard making a woman orgasm only lesbians can do that shit

    It's like women expect to you to bring them your order... Without ordering about what you want

    • It all boils down on knowing what and where to touch.. And the body responds

  • You already answered your loaded question by yourself.

  • I'm not going to answer the poll because it's an unrealistic scenario. I'll explain.

    " A woman is giving her boyfriend orgasms during vaginal sex"

    This ^^ statement is incorrect because the woman is not "giving him" orgasms. She is being passive. She's doing nothing.

    "she's tired of the frustration of not getting release of sexual tension (orgasm)"

    You make this ^^ sound as if it's his fault she's not having orgasms. It's not. Women need to dump the outdated belief that the man is responsible for everyone's orgasms. Women have their own hands and fingers and if they let go of the notion that the man has to do all the work, they can take responsibility for their own pleasure and give themselves more orgasms.

    • Are you a virgin? They need emotional connection with the partner in bed, they also need attention, they get sexualy aroused (lubricated) so that sex won't be painful for both. Everytime you have sex with a woman is because she consent to spread her legs and allow you inside her, you can't highten her arousal to get to orgasm and leave her hanging like a sex doll. Sooner or later you'll end up alone in your 40s with this attitude

    • @dany018 No, I have been married for 4 years and we have a great sexual relationship. She has multiple orgasms every time but she doesn't hesitate to touch herself like most women do, and we are both better off for it. Everyone would be. Nothing else you said here has any relation to what I was talking about. A woman "consents to spread her legs" just like a man consents to have sex with her, so I;m not sure what the hell that has to do with anything. Regardless, it doesn't mean she has to lay there passively like a starfish and hope the guy does everything for her. Your mentality is very outdated.

    • If enjoying to pleasure my girl means outdated, so be it. I hope your wife is happy with basically masturbating in your presence

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