Do you think this dad is irresponsible?

I spoke to a man who said he would let his 14 year old son have sex with an older woman if it's legal, and then when she would get pregnant and make him pay child support. He said this is his fault and it would be a learning lesson from him. This is probably the worst parent I ever met.
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  • Personally this is a hypothetical question that is not likely to ever occur, so I don't have any clue on what to do, because it is only leaning towards the "son", and excludes a "daughter" scenario so in my mind it isn't something that I would ever think about. I have much more important things to run around with in my brain. I am sorry if my reply is not what you are looking as a reply, although they are my thoughts.🌹

    • I am just asking about the das

    • *dad

  • I agree with you. He's a terrible dad.

  • When did you talk to this guy, 1977?

  • Yeah I don't think the 14 year old should not have sex at all especially with a older woman. If he gets her pregnant that could ruin his life and his dad should tell him how to use protection.

    • What if he teaches him how to use protection

    • I still he is still to young but I guess if he protects himself and the woman I guess if they really wanted but the dad is still irresponsible for his son to have sex with a older woman.

    • It's pedophilia and the older woman is a pervert

  • The kids life would be over at 14 years old. He's an ass

  • I mean I understand why he thinks that way, but its not the right way to teach your child how to be responbile. Actually its a great way to see him fall into debt and worse

  • As a 14 year old, if he knows what to do with his penis. Then he is old enough to use it responsibly and accept responsibility for whatever may come of it.
    As his father, I would not encourage him to do so.

    • Would you say that if it was your daughter getting pregnant?

    • @jessiebellll. Substitute vagina for penis. Unless it is rape or immaculant conception, It still takes two willing partners.

  • Mad person

  • I agree.

  • This doesn't feel like a question anymore... I mean, who in the right mind would think he isn't ill fitted to be a parent?

  • I was his "Son"

    • What?

    • it sounds like my life story, only I was the "son"

    • OK but what about the actual question?

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  • Yeah, absurdly irresponsible.
    Just because it's not a crime (see japan) doesn't mean it's a good idea.

    At the very least instruct for condom use, still vet the partner if there's any concerns, and child support is based on earnings and most 14yo earn nothing.

    Also, if you have a kid with a brat, you aren't capable of raising a kid, so instead I'd ask for full custody.

  • WTF is wrong with the world

  • Just crazy

  • Well no the parent approved it it's legal.

  • This proves the importance of a woman swallowing.