Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Do you think this is wrong or fine?
JessieBellll Yoda
My sons friend is currently seeing a hot girl for sex, she is 16 which is legal in our country and he is 49 and single. I have to say its pretty hot, as I find him attractive. Her parents just remain neutral, but the dad was mad.
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8 75as long as its legal its fine
I can relate with the girl. At her age a waitress in a local cafe flirted outrageously with me. I loved her to bits but it never went beyond free ice cream with my apple pie. Nowadays I can't get excited by 20-somethings, never mind adolescents, so I cannot relate with the gentleman. I just don't get it. It takes all kinds to make a world so I'm not making any judgements here.
They are legal. So... nothing bad certainly... but just kind of weird is all.
It is fine. The government set an age limit and she is legal.
Not cool at all. Smh
Says you
Dad is probably jealous and wants to shag his own daughter himself,,,
Would you be jealous?
yes I would, yes I would fantasise bout having sex with my own daughter, but would never attempt it, so I would be frustrated as well as jealous,,,
So you think its fine?
Just to confirm, your son's friend is 49 year old male and single?, her parents (mother and father) are neutral, but her dad is mad, so she's living with her stepdad and genetic mom?, and her genetic father is angry?
No, there is no stepdad
you mean the 49 year olds dad then?
The girls
How can you not understand
I don't think it's wrong I know it's wrong. if anybody agrees with a teenager being with a grown ass man your fucking sick.
As you can see lots are OK with it. You are just being a prude because its a man
You have a weird bias
And you are a hypocrite because you agree for a teenager to be with s grown ass woman, so you are fucking sick too
What country are you in that it is legal for a grown adult to have sex with a 16 year old girl? Seems kind of strange to me. In USA, age 18 is the legally recognized age of sexual consent.
Uk..
I’ve honestly never heard that was a thing over there. It seems so odd.
So you think its OK or wrong
Wrong. A female at 16 is still a girl and may not be fully matured physically.
Actually they mature faster than boys
Yeah, but not all females mature at the same time physically.
Most do
Yeah but most isn’t all.
Dads are generally protective of daughters
But that doesn't answer the question
It's legal ao it can't be wrong
Yet you are against it. Why?
The age difference is a bit too much. It just looks creepy.
And if it's a boy with a 49 year old woman it's not creepy?
Still pretty creepy, but society accepts it more
How?
By society who do you mean?
I think you are the society and have a bias
Society has a bias. We are all members of society.
Clearly a lot of people are not biased. It's just a minority in my opinion
I am not talking about individuals.
But it's all about individuals
Not when we're talking about what is considered less contrary.
What is that? That makes no sense, especially considering the bias is more men based.
I don't make the bias. It's there. I don't know why.
Speak for yourself, it's you
@badzo
@JessieBellll
@Badzo you are wrong, I think it's OK for girls to have sex with much older men if they are attractive. It's totally fine. For boys, the older woman can't have sex with them.
How it ok for older men to have sex with young ladies and its not ok in the opposite i dont get you point
@Badzo I liked older men when I was a teen. And they get hate from people like you and other idiots while the woman does not. I think it's OK for the man to use the girl how he wants if he's attractive.
I dont care about what other people do its doesn't bother me at all and you're clling me an idiot now? Seriously you need to calm down everyone has his own point of view if you dont share yours with others you have no rights to call them idiots and stuff
@Badzo I never called you an idiot, those other men are
Hey look I get your point you were happy but people kept judging you. I really dont care every single one is free to do what he likes with his/her life. I dont know why you're mad at me. You seemed like an understanding woman
@Badzo not really, I am speaking for the men. Not the girls. They are happy anyways. I am not angry, just annoyed. I am way more understanding than most people
@Badzo I was annoyed because these pervert men let these women use the boys. It's disgusting
@Twalli so do you think its OK or not? You are confusing
I personally believe peop kn e shouldn't have sex before 18. That doesn't happen. If a young guy is to have sex with an older woman, one whi is no longer able to bear children is best.
This question wasn't about a young guy with an older woman
Not unless there's a way to ensure with 100% certainty she won't get pregnant or STDs.
It's a silly reason to say its wrong in my opinion but it's your opinion
Its fucking awesome,
Bless
that's too big an age gap. that girls brain is still developing as is the rest of her body.
I dnt know
Why don't you know when you just told me if both parties consent it's OK? What is your point here?
it's not about being legal or not is she mature?
I don't mean as in growing boobs, voice tone, height and whatnot no I mean mentally does she sound like a woman? like she isn't a big kid anymore? if yes I guess you can let her carry her decisions if not then you know what to do.
Ofcourse I don't mean just evaluate her according to your thoughts speak with her in a mature manner you'll find out
Legal is legal. I doubt they could date well. But sex is just sex
Yeah it is
If she knows what she getting into, it's cool I guess
If it's legal and no one is being harmed it is their business. But I would be mad if I were her father
Completely wrong. A 49 year old seeing a 16 year old is a pedo.
That's factually incorrect but your opinion
How?
Because I don't see him as a pedo
49 year old having sex with a 16 year old is a pedo. That's a child. Any adult having sex with a child is a pedo especially with a 33 year age gap.
That's just your opinion
No it's not an opinion. It's a well known fact which the majority of people in real life agree with.
That's not true, I just go with the law
Some people are just triggered
It's fine it's legal and around normal historically.
I don't find it adequate. Being with someone 30 years younger is weird
It can be hot
I'm just fucked up by how humanity literally can't decide on a proper age of concent.
That doesn't answer the question
It should get ya thinkin.
What does that have to do with this
One is not even 18 and the other is in their late 40s.
So you think its wrong?