Do you think you can sex your way into someone's heart?

Question

This is a genuine question here. Do you think that if you have the skills in bed that you'll find a sweet spot in the other person's heart that creates the kind of bond they desperately don't want to break.

I ask this because sometimes it feels like some people spend more time perfecting their sex skills over personality flaws or actually gaining a perspective and mentally to wether the long term relationship obstacles...

melanieeeB · Answer

Nope never.

Aurora1010 · Answer

I don't think if it's just from sex that it would be real love, no it's not love but it might form a bond which brings them closer (not for everyone though) as you say... so it may form a base from which love could develope in some cases but the rest would depend on their personal compatibility.

oliver4love · Answer

It's only possible if you love someone deeply from heart ♥ otherwise sex is just a forcely orgasm

ArchivalMars2 · Answer

No, I don't think it's possible, the sex only gets you so far and the great feeling from it only lasts so long before it fades. That's why you have to have an actual legitimate bond built on something solid.

NathanDavis · Answer

I would never do something like that... every time I ended up in someone's heart before, I was after their souls... not after their Victoria's Secrets

ShadezMcgee · Answer

You don't sex your way into someone's heart, but it definitely increases the bond between two people because it is shared trust and vulnerability. If there are no feelings or attraction, sex either won't happen or will be a one time thing. If there are feelings and attraction and sex increases the feelings involved, then in a way, sure you could day you sexed your way into someone's heart.

DJaQueef · Answer

I can't sex my way into someone's heart, but I sure can cause some chaos to their bathroom by pulling an upper decker or reverse kanga on them.

boggboss · Answer

Nope I don't feel like the sex can lead to a person loving you maybe loving the sex but thats it

slatyb · Answer

No, I don't, because no one can have sex all the time. If a couple can't live together harmoniously, sex won't be enough to keep them together. Sexual compatibility is very important, but it's not sufficient.

jshm2 · Answer

Sure! But only until you age or someone "better" comes along.

That's the downside to such a tactic. Good sex is addictive and when either of you can't perform as well, there are other "dealers" out there.

Hence why it's not good to have a relationship based solely around sex. Fuckbuddies are a different matter - there is no commitment and nothing at stake

GingerGuy · Answer

I wouldn't say from their sexual skills specifically, however feelings can definitely develop from sex, especially over time. But for some people, it does nothing at all.

MelonSoda · Answer

I think it's a shitty way to go about winning someone over, but it's probably possible.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

It does help

Fireguy17 · Answer

I think for long term it still comes down to personality.  You need to want to be with that person when you aren't having sex.

Scoliosis-Smith · Answer

You certainly create a bond with sex alone. The only problem is that once sex stops or becomes less frequent, you have little to no connection left with the other person.

TrueCaliGirl07 · Answer

Relationships go far beyond sex, sure if the sex is great I'm sure it will benefit you but eventually it's going to overcome the real issues in a relationship. People that are invested in sex as the main component in a relationship aren't completely happy. So many things go into making a relationship healthy and you can't achieve that based on sex only.