Do you think you should sleep around when you're younger?

Do you think you should sow your oats before settling down?

I've heard several people say this. They say you should sleep around while you're young, before settling down, so that when you do settle down, you don't feel like you've missed out on being with other people, or so that you don't cheat on your partner because you need to sleep with others.

What's your opinion on this?
Yes, sleep around before settling down
Vote A
No, don't sleep around, but do date several people before settling down
Vote B
No. Not sleeping around doesn't mean you'll be missing out on anything
Vote C
Other
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  • It's hard to say. For guys, I think most should do a little bit. For women though I feel sleeping around hurts them more than men. Women could get raped, get a bad reputation, accidentally pregnancy and they could also end up feeling used and having a low self esteem. Only a woman that understands these potential consequences and prepares mentally can sleep around but she needs to be ready and very careful.

  • It all depends on what you want out of life. If you want to get married yet want to enjoy your life before that then yes, sleep around all you want. If you don't want to get married then (not) sleeping around when you're younger won't be a big regret when you're older. However, cheating on your partner because you didn't sleep around in your younger years is not an excuse.

  • Absolutely fucking not.

  • I think sleeping around should definitely be encouraged.

    If you don't sleep you'll die. :|

  • Sex is funny. I've never heard anyone say "you should try all the drugs you can else you feel like you missed out on heroin" or "try all the videogames on the planet putt else you'll feel like you missed out on Mario v. 43" but sex?

    Sex it's like "have as much sex with as many people as possible so that... You... Did that." And then somehow you have amazing sex with some one nighter and you're supposed to settle and marry second best and NOT regret it?

    People are dumb.

  • Missing out on what? HIV?
    lol I don't get what's so great about sleeping around like dogs
    Fall in love and share the intimate moment with your love

  • Yes and no. Yes because if you stay with one person your whole life you might always wonder what it's like to sleep with others. And then eventually you may want to settle and commit to one person, because u have been there done that.
    No because, at the same time I don't want a slut who has had loads of dicks in her. U know, stds, loose vagina could all be a consequence.

    • If you really love someone, you won't even think what it feels like to sleep with others , trust me. When you know your partner is best, you won't even feel the need to look at other people

    • @Hungry_Shark yh, but how will I know my girlfriend honestly feels like that?

    • If she is happy, she will be loyal to you and won't go out with other guys. I always stalk a girl who I think can be my serious girlfriend, i use my friends, private detectives etc, All you have to do is just observe her , when she comes, when she goes, with who she comes and with who she goes, once you are sure she is nice woman, marry her

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  • If u don't do it now then when? Do you gurantee your self to live along life? We could die tomrro lol. #YOLO

  • Damn I slept only once and it wasn't even sex, more then that I didn't flirt kiss or be intimate with a girl...

  • Im about to get attacked by feminists and similar retards, but my answer is: if you are a man - yes, if you are a woman - no. And this has nothing to do with sexism. Simply the two genders are different, and these are the best options

    • I love you man, because you did not fear getting attacked by feminist idiots and you spoke the absolute fucking TRUTH


  • Men should and women shouldn't. A girl who sleeps around lowers her value and is less desirable but a man who sleeps around is more desirable. It shows that he can attract lots of women

    • I love you man, because you did not fear getting attacked by feminist idiots and you the absolute ducking TRUTH

    • You spoke the absolute fucking truth

  • um nope

  • voted c... though, you will miss out on a few thing... just nothing good

  • Whatever you want

  • Sure, I could get raped, get an STI or worse, but at least I did it while I was young.

  • Don't buy a car before taking a few test drives first.

  • I say love the 1 who is your partner an stop thinking it makes a difference like 1 older woman told me if you have been with at least 3 partners in your whole life