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I've always viewed it as the person who is giving is taking control in a dominant way and the person receiving is taking the pleasure so more submissive. Am I wrong about this or no?
Do you view giving oral sex as dominant or submissive?
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27 88Depends on how it's started, the act itself is neither. If a guy get you to blow him he is dominant, if you jump him and he lets you do your thing, you are dominant.
Depends. If he's shoving my head and controlling how deep I go then it's submissive. Which I like lol
Damn! Loved the way you said it! Makes it so hot! 😋😜
100% dominant. I agree with exactly what you're saying. The person who is giving the pleasure is in complete control, they're the ones who make you powerless especially when you cum. When I eat a woman I like to grab her hands to drive it home that she's powerless, and if a woman sucks me dry I want her to be aggressive and dominant about it.
I guess it depends on the situation if she is ripping my pants off and starts sucking my dick I feel like she is dominating me , but if I tell her to get on her knees and tell her to suck my cock then I am dominating her , If I want To eat her out then yes I am dominating her if she pushes my head down there then she is dominating me , That’s why having a mixture of submissive and dominate is hot as fuck to me , I usually prefer to be dominate but being submissive here and there is hot as well
Dominant
It is both. It is a dichotomy that being weak can be strength and being strong can be weakness. But while that would seem to be contradictory it is none the less true.
Giving oral is simultaneously both dominant and submissive at the same time.
Both. The act of giving pleasure can be submissive, but once the reactions are strong enough you're the one deciding how to continue or when to stop, so at that point you are very much in control.
I think when a guy does it it’s more dominate , and when a girl does it it’s because she’s being submissive to him. She wants to please him.
It depends on how it is given and how it is received. Same with different sex positions.
Both my wife and I enjoy giving oral. She often asks me just to do oral on her. She is dominant when either giving or receiving.
I think it could either way.
dominant if you grab her head and push her down to make her/him to give you a blowjob, submissive if you are tied to the bed and your partner takes it upon themselves to give you one.
It seems more submissive if you do it on your knees, but you can also tie him up and do it. In the second case it's safe to say that the one being on the receiving end is submissive.
(*whimper*)😳🥵😍💜
A bit of both, because you might be doing the work, but you have them by the balls 😂😉
This! Lol
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Dominant but I like being Submissive to a girl.
I think it can be both… depending on the mood, and who’s in control of the act…
I don't usually think about that but I would say when giving It most often feels submissive. Receiving can be either.
It certainly can be a dominant act. People forget that there are teeth involved.
It can kinda morph into one or the other
I agree with how you describe it - and it's how I prefer the giving and receiving... especially when giving :)
but I can also see how it can be reversed for others or other situations - like if the woman is face sitting... or when a guy is standing and mouth fucking etc...
Doesn't it depend on whose idea it was? lol