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I've always viewed it as the person who is giving is taking control in a dominant way and the person receiving is taking the pleasure so more submissive. Am I wrong about this or no?
Do you view giving oral sex as dominant or submissive?
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27 88There’s no way it’s submissive
I've never considered it to be either. I love giving head because I am far more capable of edging a partner when going down on her. I suppose in that regard it would be dominant s the giver of pleasure.
For a man receiving a BJ a woman holds so much power in that position. She could bite it off so easily. Also women have told me they feel powerful giving a bj. Giving oral to women is fun and its a huge ego boost when she’s begging for more.
We can switch, so there's no ambiguity.
It entirely depends on the dynamic between the people. Both ways of viewing it are completely accurate, depending on how you structure your relationship or, in some cases structure the moment.
I find it as Neither. I want to lick my wife’s clitoris - then it’s my offer to her. Last night I took a shower and I pulled down my pj pants and underwear and revealed my flaccid penis. I asked her to kiss my penis - she could have refused but she didn’t. She kissed my penis but then without any requesting or asking, she surprised me by sucking my penis! Mmmm it was quite good. But not enough to orgasm. When she stopped I said why did you stop? Afraid I was going to fire in your mouth? She said no that her jaw was starting to hurt and it was midnight. She said let’s go to the toilet. She sat outside the bathroom watching me as I masturbated in front of our clean toilet. She chanted Penis over and over and I ejaculated a lot in the toilet bowl. She said Wow that is a lot of semen! I cleaned the semen off my penis and flushed the semen and toilet paper down the toilet. Tonight it’s her turn - bullet sized vibrator on her clitoris via me 😉👍😃
I've always thought that it could be either or depending on how someone is doing it
I always viewed it as submissive but I see how you can view it as dominant.
Vice versa my opinion. Bc females that are giving head or eat, would have the reciever hands on back of givers head and guided. All women thats given me head I've done that. Even pulled hair or when they pull away I've forced them back down. So I was dominate.
But it can be done the other way on certain situations.
@mansearching that’s how I do it and I’m usually on my knees and the guy is pulling my hair
Depends on position if that makes sense.
@tacosrawesome thats interesting point of view.
Giving oral is more dominant but with the illiusion of being submissive
It's both to me, he pushes my head and I love him to control me like that. I like the control of it because I can mostly decide when he cums
Neither.. Now if you're inside someone anally, that is the ultimate domination.
I just live how my bfs face looks right before he cums.
@date_a_snob deep analysis.
I loved your answer its both dom for the giver and sub for the receiver ,, in my opinion as well either way it should feel good for both right,, my fav thing to do is well you know im a man lol
I don't view it as anything but great. LOL
Submissive, especially with men because I’m usually on my knees and looking up at his eyes 👀
I’m on my knees and I pull his zipper down and put his dick in my mouth and he is pulling my hair until I feel the warm cum hitting the back of my mouth. That’s submissive.
You like having your mouth fucked?
@minuteman12 for dominate men I don’t have a choice
@jennz6 in that case you don’t have a choice if I were to get a hold of you :)
Neither
Submissive
depends on who want it to happen and who is following orders. getting ur cock I’d imagine is being dominant and submissive actually sucking because you accepting the cock.