Do you view giving oral sex as dominant or submissive?

Do you view giving oral sex as dominant or submissive?

I've always viewed it as the person who is giving is taking control in a dominant way and the person receiving is taking the pleasure so more submissive. Am I wrong about this or no?

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  • Can be considered both in my opinion

  • You can make this either or depending on position and motive.

    She is on her knees arms tied back giving bj. Submissive.

    She is on top of me 69 demanding my sperm id say thats pretty dominant.

  • No I don't know about that I know that I am still New about that kind of stuff and things so I don't know anything about that

  • probably dominant but I don’t usually view it either way I just view it as someone giving pleasure to someone that they care for

  • It can be both. I think it all depends on the persons attitude when going down on you. Lol I had a girl chow down on me like I was a breakfast sausage and I felt dominated lol. She was slurping on that thing like she just got out of a jail and just experienced freedom again lol. But most of the time I'd say its more submissive.

  • Depends on how you look at it. When you are down there, you are pleasing him.. however, you have the most power in that moment and could do damage if you so choose… men or women getting head are very vulnerable.

  • Because I can sit back and relaxed while getting my dick sucked 🥰

  • All depends on who’s giving and receiving and the way it’s done …?
    That’s the way I see it …?

  • Giving is submissive.

  • It’s dominant because she has her teeth that close to his manhood that, one wrong move, and she could make sure he never has pleasure again. But, also, you’re controlling his pleasure so it’s definitely dominant.

  • I'd say giving is submissive, but it's a two way thing really,

  • I think it can be either. If my wife asks me to eat her out, I'm submissive.

    If I pull her panties to the side and eat her pussy just because I want to taste her, it's dominant.

    Either way I love it!

  • Neither, pleasure is pleasure.

  • Dominant

  • Holy shit submissive! Shove my face into that twat, grab the back of my head and don't let go!

  • When getting it's Dominant for me because of the way I like it an when giving it's submissive for her because of what I make her body do such as wiggle an other things uncontrollable.
    God Bless

  • I love being submissive when receiving pleasure. I also love being dominant when giving pleasure.

  • Neither. Depends on how it's done I guess. I love giving and receiving but I've never felt submissive doing it

  • To me it doesn’t matter, giving or receiving doesn’t make dom or sub.

    im dominant in my family but I love to give and receive too.

  • Submissive yea you are correct Apple
    Thank you for most helpful answer

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