Do your masturbation habits change if your in a relationship as oppose to being single?

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bzcxx · Accepted Answer

for me my masturbation habits never changed. because i’ve an extremely high sex drive (and prob addicted to sex and masturbation), it has become part of my daily routine. since i discovered masturbating at the age of 12, i’ve done it almost daily since. orgasms feel so fucking good and i can never get enough of the pleasure that my body offers me.
since the age of 18, i’ve been into the world of sex toys. i’ve been expanding my collection ever since and today, i have a cupboard of sex toys. i’ve toys that i use alone - eg. fleshlights - pussy (s), ass, mouth, blowjob machine, cock rings, glans rings, ball stretchers etc as well as toys that i use in bed with my partner - eg. vibrators, dildos, bed restraints etc.
my girlfriend and i have sex just once a week because i’m busy living the military life, so she understands that i have to take care of these urges on my own. i tend to masturbate once to twice a day (usually once with multiple orgasms, meaning 2-3 orgasms in one sitting session). if i were to compare it to when i was single, i would say i masturbated equally as much? my masturbation habits haven’t changed at all since getting with my partner and pleasuring myself is a huge thing for me. it helps me to relieve stress as well as explore my body more.

livin_hi_808 · Accepted Answer

Absolutely. Single I jerk off to keep from being too thirsty (American slang). If I jerk off in a relationship then her face is in front of me as 🎯. Masterbation while single is a matter of sexual survival. Helps me maintain my sense of standards despite how low they may plummet at times, rubbing one out could be a matter of life or herpes or the clap, etc.

Masterbation while in a relationship is a matter of desperation mostly. When I'm lasting too long and really wanna get my nut. Like if she's been giving me bomb ass head but might've talked through my ejaculations windows enjoying the act versus enjoying the release. Before she loses interest or gets lockjaw I'll begin the emergency strokes. Basically have her mouth open and ready like a baby bird or stroke in her mouth. (Cum dump) desperate times call for desperate measures.

nxxxxxxxxxxxa · Accepted Answer

I love masturbating but I haven’t felt turned on in about fours years. I have a crush and I’m hoping to get into a relationship with them soon. Maybe I’ll become more sexually aroused when I engage in foreplay with him?

Jenngirl00 · Accepted Answer

Yes. Sensations have changed since I have gotten older

weysally · Answer

with my first lover I hardly did it, with my second one a lot, with my husband very rarely

nolabels · Answer

They do for a period of time in a new relationship, but usually revert back to SOP after a while.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

They stayed the same regardless of my relationship status, I don’t really ease up on the frequency or recklessness

Porter21 · Answer

No I still masturbate as much as I want I prefer masturbation to sex. I am always horny I can’t get enough sex! My girl is ok with this.

jh_420 · Answer

Depends how sexually active you are in the relationship

eatingyou247 · Answer

not really maybe some

Bricealan · Answer

No, not much, she masturbates too and for different reasons. I would jack-off to the things she and I did.

Dargil · Answer

I rub out twice as often single.

RealMarek · Answer

Much less. We typically only masturbate when we have to be apart for a week or more.

exitseven · Answer

The first time I had a girlfriend that would have sex with me I thought I wouldn't masturbate as much. It turns out I did it a lot more.

Hagler14 · Answer

If sex is happening on a regular basis, masturbation is out the window. If I'm in a relationship and only getting the cookie once every 3 months, my hand is my best friend.

Kabluie · Answer

It should, the less you wank yourself the longer you can last cumming inside a vagina because it's not used to your hand.

Makeushiver · Answer

They wax and wabe seemingly unmoored to external events

Andres77 · Answer

Yes, playing with myself when I was single was more often than since I got married.

OutWestBandit · Answer

of course i much rather masturbate to someone I am fucking already - ask her to send me some pictures - ask her to listen to something i am doing and then fap on the phone for her

throwsomecheeseonit · Answer

Yes a lot. I do not think I have ever maseturbated in a relationship

jwatson4000 · Answer

I don't know but I'm finna beat to your profile pic while my wife watches

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, If I am getting laid on a regular basis, than masturbating isn't that important.

kellytheman · Answer

Maybe a little I either masturbate less or not at all if I am a relationship especially if we are in a sexual relstionship. When I was younger I did find myself masturbate more when I was in a relationship but that cause I wanted to have sex with the girl I was with.