Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I lost my v card to my now husband when I was 27. I was shy when I was younger and didn’t put myself out there much I guess. Anyway the sex with my husband is terrible, not his fault we’re just really incompatible. The things that turn me on baffle him. The things that turn him on make me want to laugh. We rarely have sex anymore and have been talking about a separation after only 2 years of marriage. I wish I’d realized b4 we married that it would be bad, but having no experience I had no idea what sex should b like and was too shy/scared to tell him what I wanted.
My advise to anyone in the same position as I is just don’t do it. Fuck as many guys as possible while ur young and just get it out of your system. If I had done this I think maybe I wouldn’t even care that the sex was unfulfilling or nonexistent now because I’d b happy to just b in this new stage of life with someone I care about.
Now I’m in my 30’s my options are way reduced for people to have sex with and I wish so bad that I fucked around in my 20’s becaus I could’ve had such a better time and just got in out my system and had fun. Virginity is OVERATED. Fuck the patriarchy telling you to wait!
Anyway, girls, PLEASE do not marry the first guy you sleep with u will REGRET it. Even if he is gd in bed u will always be thinking about the great sex you could have had with bad boys and older men and 1 night drunken stands.
Does anyone else really regret not having more sex in your 20’s?
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What Girls & Guys Said
8 30That sucks, but in your 30s you still have a lot of opportunities.
Yeah the fun of teens and twenties are gone, but you still have your 30s and 40s
Couldn't disagree more
Well I am lived experience that it’s true. Hope you don’t have to find out the hard way!
Actually i dont think sex is that important in a marriage as people think.. if there's love and respect sex becomes good... Love makes u wana give good sex to ur partner... And even if u have loads of it before marriage, that makes it even harder to satisfy urself after marriage from just one person... U will still crave it during marriage.. so the knky way is to be content with being faithful to one person
Not knky.. only*
No I had enough sex
I agree with you actually. I slept with about 25 guys and had some really good sex. My husband is not as great. In fact, we don't really have sex as much. But he fulfills me in many other ways. More ways that makes not great sex not a deal breaker. I agree that i fulfilled my promiscuous girl days.. and I don't regret it. girls should first be safe and not feel bad about having a high sex partner count.
Yeah I feel it will be mentally and emotionally painful for the rest of my life
I regret not dating more; but I am waiting until marriage for sex.
1. I didn't have any sex with anyone but the woman I married. No regrets.
2. The sex with her sucks now.
3. That's not her fault... that's how stable relationships and marriage reward you.
4. Don't blame your hubby; had you been with the sexiest guy, it would have probably been the same over time.
5. See Esther Perel's "Breeding in Captivity" for why this happens.
6. You can't "try before you buy" when it comes to sex, because the sex you get before a marriage/LTR and after are very different things
What is it that you want and he won't do? What does he want that seems funny to you?
Shittiest advice. You married a guy without even finding out eachother’s kinks and being able to communicate about your desires and that is all your fault
I had lots of fun until I got in a relationship three years ago. I could've done more but still I regret nothing 😌
The patriarchy telling you to wait? Lmao Is there nothing some women won't try to blame on the imaginary patriarchy?
Sure if you wait until you're 27 to lose your virginity you may have missed out on a lot.
I was lucky to start dating and having sex the woman I was gonna marry at 21 years old.
We were very sexually compatible though.
I had a ton of sex with her in our 20's and I never regret not sleeping around, but that's just my experience.
"Fuck the patriarchy" ?
I would avoid a skank ass like you. Glad you're life is hell
U MAD?
I hope that your vagina fails off into the toilet
God me to anything for some action these days.
Yes I used to fuck around a lot was a experience I wouldn't have wanted to miss out on: It helps you find what you like sexually