Does anyone want to be friends?

Like honestly JUST be friends? Everyone that I talk to on here seems to want to turn everything sexual. I just want a fun conversation about various interesting subjects without it turning sexua. l.. let me know and I will add you ^^
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Ok, thanks guys! I think that's enough adding for now.
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I'm sorry, I didn't know this question would be interpreted like that.. I think that's enough for now! Thanks to everyone who replied ^^
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I have two thoughts -
    Why are all men and only one female responding to this?
    Why are you anoning, if your goal is friendship? They are counter to each other.

    (I like to be friends with people on here, but it has to be based on something, some similar interests or sensibilities. So for me personally, it doesn't make sense to randomly initiate friendships with people who are saying nothing about themselves. I'm not criticizing you, I'm just explaining a thought process. But see, it's still interesting that even if that factors in, the men are still responding to the q. Interesting. And I don't know what that means, compared to the girls' thinking.)

    • I'm not sure why it's only men responding, as I have made the question open to both genders. I can see how being anonymous in counterintuitive in this case, but I have a very simple reason. I'm currently talking with a couple of people who have tried to make our friendship sexual. I have told them that I do not want it to be that way, but I did not want to hurt them with a post such as this one, where it seems like I am complaining about such people. I thought it might be hurtful to them. I also kept my anonymity in order to be able to have a bit more control over the people I'm talking to, as DMs can get pretty overwhelming on G@G. Just my thought process ^^ When I say "do you want to be friends", I am basically saying "do you want to get to know each other whilst knowing that this will NOT lead to something outside of friendship". I'm sorry if it was not very clear. I really do wish more girls answered :( !

    • That makes a lot of sense. Thanks for clarifying :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • Calling it straight. Guys make better friends for guys. If we are going to invest time, treasure and emotions into a male/female relationship, sexual intimacy, at some point, is mandatory. It is up to you (as the female) to integrate friendship and sexuality. Setting an internal standard for the timing of adding sexual intimacy is how you should play it so that your relationship is established, sweetened by walking the bases, before you finally do the deed. I favor a 10-date rule for that. How the relationship progresses can lengthen or shorten that period or never get there if he isn't a good choice.

  • I can talk about IT and software development; Theology particularly Christianity and Buddhism; cooking and fine dining; music and musical; to name a few.

    Add me if any of those matches your interests.

    • LOL! Why the down vote? Must sex be the only topic guys take about? Come on dude, show girls that we are a knowledgable gender too.

    • I've added yoU btw!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Maybe, I don't know the first thing about you to make that call. I'd be willing to give it a shot, but will probably just drift away in contact if we have nothing in common.

  • Well anonymous friends are the best kind of friends. :)

    • Lol! I said I would add whoever wanted to be friends! Do I count you in?

    • Sure, even though I know nothing about you beside that fact that you don't like talking about sexual stuff, and that you decided to tell us about that in the sexual section. :)

    • Oops, that's the default section, I didn't do that on purpose.

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  • Yeah sure

    • I've added you!

  • I guess I'm down to talk.

    • I've added you!

  • Pm me if you want too talk about something

    • I've added you!

    • I sent follow request

  • I am a talker and married. Plus you are way to young for even for me. i have kids your age group.

    So with that out of the way. What do you want to talk about?

    I start it off. What do you know about farming? I'm a farmer.

  • whatever floats your boat

    • I've added you!

    • probably? I don't know 😂

    • Oh your profile isn't private, I thought you had to follow back in order to pm. I'll just pm u

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  • Curious how long this last for you - the no sex talk. Even the women can be this way too. Though, here, I haven’t talked with any women who have “changed the subject” which frankly surprises me. It’s nice really.

  • Too naughty.

  • *makes a sandwich*

  • There's no end of thirsty guys here that wanna be your "friend". Even though you say you don't want it to be sexual... they all 100% believe they'll turn it into something sexual

    • That's what I said! But I can always tell when they want it to turn sexual so I back out 😂

  • Sure why not.

    • Okay I've added you!

  • Aight as long as you normal... i tried being friends w someone here once, jesus she hit me up ever 5 fucking minutes 😑

  • I can do that. It would make no sense for me to try anything else because we are too far away.

  • I need somebody like that in my life. Thank you for the offer.

  • I will accept your friendship. I need more experience with girls on a friends level tbh so I'd appreciate it just as well.

  • I understand that! People can be straight-up horndogs... I know I can be. But we need to remember we're all in this together. We're here for each other. Being friends is a great thing! We shouldn't pass it up to make things saucy and weird.

  • I make friends all the time and a few where we don't talk sexually. So if you want to just talk pm. me.

  • I don't mind being friends, seeing as I have a girlfriend all sexual advances I make are to her and reciprocated.

  • I talk sexually only if the girl initiates. We can be just friends and have nice conversation... you can add me up...

    • I've added you!

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