Does having sex with a man for fun count as cheating?

[Anonymous]

I did. But I did not cheat because I love my husband very much. It was just simple sex.

[ZackBan]

Do you really believe that? Or are you just convincing yourself?

Flirting when you're married is borderlining cheating, might be no big deal for some but it's not a good thing to do. Going all the to having sex even if it was a paid prostitute that kept his face covered it's major cheating.
Would you accept if your husband had sex with some other woman just for sports?

If that doesn't bother you maybe you can consider an open relationship

[Dragonpurple]

Questions to ask yourself, if your husband just had sex with a woman just for fun, would you think he cheated on you or would you be okay with it?

Just reverse the roles... and be 100% honest with yourself.

Did you keep it from him? If yes... that is cheating, if your husband knows about it and that is okay, it is not cheating.

[Asker]

He don't know

[Liam_80]

You nasty CUNT answer the question straightforward. What if your husband did the same to you?

[Asker]

@Liam_80 No problem

[Dragonpurple]

If you wouldn't have a problem with that, you should talk to him about it... he might think he can't do that, let him know you already did and you would not have an issue if he did with someone else, just for fun. It is only fair that he should know and have that choice, he should not be thinking he can't do that.

[Jazquee]

WHAT THE FUCK... of course your a cheat... and I feel bad for your husband. "Just for fun" you are messed up. How could you possibly love your husband and do that to him.. just pure selfish slut
If you truly wa ted to do that "for fun" you should have included husband... did you tell him... probably not... yes your are a cheat... shame on you. I hope he finds out and leaves u. Just gross

[Asker]

He loves Me. He will never leave me.

[Jazquee]

Your a nasty and vile human being. The fact that he loves you that much and u would do that... u deserve nothing

[Liam_80]

Oh trust me even love is temporary. He'll have sex with another woman once he sense what kind of a dirty scumbag whore you are.

[Liam_80]

You only deserve sadness, betrayal and being alone.

[Jazquee]

@Liam_80 🙌

[Liam_80]

I know how hard it is for people to find a right husband or wife these days. But when she got one who loves her she literally threw him down the pit.

[Jessica405]

Why ask this when you know it is cheating? You are simply trying to justify betrayal. Two questions: Does your husband know? If not, will you tell him? b

[NibirX]

Sounds logical... that's the reason she is posting...

[Asker]

I don't tell

[Jessica405]

Best hope that your guy doesn't find out some other way. Never trust anyone, even people you don't yet know, to keep their mouths shut.

[MissGeorgia]

Anyway sexual or romantic activity with someone who isn’t your partner is cheating

[Daniela1982]

Any sex outside of your marriage, no matter how you look at it, is cheating. But maybe you should ask your hubby his opinion.

[kidvid80]

its cheating. masturbate for fun totally fine. sex, whether oral, penetration, anal, hell even kissing or someone else touching you in a sexual or romantic way - other then your husband? doesn't matter if its with a male or female, its cheating

[OlderAndWiser]

"Oh, honey. It's not what it looks like. I'm not really cheating; he just offered to massage my pussy with his dick."

[Daniela1982]

Ha Ha

[Asker]

Ha ha ha ha ha

[Jazquee]

🙌. 😀

[ChrisMaster69]

Erm yeah that’s cheating

[adamp98]

It is cheating especially if you have a partner. Unless you and your partner are swingers or are doing an open relationship then unfortunately you have cheated. So I think you should be honest with your partner and tell them whay you have done. You owe them that

[ohshee]

Yeah but what do you do when simple sex X turns into the hottest sex you've ever had and he makes you feel things you've never felt before then what happens

[ohshee]

It's all good and everything but I would have to say then you are a very strong woman because when making love having sex or fucking somebody new they're more weld endowed than your husband and they know how to use it can I take you places where you've never been before it might be hard not to fall in love but if you can do that you're pretty strong woman

[ohshee]

I said over and over again one of these days I will proofread before I send LOL

[Asker]

Love is important to me. Sex is just fun.

[ohshee]

Yes I hear you I agree with you sex is important to me though too because I want to make it all about the girl I want to try to take her someplace and she's never been before for as long as. As I can engine all the different ways that I can do it I love making it all about her because the more turned on I can get her the more turned on I get until just get so intense you have to explode but that's why I go with her just to take her there as many times as possible

[ohshee]

And you are right it has to be fun first before anything else

[JackSmy]

Did he know, and was he OK with it? Did you make the other guy wear a condom?

[Astarlessnightsky]

Yes.
If you have sex with someone while being in a monogamous relationship thats cheating, unless your partner gives you permission.

(Some people may count, kissing, flirting, ... also as cheating, not only sex.)

[Lionman95]

Yes. Having sex with anyone that's not your husband/boyfriend/finance/s. o. is cheating no matter reason.
(It's the same with guys and the other way round as well)

[oliver4love]

Yes it's count as a cheating, just imagine in a room your husband fuck a beautiful girl just for fun and outside the room you listen the moan sound of beautiful girl enjoying the hard penis of your husband and after finishing the sex your husband come out from the room and said you darling it's just for fun nothing serious then are you hug 🤗 him?

[normalice]

Thats pretty much the only definition of cheating I'm aware of.

[Asker]

To cheat is to fall in love with someone else.

[Jmmmfi4]

You're an idiot trying to justify your slutty actions

[Liam_80]

@Jmmmfi4 she is an ignorant narcissist. Ofcourse she won't fall in love with someone else because she knows no one will treat her shitty cunt nicely like her husband does. She's not even in love with her husband. Just looking for slutty excuses to eat shit of other men.

[Sarahr123]

Whores like you don’t love anyone but themselves. What kind of narcissistic witch cheats on their husband and justifies it? You ought to die in shame.

[normalice]

@Asker not really. To me if you fall in love with someone else that's a situation where you should leave your partner and it would make sense to do so as promptly as possible. Then it ceases to become cheating. But if you are getting fun from elsewhere so you don't have to work on making your current partner fun thus making it easier to stay with them, you are taking up two partners when you should probably have neither. That's cheating the game.

[AndyOh]

I hate to break it to you, but that is cheating.

I suppose if your husband just 'had simple sex' with another woman, it would not be cheating either, because he loves you very much too?

[HollyF]

Of course it is you muppet!

[Andres77]

😆😆😆

[slatyb]

"Cheating" means violating a promise. In a marriage there is often a promise, spoken or implicit, that the partners will not be intimate with others. But not always. I know two happy couples that I've been told have open marriages. What did you and your husband agree on?

[Sarahr123]

What a whore

[C3397]

Your husband doesn't see this as cheating if you 2 agree on this before it happened.. If not, ehhhh he will file for divorce paperwork. Good luck.

[ItsLynn]

Yup you cheated

[Miristheiss]

If you are married and had sex with another man you are an adultress and he may divorce you once he finds out.
You are a horrible wife.

[Miristheiss]

yes he should divorce you.

[Bricealan]

Things change. I would not be angry if my wife fucked another man for fun, just simple sex. Would be okay with me.

[Bricealan]

I have had sex with several married woman who were just in it for the sex and nothing more. Forget the critics, and move on. Just don't advertise it on some social media like this.

[Bricealan]

You see what I mean. You saw the trash answer you got from he other trash ANON? You can't put a question like that on here unless you want that kind of trash answer.