Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health We are seeing more then 2 years.
During that time he said that he loves me but I didn't said anything to that.
He called me to go for a drink but I never wanted. He asked me for a serious relationship but I didn't said anything. That was one year ago.
A two months ago he asked me during sex do I love him, I said yes I think and he asked me again and I didn't sais anything and he asked me again and again and I said yes. Later I sais that I am not sure if I love him, he didn't said anything.
Last night we were together, he was very happy to see me, he called me "my love".
And two times again he called me love, my love.
During conversation he asked me "Do you love my dick?" I said yes and he smiled. I asked him "Why are you smiling?" and he said "You all love my dick, you're nice with me, but you go home right away and I'm left alone.
I asked him, "What would you like?" and he replied "I want a girlfriend, to be in a relationship with her, just to sleep with her, to love me. Isn't that nice?", I said yes, it is. And he said "But I can't fall in love."
Does he wants me to be his girlfriend? Does he loves me?
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Updates:
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He said "I can't fall in love". But I think he said in the sense that there were other girls but he didn't fall in love with any of them yet. Or maybe he thought he was already in love so he couldn’t fall in love?
+1 y
He asked me to be his girlfriend
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What Girls & Guys Said
4 81That is wired. If he can't fall in love, why does he want a girlfriend? A relationship is based on the potential of falling in love and caring for one another. Although I must say, right now you sound like you are not even friends with benefits. You are more like fuck buddies. You just hook up with each other when you are horny. If you want it to stai that way just let him know and he should stop asking you to be his girlfriend if he is adamant that he can't fall in love.
He said you clearly.
He can't fall in love. So you don't expect that he can love you from all his heart.
Might be. He only wants you to be his girlfriend as he defined you about how he wants... If you don't have any issues related his wish. Then you can be his girlfriend. It's your choice Girl.!!
Yes he obviously wants u to be his girlfriend.
But why don’t YOU want to be his girlfriend?
Only he can tell if you have talked about more intimate things, you should be able to ask him and be straight forward with him. Lets face it, no one like to play games or be played here.
Okay now thats strange... and how i feel is even if he wanna make you his girlfriend is more outta lonliness than actual love... and i also feel like the situation or phase u guys are in rn is how it should remain... doesn't look like things gonna work like they should in any love relationship... things seem to be missing between you two so keep it like that n fun id suggest.
Yes it does seem like he lives you
He was using you only and have no feelings for any girl. He will do it again with other after leaving you. It is true
Hmmm i think he wants something with youche jusy isn't sure what it is yet
Friend with benefits for 2 years is getting on abit, have you both been seeing other people in the meantime? But somehow, at some point, you always end up back together? if so.. Fuck it, try a relationship, go out for meals, find things to do together outside of the bedroom? give it a go, if he doesn't want to commit, he certainly doesn't love you!..
I am a Dumber person for having read this.
Seems like quite a drama for me.
i presume that both of u don't have firm ground to build a relationship.
Maybe it's better to be Friends With Benefits for now.
Anyway.. Thank you for inviting me to give my opinion on this. i appreciate the invitation.
For the updated story : Me on the other hand think "i can't fall in love" means "i am not suppose to fall in love right now". Maybe he got a situation or something.
For the update : Congrats.
He loves you.
Hmm asking too much is not a good sign. But yoh keep changing your asnwer also. Yes, then no, then no response then yes again. This is really confusing
It's giving me a strange filling. Asking too much about something is not a good sign. One thing about you is you are melting in him. And he is enjoying it.
Don't say yes to him. He isn't the right person. He is a person with multiple faces.
it seem to me that he's already in love with you regardless of if can admit that he is or not im guessing that you both are in your early 20's if thats true most guys in general don't emotionally become mature adult men until they are 25 or older so he struggling his need to feel loved and his physical needs for sex and he's still trying to love himself that probably why he said he can't fall in love since he doesn't love himself you yet and you been yo-yoing back and forth between loving him and being a bitch the dude has feelings if you have no feelings for then give the dude a break already cut him loose let him meet someone thst will love and support him in his journey of manhood contrary to what you might believe just because he get hard and fuck you good doesn't make him a full grown man since most male are capable of performing that physical activity since about the age of 14 some a little bit earlier or later if he's just a fuck buddy to you tell him and cut him loose he wants a relationship with you even though he's still not happy being himself .. its kind of obvious you don't love him sure you could simply tell him what he wants to hear from you but cN you back up your words physically and emotionally probably not cause you're not actually feeling it so my advice is for you give the guy a break be totally honest with him tell him you love & enjoy the sex period and you want to be just fuck buddies he might get butt hurt but most guy understandbfucky buddies that there's a difference between girls we just have sex with and those we can build a future with sometime we want the girl we are having great sex with to be the one we build a future with to be the same
I don't know if that i was truly able to answer your question to your complete satisfaction or not but I hope you gain some insight on males in general and how you proceed with this plus two years relationship
My only advice... As a man, as a black man, as a son, brother, uncle and grandson. Use the one weapon God has gifted women but very
few ever take advantage of having.
Time and patience... It reveals all truth, a
person with alternative motives and a hidden
agenda will bend, break and breakout once
they feel their time limit for whatever hasn't
been met. Save yourself the headaches,
heartaches, embarrassment and time by
exercising patience.
Anything worth truly having is truly worth
waiting for.
Where is the question?
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Yea seems like he really likes u but he is confused that whatchu gonna do after he really confesses that.
He is fooling around. Tell him you want to marry him otherwise tell him no girlfriend doesn't work with you. Don't let him use you
What's important is you live his dick and are not lying.