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Sexual Health We are seeing more then 2 years.
During that time he said that he loves me but I didn't said anything to that.
He called me to go for a drink but I never wanted. He asked me for a serious relationship but I didn't said anything. That was one year ago.
A two months ago he asked me during sex do I love him, I said yes I think and he asked me again and I didn't sais anything and he asked me again and again and I said yes. Later I sais that I am not sure if I love him, he didn't said anything.
Last night we were together, he was very happy to see me, he called me "my love".
And two times again he called me love, my love.
During conversation he asked me "Do you love my dick?" I said yes and he smiled. I asked him "Why are you smiling?" and he said "You all love my dick, you're nice with me, but you go home right away and I'm left alone.
I asked him, "What would you like?" and he replied "I want a girlfriend, to be in a relationship with her, just to sleep with her, to love me. Isn't that nice?", I said yes, it is. And he said "But I can't fall in love."
Does he wants me to be his girlfriend? Does he loves me?
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He said "I can't fall in love". But I think he said in the sense that there were other girls but he didn't fall in love with any of them yet. Or maybe he thought he was already in love so he couldn’t fall in love?
+1 y
He asked me to be his girlfriend
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What Girls & Guys Said
4 81I think you're a shallow person. You don't have the ability to love (right now). You have a lot of room for growth emotionally. This dude wants to be with you, but it sounds to me like you don't know how to be anyone's girlfriend because you don't know what that means.
He just wants to keep fucking you and make you feel bad if you say something he doesn't want to hear. He is manipulating you.
If you never tell him what you exactly wants, how is supposed to know. That's why he keeps asking. You may be a nice gal looking for something different from what he wants. From what I read, he sounded like a stud who only about sex and women. Doesn't seem the serious relationship type, even if he says that's what he is about. Proceed cautiously and decide wisely.
Yes he does
I think he loves you
Can I ask you want MORE TIME?: Do you love me? Me? Love love love. MJ - I love you... not your dick, but You.
It almost seems like he wants you more because you didn't say you love him like the others have a conquest almost and if you do he will lose interest
sounds like he is having sex with multiple women
Sounds like it wouldn't be a good relationship in my opinion.
he wants a real girlfriend, and he knows you aren't that, because you gave up sex without commitment, and girls who do that are not girlfriend material, guys don't trust them, they just use them.
Bring on the hate ladies and gents but if y'all would take my advice on this one there'd be a lot less broken hearts out there
No hate it’s simply factually not true. Many committed relationships began with sex.. not everyone is uptight about it. Many people are and out of billions many is A LOT. But out of billions “ some” people us A LOT as well. I never began a relationship with sex I’m not saying this to promote my lifestyle bc I’m not promiscuous. I just know that what uou said is not true for many people.
@VIVANT keep pointing out the exceptions to the rule why don't you XD this is a good rule
I recall it wasn’t an exception but a substantial amount like 36% I remember being surprised 🤷♀️😊
@VIVANT lol where are you getting these numbers XD Like look, I'm not saying it can't work out, I'm saying it's a bad idea, specifically, it is a bad idea for women, and I can elaborate on this in great detail if you want. Nowadays, so many people start relationships this way, so im sure a good amount of relationships out there have been started this way, but that's ignoring all the times this 'strategy' resulted in complete and total failure, total self esteem annihilation for the lady involved
@Shamalien with all due respect, I agree with you (sorry, @VIVANT), But... I don't agree with you in this particular case. I think he's actually quite fond of her and wants her to be his girlfriend, even though she did already "give it up."
@Jamie05rhs Look at this kind apologist, you must be from my country XD He said "do you love my dick" and after that said "they all love my dick". You really don't need to know much else XD he's a cock, she's a vagina, that's all there is here. Yeah, you can have a relationship based on this, but it's probbbbably not going to end well
@Jamie05rhs altho I will admit, there are genuine exceptions to this rule, I just don't see any point in betting on them
@Shamalien Lol That's not the whole picture, though. I've been following this story for a while. He didn't lead with the dick argument. He's just going to that now because she ignored his more romantic advances. He's just trying to find some way to connect with her. All he wants is her love. So at this point he doesn't care if she loves him because of his personality or because of his penis.
@Jamie05rhs maybe ur right, I sure wouldn’t bet on it tho
He wants a girlfriend. By the sound of things you don't want to commit.
.. Maybe see someone different, he seems kind of controlling and needy? Put it to him in a nice way tho.
haven't you noticed every girl on here makes guys sound needy.
@cast277 True, typical bitchy girls.
I haven't seen any examples of actually needy guys here. It's always "weve been fucking for years then he got feeling"
Hmm... nothing I can do about it. You're on your own.
Good for you. If that's good
Thanks ☺
Yes.
He definitely wants to date you but whether he really loves you or just feels lust towards you, I can’t really say.
It seems he likes you way more than you like him
@OlderAndWiser has it right.
Nope
It's somewhat pardon my expression a two edged sword so to speak
Only one side of story.
Not hearing love. Sounds more like infatuation.
We have a mutually agreeable sexual attraction..
His persistence, the way you described doesn't sound like love. It may grow but continually asking is?
i think he wanna get a partial relationship which isn't possible