Does he wants to make me baby to be sure that I will be with him when he move to another city?

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We are seeing each other for 3 years.
Two months ago we sad I love you to each other. But more than one years he is telling me that he wants me to be his girlfriend and a couple of times that he loves me by accident. I didn't said anythig.
Lately he ask me why I don't want to be his grilfriend, to be in a serious relationship, travel together...
One time he said that its my time to get married I said no because I am 21.
Lately during sex he wants to cum inside me. I said yes, but that we are not using protection. And he said "I want to get you pregneant. To be my wife. Do you want?" And he asked me that one time more. I was quiet. Again he asked me many times do I want to be his wife.
He said that he is moving to another town. He will show me his apartment.
Next time he again asked me do I want him to cum inside me, do I want to have baby with him, I am I ready. I said no.
After that we cuddle. He says I am his love
Why he wants baby if he will move to another city?

Marcuslrh · Accepted Answer

Because it sounds like he wants to trap you with him for life I understand the Cummin in you part that's just part of sex I always want that but I dont want a baby so we always make sure to use other stuff to protect against getting pregnant but he has already made his intentions clear with you with what he has been saying to you I dont know how much clearer you need it do you need it in writing or for him to spell it out clearly and slowly for you? I dont understand the question when you have your answers its REAL CLEAR that's what he wants

rkf_helps_247 · Accepted Answer

Just stop with these repeating questions.
You're a tool for him to fuck and satisfy himself.

If you wanna stay and get used like a slut... then make babies for him and be his whore.

Or else... just fucking leave and live your life happily.

Sorry if i seemed rude. But you're still lingering in this relationship for unknown reasons.

So stop making excuses and just leave.

BlackAfrican · Accepted Answer

In my opinion that's selfish of him, you have to think about other part decision before you choose what you want. You told him you are not ready to be a mother yet but he still want you to have his kid, that's just a way for him to hold you down so you won't move on with another man when he leaves

VIVANT · Accepted Answer

@lliamlucretia_ If that was his intention, would you be OK with that?

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

Bad idea. Don't let it happen.

Lliam · Answer

It sounds like he has little respect for your intellect. He wants to trap you; own you by having HIS child. Stick to your guns. Do not allow yourself to b coerced. You have a while life ahead of you.

MrCommodore · Answer

It seems crazy that he wants to get you pregnant so soon, I only can assume its so he can keep you around after he moved. Bit reckless this soon really

ohshee · Answer

You am ready know the answer to all if ur quite as he's speaki g he will tell you the truth in the same sentence as something made up

Berethor · Answer

Looks like you was contradicting yourself a lot, you say that you love him but you don't want to be his girlfriend, so what you are friends with benefits? so you said no to having baby with him later, but during the sex itself you was quiet about that? you aware that you could toke it as sigh of you not opposing of him cumming inside you, and he might cum inside you, and then you was pregnant with your first baby from him at your 21, also as a girl that think that she is too young to get married and have children, you don't seems too worried about getting pregnant, you are having sex without protection, and you keep quiet in a second time that your lover ask you if you want to cum inside you, also was you was worried more about having a baby from him or was worried more about him moving to another city? yes there is two ways that he can bind you to him on a more advances than "just" having sex with you and making sure that you in love with him, and that's marrying you and/or making you give birth to his baby. Personally I think that it's quite silly when a girl say that she is mature enough for having sex, but not mature enough for marriage and children, also he likely want to move to another city with him, maybe he also want you to become a housewife. :)

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/Housewife

OldSchool_Metalhead · Answer

Honestly yeah it sounds like he's trying to loop you into staying with him

AndyOh · Answer

If you want to raise that baby alone and by yourself... hoping he will return...

And if he finds someone else... then what? Who has the baby. Which will put you in the single mom category -- no dates, working to feed the baby, no going out, stuck at home alone with the baby all the time. Sounds sad, but think about it.

20yearsolder · Answer

I didn't even read it but I can tell you this, if you don't want to have a baby then don't have a baby, it's your body. If he goes to another city, I think he is worried that you may cheat on him. If you're pregnant that is much less likely

NorthShoreCalling · Answer

If it were me I’d call his bluff and watch him run 😂

Dargil · Answer

How about  marriage?

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

He wants to get you pregnant and take you with him to the other city

Drumlin2001 · Answer

From what you've said previously you werent ready for settling down. Dont have unprotected sex. Do not get pregnant. You need to let it go. End it now. You both need to move on

nodnol32 · Answer

Please refrain from sending me invites. Thank you.

birdsandflies · Answer

hmmm do you really love him though? Do you feel those same feelings for him that he keeps mentioning to you? Go with your gut instinct. If you feel that he’s trying to push you in a direction you don’t see for yourself, leave immediately before he actually cums in you and gives you a baby you don’t want..

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, he could want to get you pregnant so you and him will be together forever?

reptocarl2 · Answer

He thinks he can own you. Dump this jerk

FruitAndBlueEyes · Answer

If you don’t want a baby with him or marry him right now and he doesn’t want to wait, the best thing to do is break it off before anyone gets hurt too badly.

naraku · Answer

I think you are right. He wants you to have a baby for the wrong reasons.  If you can, do not have his baby.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

On another post you said you are not ready to get married. Now he wants to get you pregnant. Either make him wear a condom or do not have sex with him. I do know condoms are not 100% effective but there is less of a chance of getting pregnant if he wears one then if he goes without. Since you are not ready to settle down tell him that and anything else you think he should know.