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Does him thinking that eating 🐱 is a nasty, a bad thing?

We was getting all freaky and I asked him if he minds giving me a few licks (aka- eating me out) and he tells me “uhh Dam I don’t eat the box “ and I asked him “what do you mean by that do you not like doing that” and he says him and his friends talked about it and they said that if you eat pussy your nasty 💀. He also asked the same thing and obviously I wouldn’t mind giving him a blowjob because I DO NOT think it’s nasty. So now I’m wondering if him think eating pussy is nasty , a BAD thing? I would like to hear your opinions
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  • Well, it's not the most auspicious thing, but not the horror story some would tell you. Think through what you want to say, then talk it out with him: is it that he DOESN'T, or that he WON'T? I don't know WHY his friends would object to it, but why would that matter- how would they know if he did? If he doesn't tell them and you don't tell them, what's the problem? If they've never done it, how would they know it's nasty?

    I'm not going to say for certain that it's a case of mistaken ideas rather than selfishness, but it probably is- it's worth examining, anyway. Off the top of my head, here are some reasons someone wouldn't do it, and logical counterpoints:

    -Social backlash: as I said, how would they know?
    -Hygiene issues: easily taken care of with showering (which can be sexually fun in itself, though less so if he wears glasses); I don't know if they make flavored soaps, but they should.
    -Laziness: well, if you're willing to return the favor, this really shouldn't stand; if fatigue is an issue, you can have an encounter JUST focused on it (just give him his turn later).
    -Lack of familiarity: This is a more frequent cause than most guys would admit, but many place a lot of personal esteem in their ability to satisfy their partner, and if they don't know what they're doing, they fear looking foolish (a lot like with dancing, come to think of it). Unfortunately, you can't really know unless you learn, so it becomes a self-perpetuating problem. If he's willing to explore with his fingers, that might be a good place to start; it'll give him an idea of how you like to be stimulated, he can see what he's doing, and he'll feel less intimidated; a win all around.
    -Belief that admitting it's not necessary is a failure on his part: Well, of course it's not NECESSARY; with enough persistence and a bit of creativity, you can get a woman off without putting your mouth anywhere near her, but why would you want to? Why wouldn't you want to make her feel as good as possible? Why remove a good option? Sex isn't a contest.
    -Lack of seeing results: if he's tried it before and it failed, or he never has and hasn't seen what it can do to a woman, he won't understand that part of the appeal. Pardon the bluntness, but watching your woman flop around like a freshly caught salmon and having her run her fingers through your hair while saying "Gmmfzzizmuzziz" with a glowing smile because she's forgotten how words work is something that has to be experienced to be believed.
    -Religious objections: I remember reading an Islamic fatwa specifically stating that oral sex was okay (no, it's not NEARLY so interesting a story as that makes it sound), and there are similar rulings in nearly every sect of Christianity I've checked; I can't assure you of full permission on this one, though.
    -Secretly (perhaps even unknowingly) being homosexual: I'm just running through all the options and trying to be thorough, here.

    Okay, that's all I've got, at the moment; there are probably more I didn't think of. But you get what I'm driving at. Before you dump him in response, try to sort out the issue and see if there's a way to resolve it. Then, if need be, you can go your separate ways knowing that you're incompatible- and it's always better to know.

    • Thank you! This was extremely helpful!!

    • You're welcome. Good luck!

    • Damn, "namer" I thought I wrote a lot ! Well anyway, you got the 'superb opinion" Sometimes I write a whole 'frickin' dissertation, and only get the Superb Opinion" too. Oh well.

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  • Don't know the reason, for him thinking this: I have an idea, though. Consider this !
    At one point, I l had a married 'friend' , who was living with her husband, and she and I talked a lot about fucking, sucking, etc. One day, my girlfriend took a pic of me in bed with a hard-on, and I showed it to my 'friend'. She apparently showed her BBF, who was also married, and the BFF wanted to meet me and fuck after work, as she said she was 'impressed with my penis.

    Long leading up to this, but, needed to explain the situation, as it evolved. The BFF, picked me up after work, drove across town to her and her husbands apartment. I THINK the husband was hidden in the bedroom to watch, (don't know for sure, but a suspicious pair of jeans on the bed) We ended up fucking in he floor in the entryway of the apartment, and her pussy smelled so bad, the EVEN SHE TOLD ME, '"Don't put your hand near your face" (after finger fucking her.
    Point here, if I had started out to eat her pussy, I would have been in for a surprise, as she smelled awful, and do not understand to this day, why she wanted to fuck a new guy smelling like that. (First and only time for me like that) I a guy had never eaten pussy, and THAT was his experience, he might think ALL pussies smelled like that and think it was 'dirty'

    Maybe your current boyfriend had that kind of experience eating pussy? I never before, nor after had such an experience, and even ate a few girls asses and never had that happen.

    Bruce

Most Helpful Girls

  • I love eating pussy. The only time I don’t is when a girl is overweight. It’s not the way she looks that I don’t like it’s the fact that it can be harder to breathe. The extra weight can block my nose. Otherwise I’ll be there all night.

    • I am glad you made that comment. Sometimes men get a lot of blowback from making that kind of observation. I feel the same way, and most of the women I have eaten out were 'thin' by today's standards, and my current girlfriend is VERY thin.

  • I'd like to see his face if you told him that giving him a blowjob is nasty and therefore you won't do it... I assume he wouldn't be so snobbish then

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  • If he has never tried it, the opinion is based more on a social understanding than a true preference. I would point out to him that many men, myself include, enjoy giving oral to our partners. Not only does it allow us to pleasure them but it also places our noses right into the pheromones that are being produced, which makes us hornier and harder than ever before.

    It can enhance sex in ways he can only dream of. ^_^

  • He is missing out! ... and you are too! It’s a very pleasurable experience.
    He needs new friends or someone to convince him otherwise!

  • If I was you I would have said well that's what you get for being a follower why don't you be a leader and you might understand the way that you pull it out of the box until you get to the prize I would need to box either I want to get to the prize I want to make it all about her not about me and I'm going to do it my way that's the way my friends tell me to do it I'm going to do it for her

  • Maybe he's on a man-meat diet?

    I can't reasonably conceive this possibility of eating pussy being nasty. It's doesn't mesh. I'd call 911 on him, just in case.

  • He’s an ass. Find someone more sophisticated and open-minded.

  • Some women don't enjoy a man giving them oral, and some men don't like doing it. Similarly, some guys don't enjoy a BJ, and some women don't like doing that.

    We're all different and each of us has our own likes and dislikes. In a relationship, the key is finding out what each of you likes and dislikes, and working together.

  • Cut him loose. It may be an acquired taste but he should work with it.

  • Okay, okay so there must be a reason for this.
    He could be encountering some turn offs, so check these first and then come back to us.

    1) Are you fully shaven "down there" - He might find it a turn ON

    2) Before sex do you shower that place thoroughly, with plenty of soap and dry it?

    Might be helpful 😉

  • I lick every girls asshole i sleep with. This guy is boring.

  • I would be eating that pussy for sure

  • He's a moron. YOU picked him.

  • if he's fucking his friends... maybe that's something you should consider in choosing a boyfriend.
    your intimate moments should NOT be something he discusses with his friends... EVER!
    if it is then you're just a pussy he fucks and talks about.
    sorry... that's just simple truth.
    if he cared about YOU as a being... who is made up of lots of body parts and a soul and spirit... he wouldn't be sharing details with a bunch of knuckleheads.
    step up your game and date a little higher up.
    a man that eats pussy is a man that WANTS to please his woman.
    any simpleton that disagrees is just showing his ignorance.
    a man that doesn't eat pussy is not a man.
    he's just a dick.

  • Dump his childish ass

    • fuck yess

    • u shouldn't give him bj then he will realise

    • Oh hell yes

  • Well I first don't think it's nasty unless the girl is nasty herself. I don't think i he thinks it's a bad thing it just a thing he don't do. If you need some oral sex you might have to find another who is willing. I always eat a girl out unless she is unhygienic down below.

  • We don’t date little boys.

  • Pussy tastes wonderful and I think that guy is fucking gay.

  • Don't date anyone that won't eat at the Y.

  • I mean HE thinks that, I'd ask him why he listens to his idiot friends instead of the girl who was just about to make him nut and that you find guys who don't care about their girl's pleasure to be nasty so he better learn to lick the kitty till it purrs.

  • It's not a bad thing, but it's unusual to have an aversion to it without trying it first

  • only if you like being eaten out, right?

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