Does it get boring for a guy to have sex with the same girl?

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In a long term relationship

AndyOh · Accepted Answer

It tends to get boring... same old sex, same gal, same guy... same, same, same.
What happens is that you tend to fall into a routine; you know each other, what to expect, how it goes, etc.
My advice... spice things up a bit. Have a good talk and see if each other wants to add something... toys, porn, games, lingerie', etc. Lots of fun stuff out there. Otherwise, you will be doing the exact same routine 10 years from now that are you doing today.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Not if you keep things interested. Does a Dominant/submissive (in bed only) interest, where dominates you and call all the shots sexually. A lot of women find that very freeing. Glad to answer questions.

Lliam · Answer

It depends on the girl. I lived with one particular woman for over a year and could NEVER have gotten bored with her sexually. She was extraordinary.

Lionman95 · Answer

No as long as it doesn´t get like routine. It can be pleasuring for him to have sex with her. Try out positions and place at home (or somewhere else if you wanna be exhibitionistic), bring in some toys or change the occasion.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Not if it's with the RIGHT girl!

TheBootyChest · Answer

Only if she doesn't want to try new things or just wants to do the same thing every night. It's not that I need a new partner every 3 months. Just for my partner to grow with me in the bedroom and change things up.

slatyb · Answer

Not necessarily. I think most people have something they like and they after happy to repay it. The most important thing is being able to share your desires with your partner without great of being judged.

Robert_ · Answer

Not if you try to avoid a routine.

RealMarek · Answer

I hasn’t gotten boring for me.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I've never had that problem!! Besides, isn't that part of what marriage is all about?

exitseven · Answer

No, you have to change it up once in a while but it is always fun.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

It can, if she's never trying anything new and I don't feel like she really desires me.

Nik1hil · Answer

Yes!..

Men need to keep changing girl..

However if you change your looks once a year.

Or wear wigs and pick a different name and do different Roleplay.. A man's mind can be tricked into finding the same intense pleasure that a man would find with a new women..

chriscdi · Answer

As long as they dont do it too much it shouldn't get boring, i believe if a couple had sex once a week then the sex wouldn't get boring as fast

Browneye57 · Answer

Not if she's worth a shit. Right?

Andres77 · Answer

It's the best sex of my life and it has been for years.

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

No it's better to be with the same girl.

ToastyOats · Answer

No. Oil wrestling, couples yoga, outdoors sex, role play, massage play, nudism, conception practice, Shrooms and LSD. They're is so much. Sometimes my lower back just need some exercise!
People eat the same crappy frozen pizza everyday,
Their governed by the same shitty government everyday, same shitty job! What's up with everyone suddenly needing the spice of life? I think its just one thing in this shitty country that seems like they have the power to change, who they're fuckin.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

No. Lol. Do you have any idea how many sex positions there are? And how many fantasies?

Besides, sex is never boring, period. Sex is the furthest thing from boring.
As a matter of fact, sex makes everything else boring in comparison. (No offense to everything else.)

dudeinohio · Answer

Nope

Juxtapose · Answer

It's never boring when I'm horny and she participates.

Mangospacho · Answer

I’ve had sex with the same woman for the past 12 years. So far it hasn’t gotten boring.

Twalli · Answer

As long as you spice it up occasionally it's not boring.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

If she is a prude, denies sex, or just lays there... yes.

TallAnon · Answer

Depends on the girl

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Sometimes thats why we bring other girls home regularly.

Hanrej · Answer

If it's allways the same and uninspired... Yes, it gets dull.

OddBeMe · Answer

10 years- it hasn’t yet. But she has allowed more deviancy…

Tellme · Answer

Nope, that isn’t the case for me. As long as the girl cares and is enthusiastic about the sex too.

OnTheLevel · Answer

If she did the same thing every time it probably would. It's not difficult to add some variety and keep things interesting.

Joshua0213 · Answer

Nah it gets better

CreamySeed · Answer

No its always good when available

irahul_thakur · Answer

Could be, boy's often try to fuck just more and more girls

Adam_West · Answer

yes exactly

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Not for me because I'd make it great

WhiteWolf69 · Answer

Not it doesn't especially if you dont have sex the same way every time. If you keep things interesting, keep your kinks involved, experiment, etc.

Slim57 · Answer

Never did to me if it works for both of us

dolemite89 · Answer

yes…

MasterKS · Answer

yes it does!

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Depends. It can

lycanthrope3 · Answer

it can if she has no imagination, or is not willing to try new things

Open2It · Answer

It can, yeah

Morado · Answer

I don’t think it should be I’d they have strong feelings.

Yasin08 · Answer

If she is his favorite girl then no

Anonymous · Answer

It can if you keep doing the same positions

Anonymous · Answer

Variety is the spice of life

Anonymous · Answer

no of course not. if she has a nice set of fun bags/milk bags and/or a nice ass nice thighs and nice pussy then no of course not

Anonymous · Answer

I was married for 17 years and was always looking forward to getting it again.

Anonymous · Answer

No, but if all she wants is missionary style on the bed, yeah that can get a little boring.

Anonymous · Answer

It can and I'm sure it's the same for the girl. Try to spice things up to keep it fresh and exciting.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes very much. And guys have many ways of dealing with it. Jerking off, porn, cheating, prostitutes, every guy has their thing to try to have the variety of girls we need.

Anonymous · Answer

yes, it does

Anonymous · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

I can't imagine sex ever being "boring". Women are often looking for ways to "spice" up their sex life and they must get bored, but I don't understand why. I don't.

Anonymous · Answer

well I know some way to keep things interesting but things will definitely change over time in a good or bad way

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