Guys, does it matter if your girlfriend fakes orgasms?

I have a hard time seeing why men are bothered by it, that’s why some women who fake it don’t say anything to not hurt his feelings. It’s to help make the guy feel good and that he accomplished that.
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  • Because feeling like you can't satisfy your woman, and worse, that she feels the need to give you a participation trophy for trying is condescending as hell. It's super emasculating. Plus, we realize that actually pleasing our partners makes it more likely that she's going to stick around.

  • When you are with someone it would be more beneficial for both of you the first few times to give each other directions so you get to know what pleases your partner the most instead of just faking it from the start because then things will never improve.

  • (yawns)

  • I would hate that

  • Yes, it matters. And he didn't accomplish it, you lied about it.

  • yes. it's because you're trying to do favor instead of enjoying process.

  • It doesn't matter as long she's fine with it and the man can't tell that it was a fake one.

  • So you see nothing wrong with lying to your partner if you think it's better for them? You think you are smarter than truth?

    You can't build any kind of lasting relationship on lies, not a healthy one anyway

  • If you fake an orgasm you're encouraging him to keep doing stuff that isn't working for you. It's better to just be like "hey this isn't really doing it for me, can we try this instead?"
    Communication is important if you want good sex.

  • I would like to know. If she does, I can hopefully change the way I pleasure her until she doesn't need to fake her orgasm.

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