Guys, does no hug after leaving a girl's place mean it was a one night stand?
I invited a guy over to my place which included a sleep over on the 1st date. didn't sit anywhere near him. After talking for a while I suggested we watch something. He said it doesn't matter because he will probably kiss me then so it doesn't matter what we watch. After I sat beside him when we were talking he said this seems like a good time to kiss you. And he kissed me after I nodded. We ended up making out and getting naked soon after. I told him I was on my period so we just fooled around some more before sleeping. We cuddled a bit and he kissed my forehead and cheek a few times while we cuddled. Morning after I woke him up for food, he washed up checked his phone said he has to go in early for a workshop. He didn't hug before leaving, so was this just a one night stand?
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So I messaged him asking how work was, 2 nights after and he saw the message and no response...
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What Guys Said
(20)Casually mention that you have a fantasy about having a threesome with 2 guys and wait for his response. Your next step depends on how he responds.
Let's start with how old is he and he hugged you and kissed you many times so I don't think it was a one night stand, since then have you had any contact with him? If no then it's obvious, the only thing I don't understand is how you two ended up in your house and why you didn't had sex if you planned to do it?
What does "messed around mean?"
Like in order for me to give you my opinion I need some clarity of exactly the situation you were in
the bloke didn't get sex but he still kissed and cuddled and did all that disgusting touchy-feely stuff... You got nothing to worry about
doesn't sound like a 1 night stand, a sleep over with foreplay. I think he likes you, probably didn't hug you because he was in a rush.
yes... now you want superman to come save you.
nope. if sex was good, does not matter to me hugs afterwards, because sex is the more intimate than hugs.
I can give you a hug instead :(