I once wanted to know if it would work for me as they show in erotica. I was very curious to know so I experimented it by getting slapped, groped, and getting whacked and spanked extremely hard on my butt with my hands tied. It almost made me cry. All I received was pain on my cheeks, some painful red marks on my bottoms, and not pleasure. I realized it wasn't my thing. I still do like getting spanked but not in an aggressive manner, and I would never try it again.
Although it's not my thing, I've seen people talk about how they like it. I don't understand though. Do acts like being slapped, groped and getting aggressively spanked give you pleasure?
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When I say pain, I'm talking about getting slapped, choked, whacked etc. Not about pain received from anal or fingering.
@crispycookie i always wondered what girls get out of been roughed up just seems weird to me! some seem to like been submissive but to then be given pain just dont seem sexual at all
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rebeliouse
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@crispycookie follow me
JesseJayNeakGuru
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I'm not a masochist
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Calgarydirty69Xper 6
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if your man knows hhow to please a woman, they don't need bdsm
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Starman5Xper 5
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I don't like violent sex. It never gives me pleasure and I would never do that to a woman. but it's nice to caress. For example, stroking a woman's breasts, ass, pussy and legs will be very enjoyable. Of course, it should be a gentle caress.
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WetfetXper 2
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Nope not into pain. I dont kink shame though. To each his own.
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MasterKSYoda
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it applies to most of the girl.
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Open2ItXper 6
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Pain, either giving or receiving, is not my thing either. That said, smacks on the ass, nibbles and bites, etc. do enhance the pleasure...
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Hardme69Xper 3
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Its sexy but they make safe words for a reason. Explore you kink dont be ashamed
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Guapo_28Xper 6
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handcuffs and hip whipping I like to do this
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Anonymous
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Not ideally for me, and I guess you have been sexually active since 16 or 17
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Anonymous
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Yes i love pain
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Anonymous
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No, pain isn't a turn on for me. Being tied and spanked lightly is, but that's for the feeling of having her take control, not for pain.
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Anonymous
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Yes, i love foot jobs and really like if girl trample my cock and balls
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Anonymous
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Sometimes being whipped has turned into very erotic pleasure for me.
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Opinion Owner
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I had a woman that would whip my buttocks, rim me, and then put her finger in my ass and massage my prostate, then start all over again. Very hot!
Anonymous
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No, but a woman that cries does turns me on for some reason.
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Anonymous
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If its not aggressive and the pain is short lasting it can be sexy. But only if its done right. but pain in general without anything else no.
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Anonymous
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Many beta men are disgusted but yes all women get pleasure from pain.
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Anonymous
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absolutley, im a complete masochist
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ChrisMaster69
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Always nice to hear
Anonymous
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Everybody kinks differently. Find what's comfortable for you and do that. Kudos to being openminded and trying new things.
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Opinion Owner
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I like having my tits hurt. having them tied up and squeezed tight is a real turn on for me. Spanking is fun too.
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i always wondered what girls get out of been roughed up just seems weird to me! some seem to like been submissive but to then be given pain just dont seem sexual at all
@crispycookie follow me
I'm not a masochist
if your man knows hhow to please a woman, they don't need bdsm
I don't like violent sex. It never gives me pleasure and I would never do that to a woman. but it's nice to caress. For example, stroking a woman's breasts, ass, pussy and legs will be very enjoyable. Of course, it should be a gentle caress.
Nope not into pain. I dont kink shame though. To each his own.
it applies to most of the girl.
Pain, either giving or receiving, is not my thing either. That said, smacks on the ass, nibbles and bites, etc. do enhance the pleasure...
Its sexy but they make safe words for a reason. Explore you kink dont be ashamed
handcuffs and hip whipping I like to do this
Not ideally for me, and I guess you have been sexually active since 16 or 17
Yes i love pain
No, pain isn't a turn on for me. Being tied and spanked lightly is, but that's for the feeling of having her take control, not for pain.
Yes, i love foot jobs and really like if girl trample my cock and balls
Sometimes being whipped has turned into very erotic pleasure for me.
I had a woman that would whip my buttocks, rim me, and then put her finger in my ass and massage my prostate, then start all over again. Very hot!
No, but a woman that cries does turns me on for some reason.
If its not aggressive and the pain is short lasting it can be sexy. But only if its done right. but pain in general without anything else no.
Many beta men are disgusted but yes all women get pleasure from pain.
absolutley, im a complete masochist
Always nice to hear
Everybody kinks differently. Find what's comfortable for you and do that. Kudos to being openminded and trying new things.
I like having my tits hurt. having them tied up and squeezed tight is a real turn on for me. Spanking is fun too.
Yes I get pleasure from pain
But mostly I like dick pain