Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Does this make me a slut?
Anonymous
I’m 23 and have slept with 26 men. Most were one night stands and I didn’t speak to again. When I went through rejection and I started having casual sex, now I am embarrassed of my number. I can go long periods without sex, last year only had sex with one guy I was talking to for a year and I stopped talking to him when I saw it wasn’t going anywhere. It’s been almost a year that I’m celibate. I don’t want to partake in casual sex anymore, but I feel ashamed. I became curious about sex from a young age when a family member had sex in front of me. I lost my virginity at 13 with my crush since elementary school but I hated him after that and didn’t talk to him again. I didn’t start having sex until 16. And it wasn’t always consistent. I had no one speak to me about marriage or talk to me about how important your virginity is.
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What Girls & Guys Said
10 28Yes, you are a slut.
No. It doesn't make you a slut. Women have needs same as men.
It's very wrong that some people will consider a woman with lots of guys slut and a guy with lots of women a player.
We all have needs.
Make sure that you don't have any STD's and put your past in the past.
Luckily I am disease free lol, thanks
Good luck!
Yeah, you were a huge slut, but at least you stopped. Don't be like that any more.
23? Sorry for being so honest but yeah that's a bit of a high count
Coming from you? Lol
Yeah, I didn't sleep with 26 guys
But if I were you I wouldn’t speak haha
Oh really why don't u make ur profile unprivat so we can see what you been up to b*** why hide come out
Girl please don’t make yourself seem innocent when you are not worry about yourself
Haha look who's talking perhaps ur jealous of my beauty? Or you're not getting some u need it prob and ur bitter
No I can get some whenever I want as you can see clearly lol I’m not crazy for dick I can’t help it that I got a lot of options. All I can say is the fact that you felt the need to say something from your account, speaks volumes. Are you trying to impress someone on here? Lol
Are you? It doesn't seem like you can get some rofl
Bitch get off of my post and put some make up on. You’re just mad no guys wanna fuck or just try to get some head. You’re 30 years old don’t you have kids to feed? Get out of here. Be a mother, be a role model. You’re such a disgusting individual that you belittle someone who’s speaking on a serious matter, to try and make yourself look better. I may have more bodies but I got more value than you will ever have.
Lol guys did fuck me so no it's not that lol. Dont speak out of ur ass u dont even know me ur just a troll who got reported
And you’re nobody to speak of course guys will fuck anything that walks don’t feel special, I know for a fact men have used you and threw you away like trash or they’re sick of your shit.
Oh so you're the one who posted this question! Slept with 26 guys WOW bring it down girl it's not good for u
You know you should save it one day u decide not to whore around anymore
Are you still upset? What’s the matter you guilty about something? Get a life you basic jenn.
Bitch you are a whore yourself. It’s time to mind your business now
You just said guys have fucked you. Keep blowing your own spot up, with your face shown.
I didn't even know its you I thought it's someone else another account! Lol no wonder it's set to private
You got nothing else better to do? Lmao. Yeah I know better than to show who I am and ask for advice on a topic like this at least I’m not blowing up my own cover like you over here 💀
Oh and of course u can get some whenever u want. U already did. With 26!! What all the guys around the block why not just a few Lol I hope you'll be a good example to ur daughter one day.
I learned from my experiences. Worry about your own daughter, because life is unpredictable and you as a parent will only be able to control so much.
You can say I’m a slut, I can say that you are. But to be honest your opinion is quite irrelevant to me, I know a guy who’s in love with his girl who’s a prostitute. He is crazy for her. I really don’t understand why my body count is afflicting to you? It’s literally my body, and my life, and there’s women my age with 20x the amount of body counts
And none of these men were from around the block, either. And more than half all wanted to be with me but I didn’t feel the same. I used them for a quick fix like men usually do to females. -shrugs- it was stupid but there’s no reason you should make me feel bad for a mistake I learned from. How would you like it for someone to hold your mistakes against you? Or bring up the person you used to be when you’re not that person anymore. Nobody is perfect. Don’t discredit me and never belittle anyone because as I’ve said life is unpredictable. I’ve looked down on a girl for sleeping with nearly 100 men when she was 18. And before you knew it karma got back at me. Sooo. What can I say.
Lol u started it honey
No, you started it with your rude statement. But if you’re the type of person to judge someone because of my sexual past rather than who I am as a person it says a lot about you. Look at how other females commented compared to you lmao. You felt the need to say what you did to make yourself feel better. Work on your character, you’re 30 years old. I would rather have slept with as many guys as I have than to have a character like yourself. You’re not a good person, and I know you’re obsessed with sex more than me. There’s a reason why my body count got you mad, I guess it makes you feel insecure.
Lol ok whatever that floats ur boat
I would call you a slut but if that’s you in your picture I feel bad for u
Oh let's see ur picture if ur so pretty why not put one up lol maybe u dont like ur looks?
Lmfaoooo.. It just makes sense why you’re hating on my body count. U like sex more than me.
Nah I’m jk ur not ugly.. work on ur personality tho
Yes I do infact like sex more than u but never slept with 26 guys!
Are you sure? It doesn’t seem like it.
Go out there and get some experience lol I got mine 😚😉😉
Who cares if you are a so called slut. Your woman young free single can sleep with as many people as you want to.
The only people that have given me that same advice were people who didn’t care about me.
It depends on how you feel. Do you like getting called slut? Did you enjoyed sex?
No it just means that you really love sex and you could have sex with 100 people and that doesn’t make you a slut
I only really love sex if I really love the person I’m doing it with lol. I’m not that crazy about sex.
I totally get that and know exactly what you mean I have only had sex with 5 people. But I am a very sexual person and have a very sexual personality and sometimes I hate myself for it because I keep a lot of it to myself. But just because you do have a lot of sex or did don’t mean your a slut.
I’ve had sex probably less than 50 times lol men I guess just love sex more than woman I don't know
But because of my body count I’m assuming that makes me a slut so that’s why I had to ask lol. It’s crazy for the body count that I have and I’ve been barely sexually active.
Haha no your good people shouldn’t care about the body count the only thing I would worry about is if you had an STD if not then your good. And why do guys get looked down at for being so sexual and so sexually active.
Guys don’t get looked down about it only if he’s out here using women for objects then yeah. Don’t lie to women to get in their pants.
I don't know I feel like a lot of people judge me for the sexual fantasies that I have to that’s why I asked why it seems liked guys get looked down on. And oh hell no I don’t use women as objects
its OK no one judging u u dont have to ashamed or something as well as u dont have to even think about it its just a number
Seems you're moved on from your past looking for soulmate now so no you are not slut
I’ve always been longing for my soulmate just did not know how to go about it the right way
Give time for any relationship do understand each other to making physical relationship
It happens. Don't worry about it. I did what you did and worse, and even though I'm a guy that didn't make it any better.
Guys don’t get shamed the same way females do so you’re fine. If anything it’s a compliment for men if they have a past. Getting called a player is better than being labeled a hoe.
It's your business. Don't share it with others.
I definitely will keep this to myself
You clearly WERE a slut but it sounds like you have changed your ways, which is good. Everyone makes mistakes. Don't beat yourself up about it. Look forward, not backward. And it's no one's business but your own.
18 and 30 guys here.
Did you start young?
My girlfriend is 24. And has ben with
31 different men.
some of them were multiple guys at once takeing turns. Passing her around.
so dont feel too bad.
Fuck dude
Crikey, yeah that’s bad, I can’t sugar coat it. But if you learn from it then you can at least make it a valuable lesson. I’m not into shaming, I think everyone is free to do what they like, but when it’s for the wrong reasons that’s when it becomes sketchy. The good news is people do change and if you no longer want to be this person you can leave it in your past.
It also doesn’t really matter what others think, only what YOU think and feel about yourself! I can guarantee you that not one person here is free from any mistakes. We’ve all done stupid things at some point or another (typical of being young). Mine wasn’t sexual like that but I’ve still grown and changed as a person. That’s the main thing!
Yes. Did not even have to go beyond the first sentence. The answer is "yes."
Thank you, 🙏🏼