Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health During sex, do you ever think about past partners?
thegirlfromthething Guru
I worry about being compared to a guy’s exes or other girls he’s been with, like he might think “I wish she could do that thing my ex used to do” or “So-and-so was better at ____”.
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What Girls & Guys Said
19 72Don't count on it.
I think of my self. I love me so much❤️
Oh God no, an ex is an ex.. I prefer they not be in my thoughts at all..
I can say from my ex that yeah he does do this our sex life was great 11 years and it was still good he claims about his wife not doing what I did but I dont think he tells her that.
What did u do
Yep, sometimes. I wish I could say my current girl was the best at everything I've ever had, but she's not.
To tell you the truth! Never they called ex for a reason
I do actually, right before showtime. My past partners faces are obscured. The trip down love making lane, or (f***ing freeway) is only a few minutes. Just as a reminder that I have gotten better with age.
If that's what you are concerned with then you will not be enjoying yourself or pleasing your partner.
Yes, I do
And My bae knows it
a normal human occurrence, people always do performance comparisons mentally
Nope.
If I get that she is totally wrong.
Most likely passive.
No...
How can... One woman be... BETTER... at laying on her... BACK... than another?
There’s more to it than laying on your back. You’ve obviously been unlucky with your partners
If you really want the person thinking about your past partner shouldn't be an issue..
Nope i never do. I focus on the girl I'm with.
Main reason why I'm waiting till I'm sure she's the one
Yes, but not always
Such thoughts could appear, yeah. Then I talk about with my wife without making comparisons ("how about we try a and b" instead of "you know, another woman used to do a and b"). 99 times out of 100 my wife is happy to oblige, also because I always do the same for her. That's called mature communication, y'all cry-babies should try it sometime!
Often.
Only unless we are watching one of the videos together. My girlfriend likes it and it turns her on knowing how great a lover i am.