Ever became friends with ur one night stand partner?

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EmoKate97 · Accepted Answer

Yea, last hung out a few weeks ago. Met him at the gym, few months before all the quarantine stuff. Cute, black and lean fitness instructor that was all over me "showing me the ropes" the first week i was there. Like in any other situation i'd say he was borderline sexually harassing me but he lucked out since i'm used to guys dogging me and i did want him to show me the right work outs to do and his "motivation" did help me push through, even if it was a little annoying knowing he was just helping me trying to fuck, there were other people that obviously needed more help then me. Eventually i lost a little weight and got a little in shape and i was going to just work out at my apartment so i cancelled my membership, when i told him on my last day i was suprised he didn't make a final attempt to try and fuck but instead was really encouraging and supportive, it was really endearing. I was only able to find him attractive when he wasn't trying to fuck, so i straight up suggested he let me say goodbye in his bedroom and maybe see my "new body" he helped me get, and fitness sex is pretty fucking good in a special way. I made it clear that this was a one time thing, but when when everyone was panicking during the corona shit i was bored and stressed because i lost my wallet, i realized i left it at his place and just showed up.

I appreciated that he was cool and wasn't hitting on me when i knew he wanted to fuck "had a boner the moment i entered his house lol" found my wallet under his bed and was going to leave but he saw i was stressed and offered me some weed in a baggy to help me relax and insured me that everything was going to be fine. I was in my car about to leave but last minute knocked again and we smoked a bowl together and talked about stuff for a good 2 hours and had fun raiding his cabinets for munchies ha, it legit was what i needed to clam me down and didn't even have sex. We started visiting each others house out of boredum since everything was closed and kinda worked out, played video games, did drugs, basic college friend shit but in a good way. I made an unsaid deal to myself that i'll only fuck if he doesn't make more then 1 pass at me after hanging out 4 times because i liked the thing we had, which he barely to do, although i know he was creep checking me when i wasn't looking. But yea he's got good hook ups and he's cool to talk to, i feel comfortable sharing personal stuff with him. He'll usually have something matter-of-factish or supportive to say, and its nice that i get to dictate when we have sex. Yea, sex is good his dark ebony body is perfect and he's able to get down with the fetish stuff i'm into like dominate race play and treating me like shit, although i don't think could ever get serious / date him purely because i couldn't trust him because he was a fuckboy first time we met and i know he was chasing another girl for a while and immediately left her for me. Like, i don't feel intimacy with him like i would a boyfriend and i only really have sex with him because i have a creeping urge to just feel validated and allowing myself to be submissive to someone helps cure my anxiety and makes me more comfortable and confident about myself.

wow i had no idea i made this TL;DR, fucking adderrel man

xxochloxxo · Accepted Answer

Yea. We met at a club and we had sex. After that he fell in love with me literally said he loved me after 1 week. We got together again a few times and he wanted to be my boyfriend but I didn’t feel the same

wankiam · Accepted Answer

many times but im from a time when one night stands were people you met in a club or bar surrounded by friends rather than swiping right so the fact we often bumped into each other after a night of fun was going to be far more likely

MrTuxedo · Accepted Answer

Actually, yes. A girl I had one night stand years ago is still my friend to this day. Crazy.

All4ur_pleazure · Answer

Yeah it’s happened a time or two.

Red_Dragon · Answer

Lol yeah.

BlondeGoneWild · Answer

Quite a few have become friends with benefits

sensible27 · Answer

Wot?

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

LiyaArgent · Answer

yes one of them but it is more often the other way around, a friend become 1 night stand

Haelaeix123 · Answer

Nope but i could easily see how that would happen, have you?

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

No but i wanted to.

jessicasissy · Answer

Nope, never a good idea to have a ONS with a friend or to become friends with one. It's why they call it a one night stand because it's one and done. Men and women who've had sex can't just be friends, it never works out in the long run