Ever had sex with a friend - not romantic partner - just because you were lonely and horny?

Question

When I was younger, I had a few one night stands and relationships that I really regretted later, but all of that ended around the time that Ronald Reagan was the president. Now, I don't think I could ever have sex with someone if I didn't feel some attraction and romantic desire for them. But everybody isn't like me. . . and that's okay.

If you had a friend of the opposite sex who was not a romantic interest, but who was receptive to simply hooking up to fulfill each other's needs, would you do it? Have you done it? Are you going to do it again?

TransAm85 · Accepted Answer

I lost my virginity to a friend lol. We were in some of the same classes in college and he flirted w/me a lot but I didn't really like him that way, just as a friend. We were 19, one day class let out early and I knew his parents were working so we went back to his place. I am pretty sure he was a virgin too but wouldn't say it. I don't regret it.

Gwenhwyfar · Accepted Answer

Yeah but it was a long time ago. I voted D.

DiegoO · Accepted Answer

Once you cross that line it stop being friendship. I almost cross it with a girl I knew from highschool. She wasn't my type and I question her intention of being my "friend". It seems she always wanted to be more than a friend; but at the time I was also a horny guy, however, I ultimately decided to terminate the friendship.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

Yeah usually not friends just random girls.

with friends it was mainly boredom tbh, not lonely or anything just bugger all on tv.

when I moved house back in November 2020, a friend helped me move house.

She got in my bed as she was cold (tbh she was) we both warmed each other up lol.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

F here, I didn't see an option for that with never again. I would not do it again, emotional attachment is so much better.

SweetFyter · Answer

I had to vote "A" but like you said later, I could never do that without feeling "some attraction and romantic desire."

Lliam · Answer

I've had relationships, but I did have sex with someone who was not a romantic partner just because I was horny. I don't regret it.

I don't need to be in love to have sex, but I very much prefer sex with a steady romantic partner.

melanieeeB · Answer

Nope

DonkeyDan · Answer

Had plenty of friend hook-ups and would continue doing it, never for loneliness though only to fullfil eachothers sexual needs.

NathanDavis · Answer

never, not even a thought to consider...

DarkCarousel · Answer

No, I don’t have any friends that would happen with. My best friend eventually became my boyfriend but that wouldn’t have happened outside of a relationship.

InYourHead · Answer

Lol yes I've done that a bunch of times

AviatorTom · Answer

Isn't that why bridesmaids and groomsmen hook up at weddings? Those hookups rarely turn into anything other than a one-night stand.

josephinelcajon · Answer

Only in my teens. three of us were board my best friend, a friend (girl) and me. We were board she asked what do you guys do when your board? My friend told her jack off and she said ok.

anon1903 · Answer

I was close to kissing one, my bff of highschool, she was having some family issues and well, can't say I have the best family either so why not

exitseven · Answer

I had sex with a total stranger. I never saw her again after that.

beebella · Answer

Not with someone that I considered a real friend.

Andres77 · Answer

Started as teasing then tickling and then sweaty grunts and a wet spot that I happily slept in.

pleasestopthis · Answer

I've only had sex with the guy who was my boyfriend.

douride2 · Answer

It has never happened.

Cubus · Answer

No, lol

Loveisgirthy · Answer

Nah lol

vduong1988 · Answer

Yeah I did had sex with my best friend

Wise4myage · Answer

B. Id love for that to happen to me. 😜

Godsvengeance · Answer

Not with a friend, but I have had sex with strangers just because i was horny and/or lonely

RebeccaSJ · Answer

On tour.

FamilyGuy2020 · Answer

I literally had sex with a friend when I was younger it just changed our lives exponentially. I looked her up years later and we connected again. We each were divorced so things went hot and heavy at times I just don't think that things clicked between stepdaughters

MaraJadeLover99 · Answer

I am a virgin!

Kelly6 · Answer

Yes many times

Minahh · Answer

No I would never it's simply how I am

GMANN56 · Answer

I've had sex in relationships, with friends and with women that I didn't know their name. Life is too short to regret sex.

JennieF · Answer

Yeah.

Xtendable · Answer

I voted F

JesseJayNeak · Answer

No, cause I have standards

QuietRunner · Answer

yes a few times

jjj101010 · Answer

Yes I have

Adam-94 · Answer

Yes i did

Guslove · Answer

Definitely!!! It was a great too!!!

Anonymous · Answer

When you're desperate you're desperate.

Anonymous · Answer

I’ve only had one long term female friend in my life and it’s worked because neither one of us are attracted to each other. We have shared a bed a few times but never did anything.