First time having sex and struggling to stay hard?

[32teeth]

I lost my virginity to a beautiful girl, you rarely see a girl as hot as her even on TV etc.. she had an angelic face, dark brown eyes, long dark hair with a fringe, really soft skin, slim but really curvy at the same time, enhanced boobs (bigger than average) and a tattoo on her lower back.

when i used to think about having sex for the first time i always thought i wouldn’t last very long because I’d be ‘too excited’

But in reality I lasted longer (25-30 minutes) than I thought because I wasn’t as turned on as I thought I’d be even with a girl that looks f*cking perfect.

I wasn’t as hard as usual after she put a condom and we started having sex.
I don’t know if its because it’s my first time or it’s because I’m not used to the sensation of the condom because I felt like it was a bit too tight.

I would say my erection was about 15-20% softer than usual.
i was feeling very comfortable and relaxed with the girl and it wasn't significant at all but I had to focus on her to stay hard.
I also felt like my brain was struggling to focus completely and I was thinking about other stuff lol.

do you guys have any advice/tips?
any personal experience you’d like to share?
any observation? Feel free to give your opinion.

[Anonymous]

Well lick her down there... with passion it would make you rock solid.