For guys. Are you guys weirded out by a rather large clitoris?

Like the title suggest, are men in any way weirder out by rather large clitoris? I am 25 and I have only ever had one partner because of my inability to get in the mood as soon as I realize that I have to take off my pants. I really can't stand the look of my clitoris. With my last partner I tried really hard to cover it and I'm pretty sure I did fine but I still can't get over the thought that if a guy saw it he will walk out of the room in disgust or fear that I was born male. What do you guys think? Have you been ask this long question before? If so how did you feel about it? What was your first experience with a large clitoris?
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  • Excuse me, but I LOVE a big clitty! Does She stick out, or up? That's gorgeous!
    I can only dream of actually sucking on one, similar to fellatio, but in a Heterosexual way! Plus, there's more to fondle, and please! I love it! Plus, it's rather uncommon, making it even MORE special! I want a Girl with a nice, big lovely clit SO BADLY!

  • Probably just being too insecure about it. If it can't be mistaken for a dick then you're fine, and I very much doubt it could be mistaken for a dick. If anything, it would make it easier for a guy to reach it if he wanted to. Not really weird or gross or anything.

    • All this comments makes me feel like maybe I am over thinking this to much.

    • Yeah, it's easy to overthink things about how attractive you are though. Just remember that there's always at least someone who will probably like it and that in most cases you're worrying too much.

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  • I have a large clitoris too, it is rather annoying when it pokes out in underwear and bikinis, but it makes it easier to dry hump because it sticks out more. I think that we're all born differently and it really doesn't matter what your anatomy looks like because it's meant to do the same job.

  • I wish I had a large clitoris.

    • But then you won't be able to wear bikinis or anything that can give away your clit poking out. And certain panties bothers me

    • For anyone, I'd say, don't worry of what people say and see. They'll judge anyway

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  • How huge?
    Like 5cm?

    Look if the guy loves u , he will accept things and keep going :)
    But u need to
    Understand we accept things differently

    For example if I can't be ok with a girl with huge mole in her face other men's do fine with it.

    Me I am fine with huge clitoris others are not.
    people preference are different and that is all before he loves u.
    That is in the like phase and started dating barley.

    After that he is sticking around coz he sees u perfect the way u r.

    • I understand what your saying. But what I would like to know if the mayoralty of men are grossed out of it or if they are in deferent to it. And it seems, at least in this post, the majority are okay with it to some degree.

    • I am ok as long as it's not huge. That's why I asked the size to be able to tell u the general answer to men I got lots of friends and we discuss topics Even shared with them topics here from this site to survey and give more accurate answers

    • I haven't measured it. It's about 1inch and rather thick. It does poke out a lot though.

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  • you're most likely being too hard on yourself

    • You know. My female friends says the same thing but it sure doesn't feel like it. I'm not sure I'm accurate on this but it's about 1inch long. And it kills me when ever it starts to poke out because something happens to turn me on. And yes, apparently it's super easy to turn me on. It's just nasty, having that poke out so often in the day. That's why I'm wondering if people find this normal?

    • I posted this same comment to someone who had a similar response to you.

    • 1 inch. that's it? don't worry about it.

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  • For a one night stand: it would be weird
    For a girlfriend: nah, that's totally alright.

    Never seen a huge one though, so, i am just guessing.

    • Well hello! How are things on the love front! Have things progressed from her eating your face on the bonnet on your car? Lol 😂

    • @Poppykate Hahahahaha yeah! they totally have, we never go 2 days without seeing each other since then. She's just the most beautiful girl i've neen with ever. Thanks a lot for asking 😄 and helping! Hahaha

    • That's wonderful to hear! I had a very long term relationship with a guy I meet at uni. 12 years ( he lived next door to me). He stalked me out for months beforehand. My advice is always listen to her (and actually look like you are listening lol) and remember that whatever problems come along, the only thing that matter is the love and closeness between you and her.

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  • sounds easyer to find and sensetiv af. Why should that be a bad thing? Heck, you're helping the guy

    • Well I would love for a man to actually say that to my face. It may be easier to find but the look of it is unattractive.

    • how big are we talking? Can you find pictures online, so we can get an idea?

  • Yeah, it's like a little dick.

    • Exactly.

  • Geez! Who are these people? To me, a biggish clitoris (like pinto bean sized) looks naughty and appealing. I get an urge to give it a mini BJ.

  • How large are we talking?

    • I'm not sure how accurate this is but I would say about an inch long. Long enough to poke out and bother me. I call it lady Bonner. Lol

    • Never encountered one that big, but I don't -think- it would bother me at all? I'd be interested, and i'm not begging for nudes, but i'm interested to know what shape it has. In some ways a big plus vs women I've been with who had such tiny clits I could barely tell they were there, I just had to rub where it should be which seemed to work... Generally speaking the fact it pokes out and throbs embarrassingly is really really fucking hot.

    • It's under an inch and if only I thought the way you though it would make my life easier. I mean, 25 and only had one brief partner? Seriously I would love to change my train of thought but it's pretty much engraved and here I am posting about it to strangers to see if I feel less grossed out about it.

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  • First, there is a fetish directed toward women with large clitorises. Second, I don't think most guys care that much unless you're really really disproportionate. Third, there is (or was) a member here who had a large clitoris. She might try to contact her and see how it affected her life if at all.

  • No, it is awesome when the clit is big, my girlfriend s is almost the size of my organ

  • I've dated a few women with large clits and I find it amazing. Makes getting at it so much easier.

  • Any guys who have a small penis, or girls with small breasts will probably be able to relate to your concern.
    If you have a large clit, it is something unique to you that many guys will love, and a few guys may not. Those that don't are the same that judge people for the size of their boobs / penis / or body, and are probably not worth bothering with.
    Only you will know if the guy you are with is the right kind of person not to judge you for it.
    If you get very lucky, you might even find a guy who has a fetish for large clits!
    Personally, I love all clits big and small, as they are a way to give a lady pleasure, which I love! Seeing a large clitoris grow and get hard would be a super turn on for me!

  • Is it super sensitive? I would imagine if it's peering out of the hood it must rub against the fabric of your panties a lot? I've never experienced one in person.

  • You don't HAVE to take off your pants. It's quite fun to dry hump through clothing. I take it that my girlfriends clit swelling is a show of how horny she is for me. If you are getting wet through your panties, then you are a bonafide woman

    • Be honest. Te first time you saw your girlfriends clit swell did you ever think "shit, this is a dude". Or maybe did you think negative in anyway simply cuz it's not normal.

    • That was a question.

    • I do get turn on pretty much by everything and the dam clit always gets bulgy giving me away.

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  • i can say it wouldn't bother me at all

  • Little bit, yeah.

  • I love a large clitoris and long clit hood, so nice to lick and suck on. Also, women lucky enough to have long clit hoods/large clits are more likely to experience orgasm during regular penetrative sex.

    • I was weirded out reading this and even thought it was a bit nasty but at the same time it made me feel so much better and hopefull.

    • Sorry, I was just being factual and honest.

  • Big clitoris are super super hot!!!

  • Clit is clitoris no matter how large was. The female who we are love and who takes her pleasure.

  • I’m not, I like all vaginas, as long as they’re clean and groomed i really never found an ugly one!

  • Honestly a larger clit is fun to play with.
    I doubt it's the size of a pinky finger.
    You are likely making more of it than you think.

    • You know. My female friends says the same thing but it sure doesn't feel like it. I'm not sure I'm accurate on this but it's about 1inch long. And it kills me when ever it starts to poke out because something happens to turn me on. And yes, apparently it's super easy to turn me on. It's just nasty, having that poke out so often in the day. That's why I'm wondering if people find this normal?

    • One inch is nothing. My ex had a clit the size two pencil erasers. It was great, I could stroke it, suck it, and she was much easier to get off. My current girlfriend has an almost non-existent clit and although I am no idiot and can still make it work, I understand how less educated males would have trouble finding "the clit" as you see mentioned in so many articles. Having a noticeable clit makes it easier for lackluster male partners to find it. Therefore allowing you to actually get something out of sex. My favorite thing with my ex was putting my thumb up underneath it and gently pushing pressure. It would get her off and I didn't even have to move. ;)

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