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I’d take that anyday over someone who feels they are more experienced because they have run amok. Heck even my virgin ex knew wtf to do in bed just from some internet research and pornwatching. And I bet some hoes are still sucky in bed despite having circled the block. I can’t say Im surprised tho since its probably hard to learn when you continuously start over with a new project rather than just building up the same one...
So I’m just curious to know what is it thats being accomplished when you run through a lot of men/women? Is it an ego boost? Is it about competition? Is it about trying different things to become a jack of all trades? Or is the whole point just to get a temporary fix when in dire need of sex without overthinking the rest? And sure, what you do is your business, but I’m specifically questioning those who feel the need to brag about having a high count?
#FeelFreeToList #HowManyLaysDoesItTake
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8 42the more girls I've slept with the more i’ve found learned what i want sexually and personality wise in a partner. also i think, at least for guys, it helps u build confidence. When you haven't slept with that many girls u tolerate more bad behavior and ignore more red flags. if you’ve had more experience you learn that there’s a lot more fish in the sea and you shouldn’t tolerate chicks bad behavior just to get laid.
Lmao that first part, wow. But i do agree with the last part that its easy to learn there's a lot of fish in the sea and that people shouldn't tolerate settling for the wrong or toxic one.
ur not a guy so i know u can’t relate at all 🤷♂️
I would disagree only in that having more partners helps you realize that there are more possibilities to sexual positions, techniques, uses of toys and the like. When you settle into relationship sex, it usually ends up getting more limited and you both tune in to what you like and do best.
But i dont see how it's settling if both parties still show joy and excitement in whats going on
i never had sex before i never felt the need so far i'm as i'm getting older i do feel the need
sorry i'm not much help
very interesting question
I think you can learn plenty from research alone
@dizzydesii very true the internet as a lot of useful info on sex \still waiting for the right woman but i'm not really a people person we will see how that goes lol
Im not a people person either. Like you said, you just need to meet the right person and that could be another loner like yourself
hopefully met a cute girl who works for construction place i guess she just comes around & gets what they need on the site. she's came in 3 times now but i have blow my shot as in those 3 times i never asked for her number
Awww just ask her. I used to be crazy about this construction worker and i actually made a move but it turns out he was making more moves and trying to date 3 of us
@dizzydesii three of you? if i see her again hopefully i will i'm just going to be blunt & asked
Yea he was tryna be with 3 of us
sorry to hear that but it does not seem like you lost much but a player
Yea i see it as a blessing rather than a loss
You don't get any experience from being with just one person.
You will learn how to satisfy that particular person, but that's it.
If you plan on only ever being with them for the rest of your life it makes sense, but that experience can rarely be carried over to the next.
I've been with people who were obsessed with things the others would find repulsive or unsatisfying.
People are way different sexually.
After 40 partners I'm still running into people who are into stuff I haven't done once in my life.
Yes if im having sex with them, its because i want to please only them for life. Im not the type to want to try everything at once so im fine with having only had a small variety
Sort of
I feel like you do. You learn more by being with someone you love and are close to and are compatible with, not people that sleep around the block with tons of people. And girls and guys with a high body count are not relationship material at all, they have no pair bonding ability in them.
I agree that you learn more with the same few. And i think a hoe could have pair bonding ability with someone out there, just not with me lmao
Yes I agree with what you said except about the hoe. They don't know how to stick with one person for a long time.
I think they can but are easily triggered if the one they put the most effort into ends up breaking their heart. That often sets them off to return to a life of not committing
But I don't think hoes have any feelings.
A hoe is just a heartbroken human who tries to fck the pain of their first heartbreak (or traumatic experience) away
You might feel that way, but hoes break guys hearts because they love sex more than anything else and cheat on a guy and break his heart. Maybe that's why guys sleep around then if that's true about girls. Maybe some hoes are heartbroken and some are just born a hoe with no feelings. There was a girl on her before that posted stuff everyday about all the guys she has sex with and she seemed nice but didn't really love anyone.
I think thats where you get confused tho. A hoe to me can be a man or woman. So im speaking based off the male hoes i know and the female hoes that were once my friend before I disowned the friendship because they couldnt stop hoeing
Ok I understand you