Guys, Found out my boyfriend was going to happy ending massage. He says it was for cheap massage & he didn't cheat. Is it possible he is honest?

I'm not this dumb but sometimes we go into denial and I think I'm there. I found out my boyfriend was sexting female friends and asking them for sex. I couldn't confirm whether any of them took him up on the offer to meet or have sex. It looks like no one did.. I also found out that he has been making weekly trips to Asian massage parlors. Ones that are listed on rubmaps with reviews saying they offer full service with sex. And these places have Google reviews saying they are happy ending parlors. And he also has a subscription on his phone to rubmaps that costs $20 a month. He claims the sexting was all talk and if he were presented with the opportunity to cheat he wouldn't. He said he was going to the massage parlors for cheap massages and used rubmaps to find places to get cheap massages. So then why pay for the premium membership that shows the reviews? And he didn't mention he was going for these massages. We live together and if we go out we mention where. Why say you are going to the post office and home depot and leave out the part about getting a massage if it is an innocent massage? This is really hard to believe but he is insisting I believe him. He has been very neglectful of me and I didn't understand why until I found out about this stuff. But I'm feeling like I am in denial and he is insisting it is innocent.
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  • He cheated by even getting involved

  • He is likely cheating either with other women or by receiving happy endings at massage parlors. I'd try following him when he says he's going to Home Depot or the post office.