Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Found out the guy I'm interested in has a body count of 40+. I have a hard time crushing on him now. Is that normal?
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He texted me saying he hopes the talk didn't change my perception of him. He is a mutual friend. I didn't say anything negative, but it did. It's a big number.
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He's only 26
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I'm a virgin and value the act of sex, I guess I perceive it differently and don't think he and I would relate
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What Girls & Guys Said
18 42If roles were reversed youd expect him to live with it, either live with it or part ways
Yes. However you should look at it like a gift
Your priorities aren’t right nor wrong. If it bothers you too much, move on.
There is nothing wrong with a high sex count for a guy or girl.
Depends when he first started as well.
Start at 16 that's 4 people per year/ 1 every 3 months.
Started at 20, that's 7 per year / 1 every 2 months (roughly).
Nope, that's not normal, that's really slutty.
It's alright, everyone have their preferences, you don't have to date him
It's literally irrelevant, if you liked him before he hasn't changed.
Pretty normal for you to feel that way
Totally normal, you probably think that you will be another number to him. Look for someone else.
you should have sex with your husband
You dont want a player girl. If you asked him and he told you, I would also focus on the last time he slept with a woman, thats important and tells his risk of having an STD/having changed as a man.
If he's the one who brought that out of nowhere, then never get with him. he's the type that would count girls as objects and deserves a few kicks down there so he keeps his pants up. Anyways this isn't reassuring but sometimes people change, as I said above. Depends if you are ready to stay with him and find out if he changed, you will need to be strong for that
I would only date a virgin. I find non virgins gross
If you don’t vomit, go on. I don’t think that i can be a serious relationship with that men.
Very true girl
personally I think you have a right to be concerned - that seems like a player level body count to me and you don’t want to get caught up with someone so far from your values
Sounds like a high risk of STD STI but what do I know
@Asker may I ask what your plans are with him since you posted two update limits this week? 😲😊
Yeah I wouldn't crush on a whoremonger either
Update: Disgusting OP Run girl as fast as you can He's a player