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We started talking 2 years ago because his number was saved on my old sim. I still don't know how it got there but he was a nice guy so we kept talking. We never met but we've run into each other while hanging out with other people. He's friends with a lot of my high school friends and he likes the night life.
I am in no way attracted to him. Even flirting with him was kinda awkward for me (and I am a very flirty person) because I just can't see him in that light. I also don't trust him because of his lifestyle and previous relationships. One of my major concerns is that he knows my ex and I don't want him (my ex) finding out that I'm friends with benefits with that guy.
The only reasons why I wanna say yes is because I haven't had sex in MONTHS, I like adventure and I've always been the friend with flings (they have never been sexual... not yet)
I've been contemplating having a fuck buddy but I'm not sure about it. Like I'm more than fine on my own, I can't get myself to trust people in that way in a short lapse of time and I don't know if I have enough time for it. In short, I'm not sure if I'm interested YET.
I don't know what to do. Should I say yes or just decline it? And if I say no, how do I make things not awkward between us? I don't want to bump into him again and have that awkward moment when we have to pretend that everything's normal.
What Girls & Guys Said
8 42Leads to a broken heart - not recommended.
friends with benefits should be a temporary thing till you find someone permanent
Here's what to do:
1- Go masturbate
2- Ask yourself this question
3- There you have your answer
Lmao thanks but I already have the answer😂😂
"I am in no way attracted to him." - enough said, end of story. Don't do it. As far as how to turn him down, just be direct and honest (to a point lol). Something like "thanks for the offer, I did consider it, however I've decided that it won't work for me" and leave it at that (ie don't tell him you're not attracted to him). If he gets upset after that (everyone handles rejection differently), just ignore it. Also let him know you've enjoyed the friendship (if true) and you would like that to continue still.
Find someone else its not difficult.
I cannot even begin to imagine why you would fuck someone you didn't like or trust when you could literally pick up any guy you wanted while you were at the shops buying bread and milk or by spending 5 minutes on a dating site or something.
Well i certainly don't think that saying yes would make any sense. Since you aren't attracted to him plus he knows your friends, he could make things weird for you once things fall out.
The best way to say no is that you are looking out for a good relationship stuff and aren't interested in being fuck buddies.