Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Gave a bj on the first date to a guy I met online. Am I a total whore?
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I spend my life working 12 hours a day (petroleum engineer) except on weekends, which i spend doing house work, and relaxing. I haven't had sex in 2 years since my ex boyfriend, and it took a long time to get over him. I haven't dated in 2 years, and I recently met someone I was very very attracted to. As soon as I kissed him, all the rules went out the window and I just wanted to be sexual, badly! Anyways, I gave him a blow job, but didn't actually have sex. He obviously never called me back. Understandably, cause He thinks I am easy and I do that with everyone. But the truth is, I had a lot of sexual tension built up for 2 years, and I finally saw someone I liked and was physically attracted to, and I lost my self control. I just want to know, should I explain this to him so he doesn't think poorly of me? Or should I just accept this as an epic fuck up and move on with my life and try not to let my need for sex overwhelm my judgement? Also, am I a whore? I feel like such a bad person. I have so much to offer a man and I just wish I knew how to show them. Do men really loose all respect for women after any type of sex too soon?
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What Girls & Guys Said
12 26Making that Petroleum Engineering money I see. Ballin'. Differentiate deez nutz.
Hell no, that's sexy. He was just an idiot. He got what he wanted and left. His loss.
if he thinks that you are a whore after blowing him than he is a shallow bastard
No your not a total whore your totally awesome!
You're not a whore you are human. After 2 years of no sex would drive anyone crazy. A one night stand isn't a bad thing just make sure you get some in return and not just a blow and go
Nah id enjoy it
You are not a whore and he is a jerk if he really thinks that. Sorry for some guys being such ass munchers
so you initiated the kiss? and he seemed to go along fine with it?
I think that telling this to him is irrelevant. Just call him and see how will he react. Be proud of what you did. If you show that you regret it, it's worse. Do whatever you like. If he didn't understand you, it's his problem.
No don't worry about, enjoy the fact that you had fun.
You swedish?
There's difference between stupid decision and bad decision. Just don't rush things too fast, you are too close to be a whore
You are not a whore. Shit happens.