Getting him to eat me out more?

I need help how to tell my boyfriend I want him to eat me out and/or finger me more. He plays with my boobs a ton and fucks me really well but I want him to finger me and make me cum but I don't know how to tell him without hurting his feelings
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  • Make it known to him that you really enjoy how he makes you feel when he eats you. Leave a hint for him somewhere on a sticky note. Perhaps mix it up a bit for him. For example if you are shaved, grow a bush or vice versa. Also, see if he'd be into eating you more if you tried using some flavored products like "Pussy Licker" or some whipped cream around your vagina. Try a different position besides you on your back such as a downward dog, or sitting on his face, or maybe in a different location than normal e. g. on the kitchen counter, in the bathtub, etc. Try watching porn together and tell him you like the way a particular guys eats pussy. Also, if you usually have sex in the dark, try with the lights on so he can really see what he's doing. To give him better access with his tongue try holding your inner labia open while he gives you pleasure. Consider playing a sex barter game with him. For example tell him you'll swallow his cum if he can first give you an orgasm by eating you. Or play a game like cards where the loser has to do whatever the winner wants sexually.

  • Don't tell him, just take his hands softly and guide them to the right place. With time he will get use as soon he realize you like it.

    • That probably would work best honestly, I just feel so weird doing that and have to get better at doing it without being awkward or anything😂

    • you know? with my ex we change from good to super good communicating like that, its not awkward at all, don't kill the passion, don't start discussions , and do not create a frame in which all is always the same cause the other say to me that like that.

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  • Let him come over to find you laying back on the bed naked, legs open and rubbing yourself. Look deep into his eyes and tell him "I need your tongue baby!"

    • A shame a woman has to tell her man to eat her. I never hesitate to tongue a woman’s pussy or suck her clit. Just love it when she cums in my mouth and her juices pour into my mouth.

  • You shouldn't worry to hurt his feelings. I guess you should talk freely to him. If he really likes you, he'll understand.

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  • Perhaps you should suggest playing a bedtime game:

    Need some excitement in the bedroom? Are you willing to take a challenge?

    and make it less obvious by allowing him to be the winner for the first hour.

  • Most guys do not get upset when their gal tells him what turns her on. We like to know what she like best.

  • Just tell him!
    It won't hurt his feelings for you to tell him what feels best for you.

  • Well it could be that he doesn't think that he would know what to do. If you think that he would get turned on by watching you self-pleasure, I'd suggest showing him how you like to pleasure yourself. He can learn from that.

  • Are you giving him bjs and he is not returning the favor. Just tell him that you really enjoy oral sex and that it gives you great orgasms.

  • You could just ask him. Unless he’s like unseasonably insecure I doubt his feelings will be hurt.

  • Most guys are blunt as fuck when it comes to this. Just ask him to do it for you. If he really respects you - he will. One thing to add though. Make sure you properly wash yourself down there and run it with water so there is no soap left. That will increase your chances.

  • During foreplay, take your fingers and insert them in your V for several minutes and make sure he is watching. Then play with your clit. Then guide his fingers to your V and insert them and move them the way you want and then over your clit and whisper to him "I want you to finger me and play with my clit". Hopefully that does the trick.

  • Why would that hurt his feelings? He can't read your mind. You have to be able to talk about sex and everything else to have a strong relationship. Only when you have allowed someone to really know you can you feel loved.

  • If you think you'll hurt his feelings, just push his head down there lol

  • Tell him you want him to watch a video with you. Find a porn video where the girl is receiving oral from her boyfriend in a way that you think is exciting. As you're watching it with him mention that that's something you'd like to experience with him. You deserve to receive oral pleasure from your boyfriend.

  • Start with fingering. Tell him you found this on the internet (you did) and you want to see how it feels. I wrote this.
    Four-fingering. Turning foreplay into the main event.

  • Let him know that you have heard it’s normal for guys to go down on girls and finger them during foreplay. Girls usually can have multiple orgasms and once he gets you to cum a few times you are more than ready to be fucked. Guys have egos and knowing he can get you to orgasm 4 or 5 times between foreplay and intercourse will motivate him. See how it’s positive encouragement instead of criticizing what he’s already used to?

  • Maybe a smart way to ask him is to insinuate that he is so hot that your number one dream is that he goes down on you. I mean that's still an accomplishment right?

  • Tease him with oral and start telling him your desires during foreplay. Remember though, never force anything. Gotta be fair playing field. That aside, maybe he doesn't know how to. No matter what, have that conversation. You'll be happy you did.

  • tell him before having sex that you want to be eaten out

    • Do guys get offended by that though? Like he does a good job lol, I just want him to do more of this! Think he’d believe me if I told him he’s great, but can he just try doing this?

    • just tell him the truth that you have a fetish for getting eaten out, im sure he would do it more knowing it turns you on a lot

    • I would call that a fetish, I'd call it a basic part of having sex.

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  • Teach him the 'come-hither' move.
    Talk about it outside the bedroom - during sex isn't the place.
    Explain to him what makes you come.

  • Find some porn that highlights eating pussy and let him see how excited that gets you...
    If he knows you want it and then he still doesn't want to please you... then fuck his feelings. Tell him what you want. If he loves you then he should want to please you.

  • You just tell him outside the bedroom things you really want

  • lol I love to do lot of eating out and foreplay, but my bad that i am single nowadays LOL some guys dont go for that much eating out try to give him hint

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