Girlfriend forced me to cum inside her! PLEASE HELP!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

[Anonymous]

Sorry if this seems a bit crazy! Yesterday night, me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time without a condom. I told her I'd pull out just to be safe. We were having sex in missionary position (me on top of her). As I was about to cum she wrapped her legs around me and held me down. I tried my absolute best but couldn't overcome the strength of my orgasm and her legs. As I freaked out I asked her why she did it. Her response was because she thinks having a child will bring us closer together. I am livid... Utterly livid. I have no intention of ever wanting a child and am really scared right now. I left the apartment and am at a friend's place at the moment. What the fuck should I do?

[Sangita93]

Climax of sexual pleasure and most enjoyable moment is when man cum, because he is most active and involved in lovemaking at that moment. Girl enjoy his full involvement and pull - push movements but a powerful thrust of his ejaculation makes her most satisfied over all other things. Talk to her about your desire of not having child (now or for ever) and decide together for maintaining or ending the relationship. Most girls do not like sexual relationship if it will not end in making the family and getting settled in life with her family. If you agree to continue the relationship, ask her to go on pills - it is safe and easy way of enjoying sex at its full. I believe that if you are using her only for sex, your relationship will not last longer. Be serious about it - be realistic about the facts of life.

[RealgirlRachel]

Be warned @Sanjita93, with constructive shit like this the asker may want to hit you with a speedboat x

[DontOverHypeWomen]

Bro what? You can have a relationship with sex and not want kids. That doesn't mean that he's just using her for sex. I never wanted kids either, that doesn't mean that my relationships with my exes were just about sex. This guy didn't want his penis inside of her vagina anymore; i. e. HE STOPPED CONSENTING TO PENETRATION. You know what it's called, when you don't want to have sex but you are forced to anyways? I bet you do. Sure it was consensual in the beginning, but if someone says "No" or "stop" vocally, with body language, or otherwise, that means "I know longer consent to intercourse. But I guess he's the bad guy.

[estoydorado1]

Pray she's not ovulating or pregnant. There's a chance that she isn't. The pull out method is unreliable, even if you do pull out before cumming. Pre cum is still a thing. Next time be proactive about protection on your end. Especially if you're this averse to having children. P. s. your girlfriend sounds unstable.

[Asker]

Tell that to @RealgirlRachel.

[Poppykate]

Wow 😲 She is a bi$ch! Actually she is worst then that! I would have taken her to the chemist, this morning and have brought her the morning after pill. Just a little parting gift. And made sure she took it. This is NOT the sort of woman you want in your life, or someone you want to attach yourself too!

[Asker]

Tell that to @RealgirlRachel.

[Poppykate]

Clearly she is 18 and still lives in fairyland, 🧚🏻‍♀️where her parents come and fix all her problems.

[Asker]

Yeah I suppose. Sorry about all the violent comments. My girlfriend (ex) is sleeping in the bedroom and I can't wake her up by freaking out.

[Poppykate]

You need to wake her up, and go get the morning after pill. Otherwise 9 months from now, you could be supporting her and YOUR baby!.

[Asker]

We already talked about it before she fell asleep. She says she'll think about it and let me know in the morning. God help me.

[Anonymous]

You've been raped technically. But don't tell her that, or anyone for that matter. Demand that she goes with you to the drug store/doctor to buy Plan B and watch her take it. She owes you this much. The decision to have kids needs to be consensual. And yes the man's feeling count too. Explain to her how f'd up that was and how she has no right. Frankly, if anything even remotely like this happens again you should dump her and spread mean rumours about her to everyone.

[Asker]

Tell that to fucking @RealGirlRachel.

[Opinion Owner]

all the other guys here are just joking around... I'm actually being serious. The rumour thing was a joke but the rest is actually my advice. in reality this was a rape. if a guy cummed inside a girl forcibly it be like, newspapers, primetime news hour, marches in the street. but you're a man, so unfortunately if you tell anyone this could create difficulties for you

[Asker]

I really fucking hope they're joking. People can't possibly believe all the "MEN CAN'T BE RAPED" bullshit right?

[Opinion Owner]

Many people do believe this, or more correctly, they believe that any men who are raped must be pussies, or something along those longs. - Yes, this was rape. - Rachel suggests you simply forgive your rapist and look at it as a good thing. - Other people are victim blaming you because they think you should have worn a condom, and you were asking for it to happen by not doing so They're all fucked. Sorry bro. You're upset right now and freaked out, and that's probably a normal response to what happened. You know what plan B is right? Please take my advice and do that with her--it's your best shot at avoiding a pregnancy. And yes, you should have been wearing a condom, but that doesn't make it okay for her to do that, and it definitely doesn't mean you deserved it or that you were asking for it

[Asker]

You have no idea how thankful I am for your understanding. I'm really sorry for all the violent responses but I'm just really freaked out right now. My girlfriend (ex) is sleeping in the bedroom so I can't freak out by making too much noise. But yeah, I'm gonna have to talk to her in the morning.

[Opinion Owner]

Yea, I remember the first time I had thought I had gotten a girl pregnant... I shit you not, it felt like my heart was sinking downwards and my balls had shot upwards, so as to take exchange places. I was short of breath for sure. You should give yourself some credit for having responsible feelings too... the first time I came in a girl, she wanted me to do it too, although I didn't feel forced. I did it, and I was like "damn, this feels AMAZING" and then I just wanted to do that all the time. I impregnated 3 different girls when I was a teenager, each had abortions. That was not the right way to do things.

[Opinion Owner]

One more thing, tomorrow, or later whenever you've had some time and space and stuff, decide for your self how you feel about what happened and how you feel about her. We're calling this a technical rape, but that doesn't necessarily mean RAPE AND RAPIST BURN THAT BITCH, if you know what I mean. Maybe you're still into her. I bet you are. That's cool. What she did doesn't exactly make her Bill Cosby, you know? Just figure out how you feel don't worry about the labels and politics of those labels and whatever.

[melendezm651]

Good luck. Now you'll have to pay child support and pay for not having a condom on. You should have told her no but you went along with it anyway. She might be a psycho for doing it but you shouldn't have agreed to it if you didn't put a condom on. It is not completely your fault but sometimes you just have to say no. Hopefully she doesn't get pregnant but like I said before good luck.

[cranberry_shots]

This is the most wild post and comment section I have ever come across

[bang678]

Yikes thats hard. She sounds like a crazy bitch. Break it off with her. you're still in the 48 hour window, tell her you'll pay for her to get Plan B

[BrittBratt2416]

Stop fucking without a condom, that's a start maybe? You can't be mad about this cause you made this dumb decision. If you were wearing a rubber you wouldn't have to worry about that stunt she pulled. there's nothing you can really do about it, what's done is done... just hope you guys did it on a day she wasn't ovulating. But honestly let this be a lesson to you and start wearing a dang condom, shit like this wouldn't happen if people started using common sense.

[Asker]

What if the genders were reversed? What if I forcefully ejaculated her without her permission? Would you victim blame her as well? I didn't wear a condom because I've been with her for 3 years and I trust her.

[BrittBratt2416]

So the fuck what you been with her for 3 years, you know you don't want kids so you need to be wrapping it up. Guess what? The pull out method is bullshit so even if she didn't do that, sooner or later you probably would have this problem cause your having unprotected, irresponsible sex. And I would say the same damn thing to her, you don't want kids either stop fucking or wrap it up. You're 18 man, you should know this...

[BrittBratt2416]

And this isn't being a Victim? You're reaching with that one, this is just a piss poor decision you've made. Did you tell her before you got together that you didn't want kids?

[BrittBratt2416]

Downvoting me doesn't stop what I said from being the truth.

[BrittBratt2416]

Being brutally honest with you isn't being a jackass cunt. Yeah what she did was messed up but you wouldn't be freaking out about it if you wore a condom. Telling people to drink bleach cause you can't handle you're own mistakes isn't mature of you. You're already not mature cause you're out here having unprotected sex anyway.. so eh.. sometimes reality just needs to give you quick smack in the face for you to wake up.

[BrittBratt2416]

You know what because of that comment, you got what you deserve...

[BrittBratt2416]

And I hope you become a daddy and paychild support... o wait there's a chance of that happening.
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[BrittBratt2416]

You're on here hoping and wishing death on people and yet I'm the "people who don't need to be in this world"? Are you serious kid? Take a look in the mirror... lol

[Potatocream]

Bitch what? This crazy girl made him cum inside of her wtf, it is not his fault at all, just because she wants kids she can't force him to cum in her. He has a right to decide if he wants to be a Dad. Break up with her and take legal action

[BrittBratt2416]

@Potatocream Bitch what? The idiot put his dick inside her without wearing a damn condom you ninny. Anyone who's screwing around without a condom is asking for 1. Possiblity of std or 2. a freaking kid! When you decide to put your dick in girl without protection, that's what you are asking for... so in my opinon they both fucked up. She shouldn't have done that, but it wouldn't of had happened if he was wearing a condom in first place. y'all love to blame shit on women but don't want to look at you're own faults. Take some damn responsibility for once.

[BrittBratt2416]

But of course, you're 16 and he's 18... you both have a long ways before coming mature adult men.

[Potatocream]

Its literally illegal for her to do that even if the man went without a condom. Yea theyre asking for it and if she wouldvs been pregnant because of that shit man they fucked up but it is not his fault as he never wanted to cum inside of her. Its like wearimg a condom but breaking it without his knowledge

[Potatocream]

Im not speaking out of my ass here its literally illegal.

[BrittBratt2416]

@Potatocream lol dude its not illegal, just admit you fucked up okay. You two both chose to do it without a condom.. deal with it.

[Potatocream]

I'm not the one who did it lol, and it is.

[BrittBratt2416]

@Potatocream I see that, anyway.. it's his fault for not wearing a condom. Next time he'll know better.

[SeamanLiquor]

@BrittBratt2416 Damn, what a narrow mind you’ve got. Hope you never get the chance to breed for humanities sake.

[BrittBratt2416]

@SeamanLiquor So mean speaking common sense is a narrow mind? Honey don't breed your damn self.

[RealgirlRachel]

Forgive her and live for the moment! Sex is a beautiful thing and there is no bigger turn on than having a guy come inside of you without protection. Write it off as a one off mistake and tell her you don't want a kid just yet.

[RealgirlRachel]

Sorry to have tried to help. I do enjoy water skiing so you never know, I may get hit by a speedboat and your wishes may come true.

[Asker]

For society's sake, I hope you do.

[BrianMerritt]

Real, you are cray cray.

[melendezm651]

Asker you are surely a dick. You got what you asked for. You had sex without protection, and now you will probably pay the consequences. You cannot hold her completely at fault for you making the choice of not wrapping it up. Don't be a dick because someone told you something you didn't want to hear.

[errez]

Man, get a hold of yourself! Rachel does not deserve this kind of response. She just shared her opinion, not accused you or anything. Now, try to think calmly what you can do. Talk with her parents? Talk to a lawyer? Maybe just talking with her will solve things on the better way... Just don't freak out. Be a man.

[melendezm651]

I said asker didn't I?

[melendezm651]

Nvm lol

[errez]

My response was to the asker (started to write my response before yours appeared here). :)

[melendezm651]

I said she was a psycho. And by the way the pull out method doesn't work because there is a little thing called precum. If you went to health class you would know that you stupid son of a bitch

[melendezm651]

I hope you understand that I said in my actual answer that it was both of your faults. You consented to sex without protection and she held you inside her. There is a gray area but you cannot flip flop on your consent in the middle of the act. If that was the case we would all be rapists. And you could have started with that plan B bullshit instead arguing with people over the internet because you didn't like what they said. There is literally no need to instigate a problem when people try to help you. It should probably be a good idea that you delete your account from this place because you are the most toxic person I have ever talked to in my life. Negativity is not needed on this site

[melendezm651]

Well I am denouncing both of you but okay now I am defending her. So lets say the roles were reversed shall we? I most likely would have told her that she shouldn't have hooked up with such an insufferable piece of shit who would do that. And than I would tell her why she didn't force the guy to use protection or having some type of plan in case the condom broke. If he didn't want to use protection I definitely would have called it off but you know having a kid isn't too bad. That is your problem. You do not want to take responsibility and blame her completely when you should have wore protection in the fucking first place. If you did it than you full well know the consequences. So don't call me a cunt when you put yourself in that position.

[kitjo]

She did something that was against your sexual consent. You can report her to the police if she won't listen to reason and respect your wishes about parenthood. It's not a nice card to play, but as you rightly say, if the genders were reversed, it would be considered rape.

[12291988]

He has no rights. The courts will just mandate child support.

[kitjo]

Yes I know that. A test case would be useful to force a confrontation between anti-male legislation and the inviolability of no means no, believe the victim.

[12291988]

There have been thousands. The courts continuously uphold the legal position that men don’t have the right to say no.

[Alistayr]

If you don't ever want a child, don't have sex. That is the only sure way of protection.

[Asker]

Well what the fuck do I do now?

[Alistayr]

There is nothing you can do, unless you sue her for assault, but that wouldn't work if you had unprotected sex. All you can do is pray. Sorry, my friend.

[Asker]

I have a better idea. I'm going to convince her to take a plan B pill/abortion saying that I can't have a child RIGHT NOW. I'll say to her that in a few years we can start making babies. Once she undergoes plan B and I succeed in UN-impregnating her, I will dump her and run the fuck away.

[Alistayr]

That's if you can convince her.

[Alistayr]

And in this case, the little deceit is probably justified.

[_tachyon_]

I've heard people say this all my life. It's bad advice plain and simple. People will have sex, typically they will have sex as often as they possible can manage, particularly if they are men. So yea, if you're Jesus Christ, good advice. If you're a normal guy with a dick and swollen balls then you need a REAL plan. Hey, know how everyone is always whining about car crashes? Don't buy cars! Duh!

[Alistayr]

@_tachyon_ The reason they say it is because it's true. Duh! You need to be able to see the truth before you look for a solution. Only idiots keep banging their heads against a brick wall without thinking that maybe it's going to do serious damage after a while. And if you think it's good advice if you're Jesus Christ, then it's good advice from anyone. DUUUUUUH!

[_tachyon_]

You missed the point man.

[Alistayr]

@_tachyon_ Okay, so what was the point?

[BrianMerritt]

What a load of bullshit. This is probably a fantasy you have while you masturbate.

[12291988]

You. Are. Screwed. Dump her. Walk away. That shit is unacceptable, but what a shock, the women in the audience think it is okay. Double standards really piss me off. If a guy forcibly came in a girl, you’d all be screaming rape.

[Jerome7]

We’ll admit that you’re super stupid. Sex= kids.

[lilmissumshine]

😂she just trapped u buddy. smart girl

[Deathraider]

Look, she sounds crazy. If she has a kid, you need to decide if you could support it. If not, you need to focus on education instead of this.

Next time, always wear condoms. The pulling out doesn't work.

[lala_ray]

Sue her

[BeHappy1985]

LMAO.. wait a month to find out if you're the father or not and dump her maybe.. or invest into some goddamn condoms.. ps: children are the nr 1 reason for divorce.. they do not bring people closer..

[britpop]

Hopefully she's not pregnant and she is so wrong for doing that you need to speak to her though why does she feel that way

[manhart]

I would try to give her an i pill or something, also if she says no. I would try to sneak it into her someway (like some food or with water I don't know. The safest way). Cause at this point, I think would be done with this relationship!

[kitjo]

Good idea to slip her the pill.

[Nandor]

Do you want to have a future with her?

[Asker]

No. I do not.

[Nandor]

Tell her that this isn't what you want and she should get an abortion if she gets pregnant

[RumEro]

if she get pregnant don't be a freaking boy, take care of her , it's your kid after all

[CT_CD]

Leave her and let her be a single mom

[manhart]

Why fuck up the kids life that going to be born

[BigBadBear]

You should leave her and fight for custody in court for the child.

[Anonymous]

I felt sorry for you. Until I read your comments, telling people to die a painful death, that's horrid. I hope you get stuck paying child support.

[Asker]

I mean my girlfriend is in the bedroom sleeping so it's not like I can freak out by making noise.

[Opinion Owner]

So that's a good enough excuse to tell innocent people to die painful deaths? Dude you don't even know these people or way they make be going through and comments like that are enough to tip someone over the edge. I get you're angry which you have every right to be, but wishing death upon people isn't going to solve anything.

[Asker]

Well in case you haven't noticed there's no delete button so I'm fucked.

[Opinion Owner]

Or you could just apologise, it would mean more than just deleting the post.

[Asker]

To be honest, I don't really feel sorry. People who support the "Men can't be raped' and victim blaming double standard really DO deserve to die IMHO. I wouldn't feel too bad about it tbh. Call me a bad person but... I don't really care.

[Opinion Owner]

None of them said men can't be raped...

[Opinion Owner]

They literally said to talk it out with her

[Asker]

They might no have said it directly, but the idea certainly comes across. Would they be saying that to my girlfriend if I held her down and forcefully impregnated her? Probably not. Dumbass...

[PrincessJess49]

Dude you’re stupid

[Opinion Owner]

With our mindset you certainly don't seem old enough to be having unprotected sex. Or mature enough. You don't want a baby? Wear a fucking condom, dumbass.

[PrincessJess49]

^agreed

[Opinion Owner]

^😝😝😝

[PrincessJess49]

It’s like common sense... don’t want child? Use protection... That’s like getting a brand new phone, not wanting to crack the screen when you drop it. But you don’t buy a case for it. And guess what! When you drop it, chances are, screens gonna break lol

[Opinion Owner]

Literally it isn't rocket science, the whole point of a condom is to prevent accidental pregnancy, but for some reason people can't understand that, so they come to whine on a website about how their girlfriend may possibly be pregnant when they didn't wear protection 🙄

[PrincessJess49]

And you know, anyone who doesn’t agree with him must die lol

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like the logic of a 16 year old

[PrincessJess49]

Right. 😒