Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health So my girlfriend went to her friend's bachelorette party about a week ago. I must admit I was a bit anxious about her going, but I couldn't exactly say 'no' and stop her from going to her friend of 10+ years' hen party. Plus she insisted that there wasn't going to be any strippers or anything dodgy. Apparently it was just some drinks and a laugh with some of the girl's friends.
Well a few days after the incident, a guy that I know (not personally) reached out to me and told me that his WIFE had given a male stripper a blowjob at the hen party, and that my girlfriend had also done the same. This was the first I heard about the whole incident, and I refused to believe it until he sent me Watsapp pictures and a video of my girlfriend and his wife giving a male stripper oral and they were both jerking him off as well, along with about 10 other girls.
Another 5-6 girls were sat in the foreground, refusing to take part. I'm guessing the ones sat at the back were the ones that remained faithful to their partners. I was quite surprised at the number of girl's getting involved in the act, and how easily they were being coaxed in by the other girls and the stripper. A few of the women have got in trouble with their partners because of pics/videos circulating, and I know at least one of them has been dumped.
I think I should probably break up with her and end the relationship because it is still cheating. And I know she would do the same if I got off with a female stripper at a bachelor/stag party. The guy that contacted me is still with his wife though, as far as I know, and said he would talk to her about it, but might just forgive her. I don't know if I can do the same. Should I end the relationship, or forgive her under the circumstances? I understand that it was most probably a one-off, and she was coerced into it by the other girls, but I'm not sure what to do? Should I end it?
Girlfriend gave a blowjob to male stripper at bachelorette/hen party. Is that a deal breaker & should I break up with her?
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12 26Can't believe you even need to ask this you cuck. WTF is wrong with you?
It's cheating in the purest sense. Dump her ass.
Nah. It was her one last fling.
I need that job
Doesn't sound like too big of a deal to me. The only part that bothers me is that she lied. I'm sure there was nothing sexual about the actual act. I'd talk to her about it and see how she reacts
Sorry, giving a BJ is sexual. It's cheating.
Sounds like it was just for being crazy in the moment. I doubt it was sexually pleasurable to her. That's just my opinion though. I don't know the girl. I have been to those kind of parties and it's usually just people laughing and doing shocking things
Yeah but she was still doing it while fully aware she had a boyfriend, and kept it from him meaning she knew she shouldn't have. I don't just go around sucking dick because other people are, and if I did, I would be a cheater. If you're ok with your girl sucking off strangers then that's you but the majority of the population agrees that it's not right
@Lissy6789 You are right! Cheating is cheating. End of story. End of relationship, too!
Ask yourself. Would you get a bj from a stripper. If so, forgive her
Not a deal breaker.. She thought he was hot, it was her last day of being single..
It was a drunken party and she had a fun night. Let it go. And keep it quiet until you mess up some time.
Talk to her about it and ask why she did it. Having had a drink to much and peer pressure is one thing; dating a guy and giving a blowjob is something entirely different.
Mate chill, this is what hen parties are all about. Let her let her hair down once in a while! It was a group activity and they were all having a laugh. It’s not like she was the only one doing it. Cut her some slack!
It’s nothing compared to the story my girlfriend came home with. At her friends hen party they were playing pass the parcel with a strippers dick, taking turns to suck it and when the music track changed the next girl had to have a go, this didn’t stop until the guy come in one of these girls mouth! And my girlfriend told me she was a part of it! Just relax, it would feel differently if she was on her own in a room with the guy doing it but this is just a party game fella. Be happy your mrs is a fun chick!
I've been to many strip clubs where the strippers were women, and the men behaved like gentlemen. Sure they cheered and such, but they didn't get stupid. Women, on the other hand, turn into complete idiots when the roles are reversed.
Dump her. She should have sent you a text and asked if you were OK with her doing that. At least then she would have let you decide, instead of deciding for herself.
If the guy had a really huge penis you should forgive her, she was probably overcome with excitement and awe and maybe a little drunk and did what comes naturally.
Have you talk to her about it?
I don't worse and he still with me
Then you are damned lucky!
@juicyjessie why i am lucky? It's called true love
So why did you do worse? That does not sound like true love!
@juicyjessie he loves me never said i loved him
Why be with him then? Seems like you might be a user?
@juicyjessie be a user?
Yeah a user id go further and say a giant p. o. s. people like you make me sick how selfish can one be
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