Girlfriend won't do Anal, should I dump her?

I love her, and love spending time with her, but all my friends GFs do it, one even showed me video proof.
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  • 30-35? something seems fishy here, maybe that rumour that gag ask anon questions might be true

  • I think she should dump you if you're asking the question to strangers about an ultimatum situation as petty as this one.

    • she care about herself and doesn't care about him so please shut the fuck up

  • thats up to you buddy

  • Yeah. She's too good for you.

    • yeah he is too good to date a selfish girl

  • dump her for her sake

    • for his sake

  • How about you make a compromise with her if your willing to let her stick a dildo up your bum then you can give her anal. Dude that stuff hurts she has every right to refuse doing it.

  • Yes dump her. Hopefully you both will find someone that actually meets your needs.

  • Simple. Get her to open to the idea of doing it or try to open her to the idea of having a more open-ended relationship where you and her can fuck other girls.

    If not then you'll either have to learn to live without doing anal until she's ready or just move on. You have a need that's not being met, and you owe it to yourself to go pursue it.

    • so why he is with her if she doesn't care about him and his needs no other girls dating just kick her out of your life and find a good woman who will take care of you a real woman

  • Try dating a gay man, they love anal!

    • so if he wants a blowjob he should date a gay man because he has a mouth? just stick my shoe in your ass and shut up

  • of course you should. She could find someone better than you.

    • yeah he will find a better girl not a selfish bitch like his ex

  • You don't have a girlfriend.

  • I love abit of anal

  • Yes, find some other girl first and then dump her.

  • No. She should dump you. People in a relationship should respect each other's boundaries and limits, both inside of the bedroom and out.

    • you mean she should give him what he asked for or she dont love him so shut the fuck up

  • Yes, you should dump her. But first give her a chance to repair her misbehaviour (I mean, she doesn't love you or respect your desires) if she keep acting like a child, you should force her to do anal and than dump her.

  • Never ever dump a girl teach her how to do anal

    • or respect and accept that fact that she doesn't want it

    • @Wheresthebooze there no accept if she doesn't care about his needs then good bye

  • What Can I say.. I see many feminist people in here that cannot really give you a good answer but insults. The bottom line is this. If you really want it and she says No. You either have this options, deal with it or break up. Because at the end she will do anal with someone else that she is really into. Looks like she is not really into you or she sees you as a Beta. I have seen many girls that they will keep on saying that they will never do anal but at the end they will do it with the one man they really want.

  • Don't say you love her while ur thinking whether you should dump her because she won't do anal with you. You should respect her decision. Maybe if your so into anal then why don't you find a boyfriend for urself? He'll give you anal.

    • first you dirty pig ass whore we know why you don't like anal because you don't clean your ass just shit and whip like a dirty pig second you told him to find a boyfriend because he asked his girl for anal? then what you are saying about blowjob? you would tell him find a boyfriend because he has mouth too? shut your dirty ass bitch pig and learn how to clean your dirty ass god all these women who hate anal they don't clean their asses they are dirty as fuck we know that but they are lying about the pain etc

  • Honestly anal is nasty. I think it would be wrong to dump her because she's uncomfortable with it. My boyfriend knows that I won't do anal and he's perfectly find with it.

    • what about the pussy? its nasty too what about blowjob? its nasty too your boyfriend is a dumb and not a man because he let you to tell him what to do and what not + you dont do anal because your ass is dirty and you dont clean it we know that

  • Ew ure just a sexual predator u don't even care about her feelings and keep her best interests at heart. Dump her pls. She's too good for u!

    • what about his feelings? you dont care right? then shut up

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