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Girls, do you get jealous when your boyfriend masturbates?
Jenni1208 Xper 3
At first I didn't mind cause I did it too. But I found out he watches it a lot more than I do, twice a day almost, sometimes even more. And it makes me feel insecure, sad to say. We have sex almost 5 to 7 days a week and I put a lot of effort into it. I like to try new things, dress hot, and I let him try his fetishes on me with no complaints. but he still masturbates. Makes me wonder if I'm not good enough, or if he finds them more attractive. Pisses me off cause he has a foot fetish so i spend lots of money on pedicures and i buy nice heels for him and im accepting of his fetishes, but yet its not enough he has to go online and look at other women's feet to jack off too even though he claims to love my feet (yeah I know it sounds ridiculous), I've talked to him about it, he takes it as me being my "typical" jealous self and being irrational. His defense is he's a 20 year old college student, so he's horny all the time. I know he's not completely honest about how much porn he watches. It just sucks being jealous over something this stupid. Can anyone relate? Any advice on dealing with this? Am I overreacting?
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What Girls & Guys Said
12 23nothing wrong with it. he has a high sex drive. it happens. does not mean your not good enough for him .
I don't understand I would be satisfied as much sex you two are having and you let him do his fetishes I wish my girlfriend was like that
Yes because he should be with me, not his hand.
Title doesn't match the question. You're not concerned about masturbation. You are concerned about PORN.
"But I found out he watches it a lot more than I do"
And the answer, as always, is that if HIS porn is interfering with YOUR sex life, then it's a problem. Otherwise, it isn't. And you're over reacting because you still don't understand why men watch porn.
Yeah, it's kind of over-reacting. Think about it this way: even Justin Verlander--who's fucking Kate Upton on a daily basis--very likely jacks off to pics of girls with epic tits. And he's ACTUALLY playing with and fucking a girl with one of the most famous sets today. We just love variety.
How often do you give him oral? Maybe try and replace him masturbating with you giving him a blow job
I have the same problem I don't think a girl could ever satisfy me cause my sex drive is that high
It's why most men can't finish during sex then go again, we lose a lot of energy even after masturbating. But it takes some time to get back into that mood. I can masturbate 4 times a night if I want to. But guys need a visual, usually, if our girl isn't available, something needs to be
I wouldn't like such a thing
Well, if you are up for it, tell him everytime he feels this need, he has to come to you. Here you have 2 outcomes: you can't keep up and perhaps you'll be happy he does release his needs in this way instead of bothering you for it or you can keep up.
I do understand your concern doh, but this has 2 sides. You don't need to worry doh, you are doing everything right :) don't let him feel like a freak because he likes this a bit more than you.