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Girls do you think you should put chastity on men?

I'm seriously considering making my husband wear one. I'm not talking about a chastity belt, but a discrete chastity device - a small metal cage which covers the head of the penis to prevent masturbation. It's locked on tight, and the key is held by the wife.. I'm not concerned about infidelity - I know my husband would never cheat on me, but he does masturbate without my permission sometimes, and I want to put a stop to that, because masturbation takes away his focus on me.. I want to be the sole source of his sexual pleasure. I have heard women online say that putting their husbands in chastity is the best thing they ever did, and that their husbands are so much more loving, romantic, and attentive.. Men are on their best behavior when they want sex, so I'm just extending that, by denying him release, I can keep him eager to please me all the time.. Apparently, chastity is a great way to "train" a man to be more submissive and obedient which doesn't sound bad, considering I practically wear the pants in our marriage anyways since I make more money than him. The way I see it is if I'm the one making the money and calling the shots, then his penis belongs to me. Mostly, I just find the idea of male chastity extremely sexy and arousing. I've been reading about it for months, and I'm ready to talk to my husband. This is something that I really, really, really want.
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  • Once my husband consented to wearing the cage I made sure to reward him when his attitude improved. It can seem harsh to some people but now that he rely’s on me for orgasm. He has even admitted that when he does finally get to cum it feels much better. He loves feeling so riled up and I love having him ready for me whenever.

    I started a blog about it for those interested. I’m not able to post the link here but it’s MilaHoldsTheKey on blogspot.

  • Nope. I disagree with this.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Okay... imagine how acceptable this would be if you reversed the sexes.

    If this is part of role play, then knock your socks off! sounds pretty kinky and fun... its an abuse of human rights for a start, and depending on your country that could be illegal.

    • Relationships are about compromise as negotiation. He wouldn't do it if he didn't believe that he was getting something in return

  • What... The... Fuck...
    I mean... I understand that you want to be his only focus when it comes to sexual things, but seriously... Don't do it... It's his own freedom.

    • I already locked him

    • How’s it going... my 4th time longest stretch... 8 fats so far

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  • For game or increase hype, yes.

    But if solely for "wearing the pants", no. Reasons:

    1) trading material things for sex makes you a whore

    2) when he start to feel sexually deprived and abused, he'll cheat or leave.

    3) never use sex as a weapon against your man. The loser is always the woman. (Not I say, marriage counselors say so.)

  • Equality, you should lock away your clit and vagina and give him the key.

    • I don’t

    • Don't or won't, why would your man need to if you wouldn't?

    • Ah, a man of culture I see.

  • He would treat you like a queen and he won't never leave you since you would have the keys to his manhood. Just make sure he signs a contract in which he gives you the keys to you and he can't ask back for them.

    • Stop living in dreams. I cut 8 mm steel plates for a hobby with angle grinder, a chastity device can be removed a billion ways. She would just alienate him by even suggesting it. And sexual contracts are NEVER enforcable.

  • Glad to see you back! I am off today so I can see your posts.

    This is very interesting. How serious are you about this?
    How would you feel if your husband is masturbating thinking of you though?

  • again with you?

    just get lost you god damn psycopath.

  • I particularly despise women who say or think this. Male chastity devices were/are a fetish accessory, not a means to control your huspand. They can be easily removed, and can't be applied without consent, so if your husband wants to masturbate, or cheat on you, you can't do anything against that. Conversely, you will come across as a jealous, controlling, psychotic bitch (which you seem to be), and he will be even less eager to care about you. As @partydelights have pointed out - you will lose either way.

    I almost wish you suggested the idea, just so you could suffer the consequences. But my good will suggests to tell you - no, do not even think about that.

    • EDIT: Asker is clearly roleplaying, she's a lonely, fat cat lady who is portraying herself as a bodybuilder, and talking about her husband as if he existed. Pathetic.

  • Yes you should lock him! Like you my wife makes more money than me and wears the pants in our marriage. So yes she does own my penis and does keep it in chastity. I am much more behaved and more obedient to her when I'm locked. It is a great way to train a man and I'm surprised more women don't do it.

  • Putting a chastity cage on a MAN. What a joke.

  • I mean, if he's not a complete weakling he'll leave you for even suggesting it, and you'll have gotten what you deserve

  • If your husband allows that shit he needs to have his "ManCard' revoked

    • I locked him

    • @sexymuscle9 Well Done.

    • @sexymuscle9 Is the device tight?

  • I like how you at the end said that you were going to talk to your husband about it. That's exactly what I was going to suggest however you have to understand that if he disagrees to it then you're gonna have to either find a compromise or simply not do it. Basically even though you're married it still has to be consensual. In my case I would say no. However I am willing to hear out why she would want me to wear one and see if I could come to a compromise. But I would not wear chastity.

  • I have asked my wife to put me in a cock cage, especially when she is going out on a date. That would prevent me from masturbating while I was thinking about the other guy fucking her.

  • I’ll tell you what. If I’m married to you and I feel I’m masturbating because I’m not getting enough sex, you can pay all the bills while one of us lives elsewhere.

    Your narcissism disgusts me.

    My ex wife tried the withholding sex game and threw a fit when I masturbated. She tried to forbid me from doing it. I did it anyway. Note she’s my ex wife.

    Girls do you think you should put chastity on men?

    • I think she's proposing it in a playful manner.

    • Perhaps but the message is true.

    • Likely yes.

  • I would be too distracted during the day.

  • Sounds good to me. Do you think you'd enjoy being his keyholder, having that extra bit of power/control over him?

  • Interesting.

  • Seems interesting

  • Seems some tme passed this was posted? So how is your life going when he is locked?

  • That is fucking barbaric I hope he leaves you for trying that nonsense

    • He is locked now

    • How long is he staying locked?

  • If you think this is a good idea or will change him, you could not be more wrong. However, if you want to challenge him to leave you or cheat; this is a great idea.

    • Update, the guy is a cuckold. Don't worry everyone just move along.

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