Otherwise, just as a general punishment? Like you'd punish a child?
That would be ridiculous.
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RacezMaster
+1 y
Not really. It's not worth it, and it doesn't make any sense. I just do it as a form of fun and teasing.
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Ron601Xper 6
+1 y
I spank my girlfriend during sex; but not to punish her, that is abusive.
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AustinMan
+1 y
It certainly can be abusive but things can be negotiated and handled in such a way that it's a big relief for her to be disciplined and have the whole matter over and done with without any nagging guilt as a lot of women are prone to experience.
JessieG85
+1 y
My guy and I were arguing about something, I went in the bathroom to finish my makeup, I shut the door (he did not allow that) I wanted my privacy since he had just upset me so bad! Next thing i knew he flung the door open and spasked me several times! It hurt SO bad, some of the landed on my back. I felt like I was being abused! I definitely agree with you! It is abuse! I am the submissive type but I did not consent to this! It hurt and it was odd. I told him after that I am NOT a child and he had made me feel like one. He hasn't done it since! But I also have not shut the bathroom door again. I'm too scared to.
Anonymous
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yes, and I have absolutely no idea what she did. It must have been something fairly trivial and playful, I'd guess. The following chunk of time wiped out the preceding chunk.
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YellowsmurfXper 7
+1 y
I can't remember what she had done. I remember what it lead to.
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MrspankrXper 4
+1 y
I think men are the head of the relationship, and when the female screws up, she should be spanked by him
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ryanontarioMaster
+1 y
no haven't had that happen before
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MesonfieldeMaster
+1 y
No, we are not children.
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Mesonfielde
+1 y
To be honest, it's weird to me even if we put it in context of children. I mean, spanking typically gets no long-term results after a certain age.
LThunder
+1 y
Here is a wild idea. You shouldn't spank children in the first place. Spanking is for adults.
Mesonfielde
+1 y
Spanking is weird and I'll never understand that fetish
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LThunder
+1 y
It's not weird, nor is it a fetish unless it specifically is. 'Fetish' is a specific thing.
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18 16As a part of sex play, absolutely.
Otherwise, just as a general punishment? Like you'd punish a child?
That would be ridiculous.
Not really. It's not worth it, and it doesn't make any sense. I just do it as a form of fun and teasing.
I spank my girlfriend during sex; but not to punish her, that is abusive.
It certainly can be abusive but things can be negotiated and handled in such a way that it's a big relief for her to be disciplined and have the whole matter over and done with without any nagging guilt as a lot of women are prone to experience.
My guy and I were arguing about something, I went in the bathroom to finish my makeup, I shut the door (he did not allow that) I wanted my privacy since he had just upset me so bad! Next thing i knew he flung the door open and spasked me several times! It hurt SO bad, some of the landed on my back. I felt like I was being abused! I definitely agree with you! It is abuse! I am the submissive type but I did not consent to this! It hurt and it was odd. I told him after that I am NOT a child and he had made me feel like one. He hasn't done it since! But I also have not shut the bathroom door again. I'm too scared to.
yes, and I have absolutely no idea what she did. It must have been something fairly trivial and playful, I'd guess. The following chunk of time wiped out the preceding chunk.
I can't remember what she had done. I remember what it lead to.
I think men are the head of the relationship, and when the female screws up, she should be spanked by him
no haven't had that happen before
No, we are not children.
To be honest, it's weird to me even if we put it in context of children. I mean, spanking typically gets no long-term results after a certain age.
Here is a wild idea. You shouldn't spank children in the first place. Spanking is for adults.
Spanking is weird and I'll never understand that fetish
It's not weird, nor is it a fetish unless it specifically is. 'Fetish' is a specific thing.
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rare
it was flirting
I spank that bitch all day long