Girls, how do you prepare for penetrative sex?

I find that penetration (with fingers, never had a guy so far) is pretty painful. I mean, I might just have low pain tolerance, but even stretching myself with two fingers is enough for me to back out of what I was doing. It's just scary and just doesn't do it for me anyways... But I want to FINALLY learn how to safely go about penetration without it hurting so bad. What are some things you do before penetration that helps prepare you?

For guys, how do you prepare a girl for sex?
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  • If I were a virgin girl, I would consider this. Your hymen is in the way, not a snug vagina. You have to stretch or tear it in some manner. There are suitable objects that can help. First of all, you must use a thin personal lube or something like cocoa butter lotion that doesn't dry out.
    The first object I would try (after a tampon applicator) is one of these. They are smooth, well shaped and about the size of a finger. Training wheels.

    Girls, how do you prepare for penetrative sex?

    Once that is passed comfortably I would step up to this.

    Girls, how do you prepare for penetrative sex?

    It's still not penis size, but it will help open the door.

    This one IS penis sized, both in terms of length and (most important) girth. It's an English cucumber. If you graduate to this, you are definitely ready for penetrative sex.

    Girls, how do you prepare for penetrative sex?

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  • Really it’s about her being fully relaxed and comfortable.

    then taking it slow, building up suggestion and anticipation as you slowly tease her body.

    taking your time before you even touch her pussy.

    by the time you have that first tentative touch on her pussy she should be wet or very wet, if not repeat again then check again.

    then it’s making love to her pussy with your tongue, lips and mouth.

    fingers purely on the outside for rubbing her clit gently, rest of the action is licking and sucking on her clit.

    then when you feel her ready, slide one finger in to her, gently and slowly.

    the rest just progresses from there, being gentle and slow and teasing.

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  • I give a girl a lot of oral to get her ready. Also try some lube... it works great! Is your hymen still intact? Maybe get a regular size to smaller size dildo to get use to something inside you at your pace. What are your thoughts?

  • My girlfriend is tight as fuck, as in we had to stretch her out for weeks before we could have penetrative sex. Even now, 3 years later, we still always have to do a lot of foreplay and sometimes use something to lube her up before penetration.

    As long as you go slow, make sure you're lubed up enough and don't give up, you'll be fine. Make sure you're completely comfortable and relaxed too.

  • Foreplay helps and easing anxiety

  • I make sure she is really wet

  • Think you need to relax get more comfortable

  • I make certain she’s had a few orgasms from foreplay first

  • Try to practice with a small vibrating dildo.

  • As a small dick guy myself I can finally flex 💪

    • Lol. Don't flex too much; you'll hurt her.

  • Might have to go for a smaller dick I don't know

  • lots of wetness and you would see dick doing everything right.

  • Lots of foreplay. You need to be really aroused/wet before it.

  • Your body naturally prepared itself when you are turned on

  • Maximus foreplay and use of lube help for easy penetration