First of all, even a gay dude could get a boner from that. Most girls know this.
Second, I'm pretty sure most girls like it. Its not like they cuddle with guys they're not interested in.
Third, you should just be like, "whoops, got a boner" when it happens, just be chill about it. If you make a big awkward deal about it, she will react to it the same way because awkwardness is contagious.
Fourth, it happened to me with my ex when we were just friends and I just made a joke about it and we got together like a week and a half later.
You have very valid information that you just shared with me sir bro. ^_^
Glad you think so, sir.
A lot of the answers here crack me up. FACT. Guys in general evern more especially younger guys get them constantly all the time. There is no special thought process place or time when it happens. Guys don't have to be thinking about anything at all when it happens and in fact may get embarrassed by it or be annoyed from it. Guys wake up right out of their sleep that way with no choice in it.
The sleep thing, yes! All of the time!
No, unless you're in the friendzone.
Friendzone=not attracted to you or you are gay (for real)
Guy friend=attracted but somehow not boyfriend/husband material
If guy friend and I'm not willing to turn into a friends with benefits or a an actual relationship I'd have to stop it inb4 I am tempted to do something about how turned on I feel.
But if it was just a friends one guy then why would you cuddle with him to give him that false hope?
I dont think I could ever cuddle with a friendzone guy. A guy friend if I was vunerable and was like crying about something and needed a hug/cuddle. It would be risky. TBH, physical attraction does count.
At least you're honest about it. (: Physical attraction is key because I can guarantee you that the guy's body will react.haha
Not at all. I'd think it'd be hot for the guy I like to get a hard one just touching me slightly. I'd probably just laugh it off with him and even make jokes. Girls who get offended by this need to loosen up and stop being uptight.
As long as they weren't "little" jokes. Hehehe This is a positive reaction though. (:
Absolutely not! Girls are fully aware what happens when a guy spoons them. So if she is happy for you to be spooning her she is fully expecting your flagpole to be digging into her 😂
Ha! Flagpole was the first thing that came to mind. Haha I just...like I want to always be respectful but when I'm in that spooning position my mind is thinking respectful and the flagpole is thinking anything but. :P
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!i'd be offended if he didn't get a boner lol. bring down the flagpole- thats great
Haha athenkya. So getting a boner is a...hey wait! Do you girls do that on purpose? :P
hahahaha ;)
I KNEW it!! I knew it all along!
HELL NO! That means he thinks I'm attractive or do-able. Thats hot.
Hahaha I like the way that you think. Haha Very cool.
Lol:) Thanks. Just honest. And dont let her blame you. She knew what she was getting herself into when she rubbed her ass on your junk.
Ugh, don't remind me. Haha I'm trying to be good. Hehe She didn't blame me. She just kept giggling and "readjusting" herself. Because she wanted to get "comfortable".
Definitely would NOT get offended. If anything it's a compliment. However, it can sometimes make me feel a bit pressured to get it on if I'm not quite ready.
I can understand that. There has to be ways to slow it down though, right?
That I don't know. I would probably have a better perspective on that subject if I myself had a penis but I don't. Sorry :( If thinking about something else isn't working, then perhaps you're not thinking about the right stuff. Think about picking up dog shit, cleaning the toilet, or your mom lol. But honestly, I don't think it's that big of a deal because one thing I do know is that with age, you will have better control of your body.
I hope so because I keep getting older but my penis seems to be getting more immature. Haha He knows what he likes and the struggle is real.
I would not be offended at all
Well shucks. Thenk you for your response. (: Can never be too sure.
No way, it's flattering :)
I'm very happy to know this. Flagpole back up. XD
No.
Cool.
Why not? It's because I'm not GAY
Hahahahaha
If he's my boyfriend, I would actually hope he gets a boner because that how's he's attracted to me. I would kind of feel offended if he didn get a boner because that just shows he doesn't really find me sexually attractive an i would wonder why.
So then you also see it as a positive.
XD I'd be more offended if he DIDN'T get one. I'm under the understanding that cuddling induces boners, regardless of romantic attraction to (or lack there of) the girl the guy is cuddling. So I'd expect it.
As a taken woman though, I won't be cuddling with any guy other than my boyfriend, whom I would hope would get a boner from cuddling with me.
Well yes. That is totally understandable. Hehe This is from the perspective of a single person though. Or single people. So you girls go into cuddling expecting it?
Yes it's expected, guys can't help it, so why would I make a big deal about it?
No, I imagine you wouldn't. Thenk you for putting me at ease.
I'll get offended if he doesn't, really. What guy doesn't get a boner when cuddling?
So what I'm hearing is that I was overthinking this WAY too much. Haha I'm supposed to be getting a boner then huh?
Basically
Yes. ^_^
No, i will not but the next time i will probably be careful ;)
Haha This answer is fair. If it were me, I'd definitely thenk you for not overreacting. (:
That'd be like a guy being offended a girl got her period. It just happens. Being lewd would upset me but I'm not going to be offended that your body is working correctly
You can't compare a period to a boner. You can compare a girl getting wet to a boner both are arousal.
Hehe No, definitely don't wanna be disrespectful at the same time, yes, it's very difficult to control. Nice to know you understand.^_^
I just did. I compared two natural bodily functions to each other. Getting wet isn't the same as a boner in some respects. It does signify arousal but differently.
no offence i like it when my man has a boner while cuddling yay
Hahah Yes! So I'm not in the wrong then.
no dude
Thenk you!
I always get one when I cuddle with my girlfriend. It just feels so good having her arms around me. I think she'd be more offended if I didn't.
Offended? LMAO!!!
Most girls would be flattered that simple close physical proximity of her to you, excites you that much. :-D
Ha Nice. I do conquer.
*concur...Dangit. Haha
No, more like turned on.
Nice. I like your name too btw. (:
If course not. It's only natural :)
Very cool. You can never be too sure. Haha
No, that's flattering haha
Cool. Haha I'm just making sure that I'm not some awkward kind of guys :P
No, not awkward at all!
Well this is excellent news then. Happy day.
I don't get offended if I like him.
Well then that works just fine. ^_^
Dude why would a girl get offended by it she'd like it.
I'm finding this out now. Haha
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