Well, first time I was giving a bj was with a guy that I've been with a few times before and he had done things for me, so I thought I should give him something back which I did.
We met at a "party", and both of us were really drunk, like we've had been the other times before also, but we kinda 'know' eachother because we texted, sexted and I know what he likes and he knows what I like...and he has also been really good at doing things to me that I like, so I guess he has listened to me. I told him the reason, why I had never done anything before, but I always wanted to pay him back for the great things he had done for me, so that it happened and he got a bj and hj...and it was totally hot and I would definitely do it all over again! I loved it!
I loved how he enjoyed him, the way he was dominant because it really turns me on, it was simply amazing and I would definitely do it again if I got the chance. He also knew that I wasn't too experienced, so thinking of that he wasn't too dominating and a jerk. He had that in mind all the time and was careful with me as I was with him...which kinda gave us a good oppurtunity and a good "connection". I can simply say that it was great :)
Very cool. So his encouraging was the reason you had a great experience plus you really wanted to. Did you do it at the party?
Met at a 'party'...or I was with some friends that called him later that night. I actually gave him a bj in the middle of some street, which was really hot because it was exciting and you never knew when someone could just pass by! The excitement of the experience, at least I think so, was because we were outside...in the middle of some street, though it was very discrete :)
Discreet in the middle of the street. Pretty interesting. Haha How in the world did this happen?
I've never done it but I can understand why'd they be scared of giving a blowjob.
Are you doing it right?
Hopefully you won't hit your gag reflex
Is he enjoying it?
Hopefully he doesn't have an std
As for handjob I guess just nervous like when having butterflies before doing anything else for your first time. But besides of awkwardness then nothing really.
Well shucks. The STD thing is scary. Even for a guy to a girl. That's another reason why before I do anything, I know everything. I'm not trying to catch something. As for the gag reflex. I for one know my length and am not going to fault a girl if she can't get it all in her mouth. The fact that she's giving me one is enough for me.(: The hj is like making a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. VERY hard to mess up. Hehe You have to try to do it wrong. More often than not, you're doing it right. Haha
When I gave my first hj I was like "haha.. uh I don't know what to do" & he's like "are you serious, you just do this" he was so surprised haha, it was the first time I had seen a penis
First bj I was so awkward, I just licked it & I was stalling a lot. I wasn't really nervous I just didn't know what to do
Haha Did you finally do more than lick it?
haha yeah!
Hahaha very cool.
I voted B because Bonecrusher, haha. Forgot about that dude! Might listen to that at the gym today, Cam'ron's verse on the remix is tight, haha.
"You'll get ripped apart, that's hit with darts, you kids ain't smart/
Pop, pop, pop, I lit the dark, I'm the Wizard, dog, come get some heart/That's courage and brain, 'caine on several strips/
Not from Houston, but shit, call me Lil' Flip/
Cuz I flip a little, fa shizzle, you flippin' nickels/
When I flip coke and flip boats, come live a little..."
Yup, I'm amped up now. Gym time!
Hahaha Glad I could help sir bro!
Girls are scared because they don't want to hurt him you have to be gentle and they don't want to mess up. I was nervous going down on a girl the first time because I had no idea what to do and fingering her was awkward because again I didn't know what to do or how fast to go.
Turned out well though right?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!i was terrified because i didn't know what to do, little did i know i was doing everything right haha. not afraid anymore!
With an hj or bj?
both haha. i'm more experienced with hjs though
So your nerves were kind of unnecessary but still, being nervous is never a bad thing. So long as you can overcome it. Ha
I think a lot of first timers are nervous about hurting the guy when they do it for the first time... or of doing something "wrong" and being made fun of... it helps if the guy knows it's not something you've done before and gives guidance... but I'm hesitant with any new partner, second time's a breeze
Still a but hesitant huh?
Well, every man is different and I always hope to please
This is true. No complaints thus far though right?
I was scared I'd grip too hard and rip the whole thing off lol I didn't want to hurt him and I was worried about gagging with a blow job and how it would taste. It was actually a lot more fun than anything else and I'd be absolutely fine doing it again (not that that will be happening soon :P)
Haha Duly noted. How long into either did you realize "Okay, this isn't as bad as I was making it out to be."?
About a few minutes in once I'd got into a bit of a rhythm with the bj and after I realised that I could actually get it into my mouth lol. After that I could enjoy it lol :)
At least you got over it before you were finished; you know?
Same as Droogie, just went for it and then got told it was the best he'd had... He didn't know it was my first one.
Wow it really is if you believe it you can achieve it. Haha
I'm not really sure how you can give a bad one, besides using teeth but that's just obvious! What's the worst BJ you've ever had?
I'd like to point out I give the worst HJ's though, so you can't be good at everything!
I was scared that I'd do it wrong… (both hj and bj).
As in, I'd be too gentle or not gentle enough. I thought there was a specific way to do these things. Now experience has taught me that all men are different and like different things and it's just about being receptive and trying to work out your partner's moans :)
I think I do alright now.
Yep, that's where the give and take comes in. Was the first time enjoyable for you then or were you worried that you would mess up?
Worried I'd mess up but it was with someone I'd known almost all my life so it wasn't too awkward and he was quite encouraging :) it was his first time too so he didn't have anything to compare it to I guess!
Communication is definitely key as with anything. So his encouragement made it easier for you?
he shoved my head down and i laughed.
then i asked for guidance.
So you were not nervous? Hehe
whats there to be nervous about? its bound to happen. why not try then?
That's my mind set but...you never know. Haha So far you're the only opinion giver who wasn't nervous.
I was a little nervous because I'd never seen a pebis before, it was like an alien or something. And I was freaked out about putting it in my mouth and if he would cum on me or in my mouth.
My first blow job I was drunk (thank god) and I had no idea how to do it and I just went slow the whole time lol. The guy didn't cum, but I'm kinda thankful for that haha
Did you stop mid bj? Hehe
*penis lol And I think I did lol to say something like "omg I'm doing it wrong aren't I?" My guy now lasts really long no matter how fast I go or whatever little tricks I do so I'll sometimes stop and play with it to catch my breath and rest my neck :P
Hehe Well that's smart. So essentially if one gets a bj then they'll get an hj too?
Nervous, not scared.. I knew what to do, just wasn't sure if he would enjoy it or not
Exactly. You're pointing out a root of fear which is uncertainty
How did it turn out?
He really enjoyed it, haven't been nervous since
Def afraid, self conscious, embarrassed, awkward... all of the above. That advice is def true, tho haha.. too bad I didn't have it back then :oP
What advice? Mine? Haha
Haha yup about just not stopping til u blow. It sounds simple I know, but it feels way more complicated than that!
So I've heard. Haha But you all make them complicated. Just trust me. Haha Seeing you all topless or naked with your hands on our...you know. Looking at us, or whispering something sexy in our ear as your hand goes up and down on repeat and not stopping until we cum...amaaaaaaazzzzziiiiiinnnng! Haha
Noooo.it just happened. I pretended I knew what to do...and hey, he told me it was one of the best ones he's had
Fake it 'til you make it. Huh? Haha
Hahaha exactly.
Worked out for you anyway. ^_^
I was a little nervous about the bj, but not really the hj.
Why the bj?
Several things I guess. Gagging, the smell, the taste. (That was before I actually did it.) It really wasn't a big deal. More so me over thinking it.
Much easier than you thought?
I was quite nervous and really hesitant. He was really encouraging...as it was his first hj and bj. I was more nervous for the blow job, the hand job happened more naturally.
Everything went well I take it.
I wanted to try with a flavoured condom, but we didn't have any.
Blowing him with a flavored condom?
I know. They just didn't realize the power they had over us doing that lol
Exactly!! I'm just sitting back hoping I last long enough. Haha
Oh but I think finishing quickly can be a good thing to them
Haha Yeah. Then they might be more inclined to do it sooner but...man when a girl does it right, you don't want it to end. Haha
No I wasn't
Why not?
I've never been scared of sex
Well, there you go then. Haha
i was really nervous but i did it well
Which one?
both hj & bj
So a natural?
It was Def awkward. But after that it was smooth sailing
Awkward before or doing?
Both. After I knew what to expect it went fine.
(: So more like the second time was fine?
i wasn't scared at all. just kind of nervous? my mouth got somewhat dry because of the nerves but it ended up fine
What was your biggest fear about it all?
i don't remember being scared per say...
nervous yes
Did you get over that quickly?
kinda
Kinda?
This reminds me of my ex always hurting me with her teeth...
What? Why would she do such a thing?
She didn't know how to do it right.
Oh! I thought she was doing it on purpose.
YES! it was sooooo big and i almost threw up lul
Really? Haha Why?
cuz i couldnt deep throat even though i thought i could
Why did you almost throw up?
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