Girls, which arguments would convince you to lock your boyfriend in chastity?

[Anonymous]

Ok so here goes :
In 25 yo, my girlfriend is 24. For a few years I've been attracted by male chastity, tease and denial. I even bought one that I put on when she's not around.
I would love to introduce it to our sex life, maybe even that she holds the key.
The problem is that I really have no idea how to bring it up. I understand that it can be weird for someone who don't know about it.

The questions are :
- Guys : if you are in chastity and your partner knows about it, how did you bring it up?
- Girls : what arguments could convince you to try it? How can it be sexy from the female point of view and what does she have to gain from it?

Thanks !

[KilledByBees]

I am kept locked in a chastity device and it was my idea. I brought it up to my wife and she was not sure about it. We talked about it a few more times and I sent her some links about the benefits of being a keyholder, and she eventually agreed to try it out. She ended up liking the power and control and we invested in a more serious custom device. She slowly got into it more and more and I am now kept locked almost all of the time. We both really love it and have beem more intimate than ever.

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing that ! By any chance do you still have those links? I could maybe find inspiration to build my own speech to her

[KilledByBees]

lockthecock.com/blogs/chastity-fun/keyholder-guide

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Here are a few to get you started, you don't want to overwhelm her with things to read.

We also got to a point where she enjoyed me sending her chastity caption photos, that way she understood the fantasy and they also gave her some inspiration. Best of luck to you!

[Asker]

Thank you ! That's great ! I'll get on it right away

[KilledByBees]

👍🏻

[Anonymous]

So here’s the thing;

I once held someone’s code for their lock - he was just a good friend of mine not a boyfriend/partner or anything. It did nothing for me sexually but there is definitely a power rush though. It’s not something I’d be rushing out to do again because it put a strain on our friendship...

so from a girl’s point of view she might try it but she’s not going to get off on in a sexual way. Well, maybe there are some that would, but I didn’t.

[jon28805]

Do you mind if I ask - did it ruin your friendship?

[Opinion Owner]

@jon28805 sorry only you just saw this. For a while yes but we're talking again now.

[jon28805]

What was it that caused the strain? Was it that you wouldn’t let him out? Or was it that you weren’t into it?

[Opinion Owner]

@jon28805 ohhh it’s a long story but we discussed rules and limits beforehand which I stuck to and then he wanted to change those rules half way through and I wouldn’t let him basically. There’s a bit more to it than though I wasn’t just being mean, I think ultimately he became a bit embarrassed etc.

[jon28805]

Thank you for the explanation. It sounds like he wanted to be let out early and you wouldn’t allow it based on the agreement that you made before he was locked. I’m a little surprised that you wouldn’t have just let him go free since you weren’t really into it?

[jon28805]

Also, why was he embarrassed?

[Anonymous]

No argument could convince me. I’m really not into that.

[Jersey2]

Dude, women want strong, confident men in case you missed it in here. A cage says you are the opposite of that. It’s a massive turnoff.

[Anonymous]

If any girl wanted to put that shit on me it’s over with her I don’t care how sexy she is

[Anonymous]

Nothing. I’d lose all interest in sex with him and never be able to view him the same way again. Disgusting. All such weird things and all fetishes turn me off.

[Asker]

Oh did not expect such a strong reaction Chill Why do you find this so repulsive?