Girls will you be ok if you were served by a male for any service? Guys will it be ok for you if your wife gets service from male?

Service is in terms of anything like getting massage, haircut, waxing, doing some medical tests by a male doctor. Any day to day activities where we take service.
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  • Honestly. It really depends for me. I may be biased also because I have been fucked over a lot by trusting they are only doing what they say they are. Then finding out the opposite has happened instead.

    Certain things I would prefer my partner have someone of the same sex do the task.
    Such as a gynecologist, waxing near privates, massage. If it's a hospital setting I don't care.

    I'm a little different. I myself if I am in a relationship. I will not go and do things like a massage from the opposite sex, (Can't say I'd be into waxing). But I am very mindful of my partner and things that may make them feel uncomfortable in the relationship. They themselves may have some trust issues that need help working on them. That can only be fixed by being in a caring relationship.

    I am also one of those guys that will give you full access to my accounts to check messages as well. I have nothing to hide and if I acted otherwise. It would just come off as suspicious. Makes it easier to build trust up as well.

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  • I would really only have a problem with her having a Brazilian wax done on her by a male. Even when we went to on our honeymoon we both had massages mine with a female and her with a male. Though she does herself prefer women to do certain services and others it doesn't really matter to her or I. I do have to draw the line on a Brazilian wax, and she prefers all that be done by a female as well... Funny though, she told me if I ever had anything like that done on me, she would expect it to done by a female. However, since that is never gonna happen anyway... it doesn't really matter.

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  • When I was a teen, showing (ot getting touched) my girl parts to a male doctor was sort of traumatizing. Mom tells me to not let any boy see or touch there, then she says it's OK for just-turned-15-year-old me to get totally naked, lay on my back, put my feet in these things called stirrups and fully expose my still innocent womanhood to a grown man, and let him touch it and even stick a finger in. When I was a teenager, I definitely cared and wasn't OK with it. Now that I am quite "experienced," it is more just a matter of fact thing, but I still chose a female OB/gyn.

  • Yes I have no real problem with that. My gynecologist is even male xD.. But maybe I did feel it a bit odd once I had a male masseuse, it's pretty intimate and I like making some noises xp also way more used to lovers giving a massage than professionals.

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  • Sure. No issue at all.

  • Yeah, I'm fine with that. I prefer females for things like massage and acupuncture, since much of my worst parts require hands on near places I'd rather not have a stranger touching, but I have still had both services provided by men before.

    To me, gender doesn't matter as much as performance.

    My pap smears have been performed by male doctors for years, too.

  • What difference does it make? As long as someone is professional, it doesn't matter. I would not prefer that a man wax me in an intimate area, but other than that I've had all other services you've mention done by both sexes.

  • I would trust her to show good judgement and only go to someplace where they are professionals.

  • Why not? Years ago most doctors were males anyways even OBGYNS,...
    Sex/Gender shouldn't matter when it comes to a professional service provider...

  • You'd have to be really fucked in the head to have difficulties with that.

  • I'll be very fine, male services. They are professional so I know I am in good hands, and they are mature enough that they would respect their clients to the fullest.

  • Yes - ofc ^^

  • I wouldn’t mind

  • i wouldn't care

  • As long as the service is not related to any type of cheating, then no fucks given

  • Depends on the extent of the "service."

  • No massage therapy or personal trainers in a private setting. Everything else is fine.

  • Totally okay and cool with it.

  • Yes it would be perfectly fine, as long as the person is trained and knows what they are doing, sex or gender doesn’t matter to me, as long as they get the job done

  • I'm okay with everything except for massage. I'm not too sure about that.

  • Yeah, I've let dudes cut my hair before. That's nbd. I draw the line at massages though.

  • All my doctors are female. I use the VA and they are assigned to me. I have even received a prostrate exam from a woman doctor. Don't let your mind go in the gutter. We both kept a professional attitude.

  • Sure, I have no problem with it and it already happens.

  • I'm not as comfortable around men for some reason... so I usually prefer women 🙊 especially when it comes to doctors

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