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Sexual Health Girls, Would you dump A Guy if you found he was butt fucked by a more Strong Guy/Guys ( Bullies) ?
Davrath Xper 1
I have a Similar experience, I got butt fucked by My College bullies, I didn't want to reveal it to My Girlfriend but She got to know about it by a other Guy of My College ( he also lives in My College hostel) And When My Girl friend got to know about it, She has dumped me saying I am too weak for her !
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They were 3 Guys and they were stronger than to me, I tried to resist but they forcefully butt fucked me, Is there Any good medicine or Gel to use as I still feels Pain and burning there, How long it Can take to heal Completely?
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If your in the US, go to the campus police tell them you have a title 9 complaint. They'll know what you mean. If your anyplace else in the western world file a report with the police.
Definitely not, I would do everything I can to make sure that he's feeling okay
You dont deserve that girl! If someone doesn't wanna be with you because of something bullies did to you, they don't deserve you.
I'm sorry to hear this happened to you :(
No, he couldn't do anything about it. If he wants to talk about it I'd listen, we should support our partner
Thanks, I Wish she had tried to understand My Situation and We Could have talked about it.
There are two main problems with gender change:
1. You can not have babies naturally
2. Once you remove the orgasm as the chief source of pleasure in life, the only sensable (English is too limited to have the right word for 'what one can sense/feel/experience') pleasure becomes EATING (and going to the loo/peeing and taking a dump)
Once you are sqaured with 1., if you square with 2. - you no longer eat to live, you start to live to eat
Therefore, instead of seeking orgasms, you seek profits. Those come at the expense of others - so you either have fights over food, or you are preventing those sexually capable from experiencing orgasms
We all blamed feminizm 2.0 for animosity between men and woman - it was not feminism at all, it was the transsexuals angry at us for being able to orgasm. If they can't - and we are all equal - they get bent on a. ission to ban it for everyone. So we can all just fart.
Ban it, give them a preserve or else you will live under the tyranny of transsexuals.
Does anyone know one in person?
I bet you they ALL hide it because the only reason to go trans is to avoid the military service - they self mutilate and want the rest of us to suffer.
what the hell has ur whole lecture to do with his prblm?
@shade_19 Huh? I am Not Sure What this is all about
Oh, good reminder - all rights reserved ©
The poster is trying to scare white Christians into oblivion. Yeah, I'll fuck him up the arse, no trouble - will shove real sticks and stones up there as well, seeing he enjoys that.
Where the hell did white Christians come in africa now
That is horrible.
My wife would still love me I am sure. She would hate them not me.
There is a difference between Your wife and Girlfriend ! So they react differently
No girl would leave you for this. Unless she is a very shitty person.
Well... in terms i do not know what is one's maturity
If it was my ex girlfriend she wouldn't have left me even if i would try to break up with her. I'm short 5'3 , not muscular, introvert and our likes interest do not match... but we still loved each other without judging or comparing.
Well but in ur case , ur girlfriend is just maybe insecure about her safety... that what if such 3 guys come and bully her like they did to ur sister? Will u be able to protect her? Will she feel safe with u?
Of course u r not superman... but still, the incident has created a kind of insecurity in her.. and it's fine.
U r a student , ur main focus should be studies, and i know after the incident u must not be in the condition to focus on ur studies, coz the kinda same happened to me in high school.. i had a quarrel with a guy and he slapped me... later a few boys came for me and he got slapped back from me... but i still felt the humiliation on my side... as i said i am not muscular, 5'3 and if it were not those boys maybe I would've not been able to slap him back either...
It took away my focus off study... resulting in bad marks , i only got 67% in my 12th.. while my expectation were not less than 75%
And u seem to look in a similar trauma: humiliation, fear of being attacked, the feeling of being weak and what not.
All i would say is don't focus on ur girlfriend and all for now..
Focus on studies and try to stay away from those goons
(1) stay among people, try not to be alone especially when he is nearby.
(2) don't let ur studies be mich affected from this ( of course it will be affected, but try least not to)
(3) contact NGOs as i said to get some limelight on the incident ( if u think it is safe enough)
(4) go to police , at least to get a registered complaint ( coz if the incident gets limelight then u should not be blamed for not asking police help, the scenario should be that u asked the police for help and it is their duty to help u [ if they help u or don't] )
(5) try making more friends and contacts
(6) don't react much to him , that is avoid him as much as u can directly, thus indirectly indicating that u don't want to mess with him.
@shade_19 Thanks for sharing Your bad experiences, Which you went through, I know its Not easy to get over but I am trying to keep Myself safe and Strong ! I know Girls don't like weak Guys because they Feel insecure with a Weak Guy So My Girlfriend Would have felt in the same way and She dumped me !
Ya, u can mark my opinion most useful😅 just knew that hose which r marked like that get 17 pts, 😅😂 tho I'm not hungry for pts , but i wanna see what happens after going on lvl2
@shade_19 My Sister didn"t tell me What is her issue Exactly with that Guy? How long Since this started, he says She is her Girlfriend but She told me that he harrass and Molest her ! But at that day When this issue happend and 3 Guys of his Gang beaten and butt fucked me then My Sister reacted like it was My fault, She said to me if those Guys were being Aggresive then I should have returned back immediately ! So felt like that she was Not Ready to Accept her Mistake that She Already knew how dangerous and Criminal those Guys are So She should not have asked me to Pick up a Argument or fight with that Guy and his Gang ! She talked to that Guy over phone but She didn't tell me about the details ! Now I am stuck more than her, that Guy butt fucked me badly with his two other friends, he has warned and threatend me to butt fuck me Again if i interfere between him and My Sister or if I try to mess up with him or his Gang ! He has even threatend me that Next time he would make my butthole loose ! What would happen if My Sister got changed with him? Like She Turns to be his Friend/Girlfriend? So If i ask Apology from him for interfereing into his business with My Sister, Then Would he not butt fuck me Again? And What about his other Gang Members, because 2 Guys of them also had butt fucked me At that day ! If I beg Apology from him then Would they Also Stop troubling me? I am quite Worried and Scared about this All ! Can My Sister talk to him and help me in this Matter?
Apology? Ummm... i don't know... if u apologize a the news take fire then the way ur girlfriend dumped u teeling u r weak others as well will think the same of u. You'll have to go more humiliation. I would just say don't cross him now, at least until u don't have proper backup and support. Don't apologize, nothing, don't do anything, don't interact with him in the first place
@shade_19 Its been Now 18 days Since that happend and I Could not go out for a Week bexause of extreme Pain and discomfort down there, And for last One week I am quite Scared of going out ! It is affecting My Study and other Activites ! He has a big Gang and they might Grab me alone somewhere, I am not Scared of being beaten and thrashed but I am Scared of being butt fucked Again, That Guy has a huge dick ( like other African Guys ) last time he had butt fucked me Continously more than an hour by himself, So it killed my Confidence and Courage to Confront him ! I want to beg Apology from him to just keep myself safe and to get Some time ( May be Couple of Months) to get Some Support and help Against him and his Gang ! My Girlfriend has already dumped me and If he butt fucked me Once Again then it Would bring Much more Pain, Shame and Humiliation to me !
Do what u feel okay, i gave u my opinion of what would i do if i was in ur case. But if u feel this to be a way out, then go for it Look, watever u do, b4 doing it think if" will u regret it later?" If no, then do it Don't do anything that you'll regret later Talking bout ur butt pain, then use some aloe vera or banana smash on it, I don't know if it works or no but maybe it will, maybe it wouldn't
@shade_19 Yeah, I will discuss about Apology to My Sister before Approaching him, I just want to keep Myself safe and to get Some Mentally relaxcation ! Does the Medicines you told me to Apply really works? That Guy has a dick around 9 inch or Bigger and it Can damage the butthole Seriously !
Honestly I don't know, bout the medicines😅 but they soften the spincher, i tried them once , banana softened it but it also has healing and cooling properties... so i recommended it to u Aloe vera ofc has healing properties but you won't know until u try I'm not a doctor
Yeah, I would givi it a try but he had shoved his dick deep inside me So I got hurt deep down there and it takining time to heal ! Have you ever got hurt there? ( Obviously not like me )
No, not like that, once i trying fingering it😅🤫(to know how gays and trans feel pleasure in it) and ofc it hurt but using banana kinda made it soft for me and slippery 😅
@shade_19 do you think Is there any chance that My Girlfriend resume talking to me? She also know to My Sister.
Just let her go for now, it'll take time for things to be new again, like it takes time for a Caterpillar to become a butterfly in a cacoon. Don't hurry or there is chance of defects
@shade_19 You know in last few week almost everything got changed ! I Could not fix My Sister's issue, My Girldriend blocked My number and dumped me ! I feels scared going Alone, those Guys are searching for me to fuck my ass Again ! I am not getting Any Support or not getting Anyone Who Could intervene and Could talk to those Guys to Stop them !
Ik, but that's how it happens, the smallest thing we think to be nothing change our lives as a whole sometimes. My experience, ur experience, other's experience Like I've seen some ppls lives change worse than ours, from a normal person to getting mental breakdown of a trans persons death and living remaining life as a trans... real life full of much much heart piercing stories
That means she is not in love with u she is just a fling
Honestly no I wouldn't.
Hmm... but Why? My Girlfriend also dumped me when she got to know about My rape ! But was it My Fault?
It's her fault If she can't understand why. It's their fault that they did that to you, not yours. You are a victim in that case, and she needed to be there to support you for what you went through.
denounce!!! , call police!, move!, what are youndoing there? look for help with a therapist!.
It takes a while to heal such things. You are left with physical and mental scars. I would give only 3 day before I go see doctor. I would probably report it to authorities and press charges against this guys and that have to be done asap. So proof samples can be collected and not lost.
Thanks for opinion, I am taking medicines and its been almost over a Week Still I am feeling quite Pain, Stinging burning sensetation there So Its difficult to tolerate it for a long time ! Getting butt fucked is a horrible thing !
It is a horrible thing. This was not consentual by any means, was it? If not. you've been raped. I highly encourage you to report it to law enforcement agency and then seek treatment. You can probably ask them to keep your identity hidden.
Thank you Davrath for like!
@eaterpeter you may check My other question on My profile : Will he Never butt fuck me Again, if I Aplogize from him?
thats rape
and thats rude
You are not weaker, you were a target and experienced something terrible. if the roles were reversed, people would sympathize. It's her problem for having such a terrible outlook
@abishlj That Girl was My friend for last 3 Years and She Also know My Sister but Still When she got to know about My butt rape, She dumped me ! There is a Guy who is chasing and Molesting My Sister for last many days, he is a Rich Guy here and he has Connections with Criminal Guys So he also threatens to My Sister that he would kidnap her ! I had gone to him just to ask him to Stop chasing and teasing My Sister but he started Arguing and fighting with me And he and his friends dragged me into the Roon and those Guys butt fucked me so brutally that i started crying and begging them to stop but that Guy ( who tease my sister) fucked my butt 3 times and it broke my All confidence and Courage ! I am feeling quite weak and insecure, I Would ask My Sister to talk to someone Who has more power and influence but Now I don't want to involve into my sister's matter with that Guy because he has threatend to butt fuck me again if i interfere into his business with My Sister ! So I am Scared and Worried about it.
No, I wouldn't dump him--it was probably not his fault and it shouldn't change his opinion of you.
After all, you have a vagina and he has a penis, so just enjoy that!
Any girl that breaks up over that is a bitch
That can take weeks to heal.
If you have lacerations use preparation h. Make sure that you soak in Epsom salt, and takes midol I know how that sounds but it'll help even more. And it doesn't make you a weak person. You got to be a strong ass mother f***** to endure that.
What is this Eosom Salt? How to get it?
You can get epson salt at Walmart, cvs, places like that. The salt bath will ease the pain and keep it clean.
no of course.
As you had girlfriend then why you sleep with other boy
I didn't want, those Guys were Bully of My college hostel !
Was that against your desire?
Yes, those Guys forcefully butt fucked me
That's sad
Occasionally they do with you?
They do it sonetimes
.. So you enjoy that
No, I don't
He ask if you will date a guy who had been raped by otherguys
@Alexandrubaschet08 Yeah, I mean Would a Girl still give me a chance? ( If she know about My rape )
I don't think so man, that is a moment when you need to prove you are a man. A man usualy have the power to fight back. If i whas in your situation i will fight them. In a time 8 guys wanted to beat me because i just insulted on of them, it whas a situation for both of us "them or me" they brake my nose and need operation and hospital but i brake as well 3 of them theyr mought. So nothing like your situation come to be, you need to be able to defet yourself, if you can't defet yourself how can you defet somebody else? That is your dignity, people usualy die for it and you let it drop from you. Personaly in your place i will never tell anybody about that and i will try my best to make myself able to reclaim it and protect it in order to have somebody.
@Alexandrubaschet08 I Agree with You but You know every one live in a different Situation, I had tried to fight back but they were 3 Guys and Stronger than me, So despite My resist they raped me, I cried a lot and didn't want to tell Anyone who knows me but bcoz of a Guy who live in My hostel My Girlfriend got to know about it and She dumped me like I am useless for her ! She had No Sypathty with me.
I whas beat by 8 guys and still manage to do them some damages. Personal i will die in a boody fight then to be rape, i will schrash them, bite them to blood, hit them in the ball, take theyr eyes from theyr head, the limit is me been raed.
@Alexandrubaschet08 they were 3 Guys and they had tied My hands behind, it made me very helpless and they raped me like I was a Girl !
How did it come they succed to thy your hands whitout you noticeing and fight?
holy shit what a horrible situation I hope you're okay. Well, if the girl is a disgusting piece of shit probably yes, she would dump you, if not she would help you in this situation, and one more thing, buy a shotgun and blow up those motherfuckers' heads.
yeah your girlfriend is a piece of shit.
@jesuschrist86 that Girl was My old School friend but still hearing about My rape she dumped me and also blocked My number in her phone, Those Guys are much stronger than me and I Can't fight and win by Alone, they have butt fucked me so brutally that Still I feels much Pain and even i feel burning like sensetation when i sit on a Chair ! How long it can take to heal? I can't tolerate So long Pain !
@davrath the part of the shotgun was just ironic, even though she is an old school friend she deserves no respect, unfortunately I have no idea how long your pain will continue, but it is important to seek help.
have you called the police and told them what happened? Be careful with these birdshits, they're sick maniacs.
@jesuschrist86 I had helped that Girl many times but She just ignored My bad ( worst) situation, She didn't even try to help me with Money for medicines ! They butt fucked me one by one and i started bleeding from there and Still it hurts like a Wound !
she was never your friend, friends help each other even in the worst situations, the world is unfair and there are many people who are fake, take care of yourself, my friend.
Yeah, She probably never had feelings for me which i didn't know.