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Sexual Health I feel so humiliated, disgusting, and terrible about myself and I just can’t stop crying. I’m mostly crying out of embarrassment. I’m not one who feels confident in sexy clothing, and today I actually did, and my boyfriend just totally rejected me. How can I get over this and get over the embarrassment I feel?
Also, sorry if this is in the wrong category, I didn’t really know where this would fit in.
Got rejected in lingerie, how to cope with it?
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Here is the full story because many people are confused, and I’m a bit more calm now. So my boyfriend told me he’d stop by after work since I wanted to see him, and he said he could only stay for 5 minutes. The weather is cold, so I’m wearing a baggy sweatshirt and sweats. Underneath them though, I decided to wear lingerie to surprise him, and I figured we could have a quickie before he left. He shows up, hugs me right away, and leads me to my couch. He sits down and has me sit on his lap, and I
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flash him my lingerie. I then bring up the idea of a quickie, and he says no. I got upset so I got off of his lap, and then he decides it’s time to leave. He tells me he loves me and leaves. So basically, I’m sitting on the couch alone in my lingerie, and I start to cry.
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What Girls & Guys Said
3 27Self esteem takes no time to break and an eternity to build so just think that he's blind or if you feel sexy in it that's what matters confidence is FAR more important than looks
Edit: sounds like a douchebag who realized he fucked up
Can I ask you something
maybe your boyfriend was in a hurry
Dump that idiot!! Love a guy who admires you!!!
He did say he'll stop by for a few minutes so dont take it to heart
Let me see. I'll make you feel better
You are good , your boyfriend thinks wrong
You are perfect ❤
How did he reject you?
But you said he’s stopping for 5 minuets, he might has work to do, don’t cry