Guys, am I overacting to this? I found in my husband's google history that he had been looking at p*rn!

[Lovemuffin31]

So I found in my husband's google history that he had been looking at p*rn and other things for over a year without me knowing. I can let the p*rn stuff go, but 2 searches in particular really bothered me. One was 18 yr old in tights and the other teens putting on tights. I asked him about this and he said it meant 18 and 19 yr olds. And the girls from what I saw did look like they were 18+. I told him that p*rn sites will have 18+ but google will pretty much show any age and he said he didn't realize that. He isn't that computer savvy so that could be the case. He only searched this once and all of his other searches were relating to tights and pantyhose so I'm thinking it was more about that then the age. I am also bothered by the fact that he kept all of this a secret and also that he never asked me to wear tights if that was such a fantasy of his. I work in a office and I wear tights all the time and he never said anything. He did also search for anal virgins which I know it's just chicks having anal for the first time, but of coarse they were young too. This has bothered me to the point where I've been contemplating divorce. I just need some insight into a guy's mind about all of this. Is it common for men to look stuff like that up? What should I think about all of this? by the way, he's 42 and I'm 31. Been married 10 years and have 2 kids.

[Anonymous]

Are your kids girls?