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Sexual Health Guys (and girls), what are your thoughts on pegging?
_littlekitten13 Xper 4
For those who don't know what it means, pegging is a guy being fucked up the arse by a girl wearing a strap on. For the past year I've been more and more aroused at the thought of demasculating my partner and fucking him senseless. Being in control and making him wail like a little bitch as I fuck his tight little hole and he is bound up. Not only the thought of being a fem dom/dominatrix turn me on (a lot) but even just non bondage/hardcore sex with a man. I'm bisexual, and me and my partner have only just begun to dive into this ever growing fantasy of mine. He is a bit apprehensive when it comes to me doing him, but he's let me put a finger or two and a small vibrator up there, and lick it and he seemed to enjoy it a lot. We was talking about it today and he was wondering how other guys feel about this and what they think, as before I mentioned my fantasies to him he'd never really thought about or considered this kind of stuff. And I know a lot of guys wouldn't freely admit liking the idea of girls playing with or fucking their assholes, which in a way I understand but find it stupid. It's not needed, everyone should be allowed to be their own person and not get hated for it. So - what are your thoughts guys? Would you consider it? Do you secretly like the idea but haven't told anyone? Have you done it before? Did you like it? Would you do it again? Etc etc, I'd like to hear your stories. Also girls! Ladies, what do you think about this? 🙂 Thanks! ☺️
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By the way, another I enjoy the thought of pegging is pleasing the man in a way that he has never felt before. I have heard that a males anal orgasm can be super intense and amazing. I'd love to make my man feel how I do when he makes me cum, or even better! Pleasing my man has always been a huge turn on for me and experimenting in new ways of doing so excites me a lot. 😉
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12 51I've been pegged by my girl several times. It's really hot and it feels amazing. She will peg me while I'm on my back and stroke me until I cum. It's the best feeling ever.
I think it is an incredibly hot prospect, but I would not be quite as enthusiastic hearing you use language about wanting it to hurt. Make it about pleasing my prostate and I'll grab my ankles and bend right over.
Oh god, no I don't want it to hurt him! When I said wailing I meant from pleasure. 😣😅
In that case, sign me up ;)
I am very open minded with stuff like that. So I would try it.
Awesome. :)
its not for me and its never gonna be.
Also what do you mean with emasculating him?
Like with the power play that can be included in pegging, most woman really like to get into the role of being the man if you get what I mean? In my case, not every one but most of my fantasies about pegging are with the guy tied and bound up, with a choker chain leash or something similar, and eventually gagged, I'd like to hear him beg but shut him up once I no longer want to hear him whining. I'd punish him and call him my little bitch, use him as furniture, deny him from touching me whilst I play with myself inches from his face. Deny him from orgasm. Then, I'd get him to suck my cock and tell me how much he likes it, how much he can't wait for me to slide it into his ass. Slap him in the face with it, and if he doesn't tell me how much he wants my cock and so on I'd spank him and punish him until he says it. Then I'd bend him over, put a gimp mask and a gag in him and have my way with him, telling him how he's a little sissy boy taking my big cock up his ass and wailing.
I apologise for being graphic and going on a bit, I got a bit carried away... 😅
No i am not into that stuff. I dont mind if the girl is in the dominant position but it has to be in a loving way not like that.
Well I see it as bondage incorporated with pegging, there's always after care and between I'd give him a kiss or what not, but when me and my partner do bondage and he's the dominant one and does similar stuff to me I know that he loves me and visa versa, we have a safe word and we both speak openly about what we like and dislike, limits etc. :)
It would never be bondage and Dom/sub scenes without cuddling and kissing afterwards. I'm too gay for that shit. :p
Im just not into these things. I dont want sex without love and affection during the action. If there's no love then i can't orgasm and i dont to either.
I have had it done before , I like it and wouldn't mind it occasionally.
I didn't think girls really liked to lick guys like that lol, I just thought girls thought we were to stinky for that.
Close minded much...
I'm not closed minded jeez
I always enjoy seeing people not being afraid to express themselves. I am a huge fan of pegging as you can see.
I started with simple experimenting by myself with a butt-plug and then progressed to an actual strap-on that I put on a blow-up doll and rolled the dice from there. My wife has pegged me a handful of times, but overal it just isn't her thing, so if I do get in the mood she will setup the blow-up doll and strap-on for me and tell me to enjoy myself. Irony is seeing me play is what usually turns her on and that is when she usually steps in and pegs me.
But as I digress, pegging is a blast as long as you take your time and have the right tools. Don't cheap out, get a silicon dildo, get a good harness, and get plenty of lube. Stick away from any desensitizing creams as if you are doing it right it won't hurt, and you want to be able to feel if it does.
P. S. I would also suggest a ball-gag, I mean if you are going to dominate him, might as well go all out. LOL
I like it but I Know a guy that hates it, right?
@hotstuffSRD
I don't hate it ! It's just that I ain't gonna do that cause I don't like it 😂😂😂
@hotstuffSRD and why don't you like it? 😋
I don't know ma'am I just find it gross So it's better to stay away from my butt 😂
No, fuck no.
But id love to fuck you senseless
Unlucky. 😋
You are so damn sexy, i hope you know that.
My wife and I tried it. I myself loved it, and would happily make it a regular part of our sex lives. But my wife sadly didn't like it. So now it remains a fantasy of mine. Just the whole idea of me being on my hands and knees while she fucks me is soooo hot 🔥
Never done it but would be uo for it
WTF ! Pegging use to mean shooting a penny at someone just enough that it hurt but didn't do damage! I'd peg people with bent coins shot from a rubber band sling shot!
Your thinking of strap on sex !!! NO Thats F*CKED UP
The world is forever changing my friend. :p
I've been looking for a girl to peg me for quite a while. No luck so far. I enjoy using dildos on myself while I'm masturbating. However, it's more of the thought of being submissive to a woman and giving her control to make me squirm as she pounds my ass that turns me on. The anal stimulation would just be a bonus. I'd love a woman to pound my ass silly and stroke me as I shoot into my mouth. You are so awesome to be open to doing that!!!
It's a shame, because both ways round a lot of people find it hard to 'come out' with fantasies and fetishes like this, amongst other things. If only we could live in a more simple and kind world, eh? That's sounds hot. ;) one day maybe, we'll find someone willing enough to let us live out our fantasies haha. Thank you! :) it means a lot. I was kind of worried about posting about this kind of stuff and sharing my opinions with other GAG users but may as well just cut the crap and get down to it. :) if people are going to judge, dislike or frown upon me because I like this then it's their loss - and I'll be better without dicks like that in my life!
A simple and kind world sounds good right about now. I'll keep looking. Hope to find someone. I've found that people who judge you are not worth your time. Keep on sharing what makes you feel comfortable. Let the cards fall where the May. You are super awesome!
thanks but i'll have to decline that offer.
This sounds like you have some ideas but one of my fantasies.
I am blindfolded and bound on my hands and knees. Locked in a chastity cage. First she makes me suck on her strap-on before she moves around for pentation.
Where it gets kinky is while being pegged i am forced to start sucking again.
I think it's just wrong, soo wrong!
Why?
Don't know but I think it's correct that backdoor is only for exit, the same applies to men and women
I used to think like that until I discovered fox tail butt plugs. :p
my opinian will be never change,
My girlfriend likes to play with my butt, I can take a tongue or a finger massage, even a spanking but I can't abide pegging. Seems like it hurts, I don't want anything big in my behind.
I see, interesting, how can it seem like it hurts if you've never tried it before? :p
Easy, lol jamming something big into something small seems painful. Tell me then, is it painful?
I'd do it. I've been pegged but never like your talking about. I think I would enjoy it more know I had absolutely no control for once
I think there's a difference in Femdom pegging which uses demasculinization as part of the experience vs a girl pegging and doing it for his pleasure
I've pegged a couple guys, I normally liked to be the one tied and fucked but it was fun! Tying them up definitely made it hotter 😜. Have you tried this asker?