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Sexual Health Guys (and girls), what are your thoughts on pegging?
_littlekitten13 Xper 4
For those who don't know what it means, pegging is a guy being fucked up the arse by a girl wearing a strap on. For the past year I've been more and more aroused at the thought of demasculating my partner and fucking him senseless. Being in control and making him wail like a little bitch as I fuck his tight little hole and he is bound up. Not only the thought of being a fem dom/dominatrix turn me on (a lot) but even just non bondage/hardcore sex with a man. I'm bisexual, and me and my partner have only just begun to dive into this ever growing fantasy of mine. He is a bit apprehensive when it comes to me doing him, but he's let me put a finger or two and a small vibrator up there, and lick it and he seemed to enjoy it a lot. We was talking about it today and he was wondering how other guys feel about this and what they think, as before I mentioned my fantasies to him he'd never really thought about or considered this kind of stuff. And I know a lot of guys wouldn't freely admit liking the idea of girls playing with or fucking their assholes, which in a way I understand but find it stupid. It's not needed, everyone should be allowed to be their own person and not get hated for it. So - what are your thoughts guys? Would you consider it? Do you secretly like the idea but haven't told anyone? Have you done it before? Did you like it? Would you do it again? Etc etc, I'd like to hear your stories. Also girls! Ladies, what do you think about this? 🙂 Thanks! ☺️
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By the way, another I enjoy the thought of pegging is pleasing the man in a way that he has never felt before. I have heard that a males anal orgasm can be super intense and amazing. I'd love to make my man feel how I do when he makes me cum, or even better! Pleasing my man has always been a huge turn on for me and experimenting in new ways of doing so excites me a lot. 😉
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12 51I've never fantasised about it, I have never thought much about it, but I'd be open to trying it. I'm quite an open-minded person as long as the relationship is purely monogamous.
Agreed. :)
No, the idea of a penis size shaped object going through my ass just disgusts me. I don't care if others are into it. Just not gonna happen with me.
I wanna try a prostate massage with fingers though.
I'm hoping it wouldn't go through your ass 😣 But I get what you mean. Would you want to do that or let a woman/man do it to you?
Yeah I really want to try prostate massagebut from a woman and from her fingers. There's like the male version of the g spot. I heard its amazing.
Yeah I really want to *receive a prostate massage, but from a woman, and from her fingers only or a small toy. Just no dildo shape. There's like the male version of the g spot. I heard its amazing. I wouldn't wanna have anal with a woman either.
I wouldn't want to do anal with anyone as the giver. No ass fucking or anything like that of the sort. But prostate massages from women, I'm open to!
Yeahhhh, no.
Never done it because none of my girlfriends asked. I would be open to trying it, though. I don't see how anything done with a girl can make someone gay like so many people seem to think about this.
It's because people these days are dumb and close minded, 'if anything goes up a guys ass that makes them gay lol'. It's immature. 😑
Yes, completely agree with you on that.
My butt is exit only B|
In all seriousness, it just doesn't interest / appeal to me.
I used to/still do sometimes use that line. 😂
Pegginng or what it was known in 1980's as strap sex sounds interesting. I would like a blonde bikini babe do it to me.
It is rather interesting. :p
no faggot
It doesn't make you a faggot?
so ignorant. get with the times, grandpa
@Mydnite 😂👌🏼
I think it is a fairly common opinion of many men, regardless of age. Anyway, I have no experience of pegging with a strap on. However, a woman used a dildo on me and there have been a few times. Once we do that, then I have been on the back usually, she penetrates me with the dildo and it is done very slowly and sensually. She lets the dildo slide in and out gently with a slow pace increase and finally, I get an orgasm, twice as strong and intense :)
I've never done that, but I would like to try it. I want to find a girlfriend that would want to pretty much switch roles almost completely. I still want to have sex and penetrate her too with her on top, but I want her to feminize me and live a femdom life style. I mean outside the bedroom too. Woman almost always in charge and dominant every day.
Why have you not tried it, if you don't mind me asking? I like the idea of what you've said, I'm a switch. I prefer to be submissive with my partner but have fantasied a lot about being the dominant one and being in control of a guy, being the guy myself per say. :p
Because it is way too hard to find a dominant girl for a long term relationship. Not someone that would just try to use me, but I want a relationship with trust and to feel loved and cared about, so I would feel comfortable handing control over to her. If I did find a girl like that I would be very happy. I would like her to be in charge almost all the time eventually, including when we have a family together. I want her to be dominant inside and outside the bedroom. I wouldn't want my relatives or friends to know, the couple times per month I would see them, but it would be ok if she let her friends know. And depending on what city we lived in, I may even let her be obviously dominant in public too. I want to be more the girl in the relationship, and the girl can be the man. ;) Do you think it's good like that?
Ah, I see. That's unfortunate. :/ but I agree with you, I don't think I'd feel ok meeting a guy, having a few drinks, fucking him then leaving and not seeing him again. But it's a lot different for the men because obviously they're the ones getting penetrated and what not. Doing something like that without having a connection with each other would just make it uncomfortable in more than one way for those involved. 😣 Sounds interesting, it sounds like what me and my partner are like. :P although sometimes I wish he were a bit more dominant in day to day life and in public also. ;) Personally it shouldn't matter what I think as it would be up to you and whomever you end up with to define the ins and outs of your relationship and how it would work, but I don't see anything wrong with the life you have almost planned out. Not at all. :)
Thanks. I am glad that someone agrees with me. Maybe some day I will find the right dominant girlfriend then.
You're welcome. :) good luck! I'm sure you'll find her. :p
Not into anal. But if a girl I liked wanted it sexually, I'd make the sacrifice to let her at least try it one time.
I would need to have a very intimate relationship and a really high amount of trust in that person. I would like her to have pleasure while doing it too, and not just pegging me out of nowhere.
In fact, I imagine a double side dildo both for ass, and with us facing each other, and me fucking her in V. Guess it defeats the definition of pegging, but this would also be part of the fantasy if we'd ever agree on pegging.
Agreed, I wouldn't like to peg my partner if he found no pleasure in it. I'd feel like a user... But me and him have a very close relationship and love each other very much. I liked the idea of having a double sided one, I see a 'strapless strap on' which the girl wears in her fu fu (my name for vagina haha) and the dildo obviously goes up the guys butt. :p
Yeah, that is common. The reason I mentioned both in the ass, is so that me and her can share similar sensations to what is happening at the same time ;) (also feeling similar amounts of stretch, pain, pleasure, etc)
It's just part of the fantasy for me. It makes it better in my mind.
Plus, I don't really like the old in and out, and much more just the "staying there", you know? So pegging would cause discomfort for me if she went full speed (cause it's different than an uncut dick) (as you can see, still on the same mindset of sharing the same feelings as she would in anal)
Yeah, although I'm not super duper keen on anal myself, it would only be fair to feel how he is feeling. It would be very interesting doing it that way also. ;) And I very much agree with that - maybe it's because it wasn't very well practiced in the past but my previous experiences with anal I haven't really enjoyed as the in and out felt very uncomfortable. But recently I discovered tail butt plugs (as I'm really into pet play) and I like the feeling of that going in, not moving for a while (with the exception of a tug every now and then) and then being taken out. I enjoy that very much. :p
Yeah, going in is nice. Taking out.. not so much. Glad I went anonymous on this one xD #nohomo
It doesn't make you homo if it's with a girl, I don't understand why guys and girls thinks it makes guys gay or a homo as you say! >_<
Let's just say I got some virtual friends in here, and they would be surprized to find out about those things. Like I said before, I'd need to have a very serious relation with such people to disclose these things. It's not homo at all, and most men don't know what they're missing.. just saying..
I like the idea of trying it and getting pegged by my girlfriend. however I don't like the power play that it is associated with it. I don't mind my girlfreind having more power over me and enjoying it. I just don't like being degraded by dirty talk. I do like things in my ass and I would most likely enjoy it with enough lube. I do like it when my girl talks dirty but I don't like domination on either side. I don't think that my girl freind would try to demasculate me during it but I think that she might get to into the role. I don't know Ill have to ask her about it. She did say that getting pegged was the only way that she would even let me touch her ass with my manhood.
Interesting. Yeah, speak to your girlfriend about it, it would be interesting to hear what she thinks. I don't mean to sound like a pervert but the opinions and stories about this subject intrigues me. I can relate on that one, it's became almost a bargain between me and my partner. He really likes the idea of doing me up the butt, and visa versa, but both of us aren't 100% on it but considering we both like the idea we're going to try and work each other up to it. :p
Lol well since you like hearing about it you will probably like this question. www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2082709-is-it-weird-i-m-excited
eep I just talked with her and she wants to try pegging me. She already had the strap on ordered it arrived two weeks ago. She was just waiting for me to ask her about banging in her back door again. Well after talking with her we agreed to try it tomorrow after we get off of work for the day and I clean out my ass. She promised to not get to drunk with power and to not insult my manhood. I hope that I will be able to fit that thing up my ass it actually looked pretty big for my first time. Is that how a lot of women feel on their first time with a dick?
Ah that's so cool! How are you feeling about it? :p I'm excited for you, haha. Yeah, better clean up properly you don't want to be getting any fudge over her dick. ;) >_< Yeah that's how it feel, it's pretty daunting to start with but once it's in and you get going it's not such a worry. Vaginal sex is different because the more aroused you are the looser and wetter your pussy will be, but your ass doesn't do the same. I suggest you use a lot of lube! Try anal relaxing lube, I've got some and it does help. :) You'll have to let me know how it goes, I hope you both enjoy it. :p
I'll try to let you know how it goes in. I'm both excited and hesitant. I have never been very submissive. I also have to remember to relax. What are some positions that you would recommend?
I don't blame you - my partner feels the same as he's always been the dominant one and me being 5'1" and he 6'1"ish, it wouldn't seem right me being the man. :L Yes, you do indeed. If you are not mentally comfortable, or physically, it obviously isn't going to feel very nice. As I've learnt myself. 😣 Use lots of lube, there's never too much lube! Hm, I have a few ideas. Obviously doggy style, another where you're laying on your front and she's either squating or almost laying on top of you but kept up by her arms, or ones like spooning or you on your back and her infront (so basically missionary) so she can play with your dick while she's.. Ya know. ;) I'm not an expert but I hope I have helped!
No woman ain't pegging me i 'm the only one who will be doing that to her
i love it
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